Some days are harder than others. Making decisions for others is never easy. I am naturally an over thinker. And with that comes the what ifās. So many that there are times I struggle with my decision making.
Most of my decisions really boil down to the safety of my family and friends. When I decided to have kids I knew that would be a part of it but I didnāt realize how much. There are days that I agonize over a decision that I made or a statement that I made that may have come across as uncaring or unloving. Those are the times when I really beat myself up mentally.
I understand that words matter and actions matter and so I give thought and pause to decisions. Ā
We are all connected. Our decisions and our actions affect others.
No Iām not trying to say that we need to be perfect kind creatures every single day because honestly weāre not. There are days when I donāt even want to look at another person which is very few and far between because I love people. But on those days I have to remind myself through Memes or positive affirmations that we are all connected. Ā
We should be able to Ā offer a fair shake because I donāt know what someone else might be going through and I donāt know what their life is about . I hold hope that they would give me the same thoughts and courtesies and obviously not everyone will but that doesnāt mean that I shouldnāt try. What kind of world do I wanna live in? A place where we dislike each other for simple words or a place where we learn to work together because we need each other.</p>
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