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all women should be more hairy and sweaty and eat more food and laugh more loudly. my stance as a feminist and also my stance as a lesbian pervert
Hey i’m a fashion design student so i have tons and tons of pdfs and docs with basic sewing techniques, pattern how-tos, and resources for fabric and trims. I’ve compiled it all into a shareable folder for anyone who wants to look into sewing and making their own clothing. I’ll be adding to this folder whenever i come across new resources
https://drive.google.com/drive/folders/16uhmMb8kE4P_vOSycr6XSa9zpmDijZSd?usp=sharing
Updated just now with new hand sewing resources (mainly buttonholes) and textbook pdfs on fashion history, fashion illustration, and thinking through designs!
OP I owe you my life
OP you are the greatest person currently in my life. You beautiful, thoughtful creature.
You are a saint thank you so much
@thiamma look!
the thing about phone in bed is that it's so awesome. almost makes you feel like betraying & destroying yourself for nothing isn't all so bad
being scene/emo on a budget!
it can be rough out there if ur poor and cant afford hot topic and spencer’s prices here are some resources and ideas to be scemo on the cheap!
1: diy band shirts!
band shirts are extremely pricey, and not everyone has a hot topic close by that they can go to to check the clearance rack.
how to make cardboard stencils
hanes crew neck t-shirts sell for about 5-6 dollars at dollar general (depending on the size), and plain fruit of the loom t shirts cost 3-6 dollars at walmart
tubes of acrylic paint like this usually cost about 99 cents wherever you go
acrylic paint holds up pretty well in the wash, but if the design fades, keep the stencils around to touch up the shirt
2: bracelets!
rubber bracelets are always overpriced. its always 10 bucks per what is honestly just an over glorified rubber band.
kandi is cost effective, customizable, and quintessentially scemo.
at dollar tree you can find baggies of beads in several verities, pony/stars/lettering. all for a dollar.
if you can afford it, bulk packages of pony beads like these sell for around ~10-15 dollars. id say it’s worth the price sense you’re getting it in bulk.
a 10 yard spool of elastic string costs about 1-2 dollars at michaels, and various spools at walmart cost anywhere from 1-5 dollars.
3: bottoms!
this ones a little hard bc denim and bottoms in general are always gonna cost a bit more than shirts. but we all gotta wear pants.
how to distress jeans how to distress jeggings how to distress tights (video)
jeans are always pretty pricey, but the cheaper jeggins at walmart go for about 6-16 dollars. tights can be found at walmart ranging from 3-15 dollars
4: makeup!
dollar store makeup can sometimes be harsh on the skin, depending on what you buy. however, ELF is a cheap makeup brand that has, in my experience, always treated me right.
this eyeliner pot is 3 dollars and is a must have. just dip your finger in and smear til you got the desired effect. mine lasted me all 4 years of highschool until i misplaced it in a move.
a cool little trick if you’re having trouble finding a good black lipstick that doesnt break the bank: apply the eyeliner to your lips and then apply a coat of lip balm or clear lip gloss. it actually lasts pretty long and hardly fades.
also, check this pallete out. 10 dollars.
look at these bold colors! the red, purples, and black would make even Ebony Dark'ness Dimentia Raven Way blush.
ELF can be found at walmart, target, and online at their store. ELF is also cruelty free!
5: shrinky dinks!
how to make shrinky dinks
the article doesnt mention this, but you dont need to purchase the shinky dink sheets. if you have any #6 plastic from packaging, you can use that! (shrinky sink plastic sheets also price around 3-10 dollars if you’d prefer to use the sheets)
packs of colored permanent markers cost ~6-12 dollars
make charms for bracelets, phones, and necklaces! trace designs from the internet or freehand your own!
6: halloween stores!
when its in season you can find plenty of deals! looking around i found a neon eyeshadow pallete for three dollars and neon tights for 10!
7: decorating your room!
posters are way too expensive, thankfully though there is an alternative
ups offers a service to be able to print off 8.5x11 sheets of paper for about 2$ in black and white and 2.50$ in color per page ( of course this depends on how much ink you use)
your local library may also offer the same service, give or take a couple bucks depending on your library. do note though you may need to purchase a library card if you dont already have one as some libraries require you to have one to use the service.
just fill up a word document with your desired pictures, pay, print, cut, and pin to your wall.
another alternative is to trace what you want by hand! cartoon characters, band logos, anything, just trace, color, cut, and pin. this is actually a pretty fun activity even if you’re not good at drawing as trace jobs still look pretty good.
a simple 12 pack of crayola colored pencils can be found for around 3-5 dollars if you dont already have some laying around.
here’s my example as I do this as well:
8: thrifting!
you’d be suprised how much you can find at thrift stores, ppl leaving leaving scemo behind. ive personally been able to find those studded belts you usually buy at spencers and things like converse and big black boots. making regular visits to local thrift stores, you’re bound to find something.
