I'm a drifters body in an open sea;