9: fingerless gloves!
how to make fingerless gloves out of socks:
of course you can also find some plain gloves and cut the fingers off, but sometimes socks have really cool/cute patterns that would make great fingerless gloves/arm warmers.
so, thats all i have for now, and feel free to add your own ideas!
https://archiveofourown.org/works/81874976/chapters/215394621
dennis reynolds voice Oh Ilya you dumb bitch
Girl whose most frequent mistake is inaction voice: wow I keep making mistakes I better not do anything
i get so miserable off that scenario i made up in my head
refusal to participate due to self consciousness is actually more embarrassing than participating. it took me a very long time to figure that out. abject fear of embarrassment is actually causing you to do things that are more embarrassing than what you fear. you are gonna be embarrassed anyway. let go and be free
me? Choosing the self destructive path instead of doing the right thing ??? U kno it
something cool about queering your idea of sex is that you can walk out of a heavy make out session feeling like you had the rawest sex of your life. you can be sitting close at a bar kissing them and maybe you’ve found a way to sit so your knee is discreetly between their thighs and feeling the pleasure it gives them and then feeling them give that pleasure to you. you can be looking each other in the eye and you can feel them inside you from that alone. like you want to tear their clothes off and are hungry for the feeling of their skin and their closeness but even just this feels like heaven, feels connected to them in the deep place where pleasure comes from.
a list of things that are sex if you’re gay enough about it and you want it to be:
feeling their desirous gaze on you while you put in drink orders at the bar
holding hands on the way home from the date and it feels like a foreshadowing of what you’re going to do to each other when you get there
heavy breathing on the phone when they’re touching themself to the sound of your voice
grinding in a weird position where you’re both like ???? why does this feel so good????
literally just eye contact
“When I was a dominatrix, I once rubbed balloons all over a man for seventy-five dollars. He would’ve called it sex. I would’ve called it work. It was mutually consensual, and I think we were both correct in our assessment.
If your sex is balloons, if it is blowing raspberries on your lover’s belly, if it happens fully clothed ir in furry costumes, if it happens in a group or alone — give it the same gravity, the same reverence or irreverence as all the tiresome scenes of heterosexual penetration we all grew up reading. … There is no marginal erotic unless you sideline it.”
Melissa Febos, Body Work
HOW TO FEEL YOUR FEELINGS, 2021, by Yumi Sakugawa
not feeling your best?
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disability accessible recipes
tips for baking with brain fog
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the nine delights
different ways to rest
in-depth self care assessment
what to do when you've had a bad day
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how to feel your feelings
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This might suck to hear, but if you're a people pleaser that is motivated by praise and avoids disagreements, you are easy to manipulate.
When I was in therapy after surviving years of domestic violence, my therapist had to tell me that my personality was primed for abuse and we needed to work on that so I would be better equipped to see the red flags and respond appropriately in the future.
I'm still working on this, and it's been 8 years. If you tell someone how you want to be treated, what behaviors you don't tolerate in your life, what you're looking for in that relationship, and they react negatively, don't compromise yourself. Just move on.
This one's for all the praise-kink girlies: differentiate, self-actualize, stay sexy
This resonated with more people than I thought, so here are some phrases to practice when you would normally default to people pleasing:
I'm not comfortable with that.
I'd rather not, but thank you for the offer!
You're welcome to disagree, but that's not something I'm okay with.
No.
It's personal, and I'd prefer to keep it private.
That doesn't work for me. How about x
I respect your opinion, but I'd rather do it my way.
That is behavior that I don't tolerate.
To each their own.
I'm not looking for feedback right now, but if I'm looking for input later, I'll let you know.
Oh, I'm not sure I agree; I thought x
When you did/said x, I wasn't okay with that.
I don't accept your apology.
I can accept your apology once you've addressed the problem.
Hey, could you help me with x?
I need to stop.
I need some time to myself.
Just remember, your thoughts, feelings, and opinions are what make you unique, and you can change your mind later, so don't be afraid to say them out loud. Work through things. Don't dodge them.
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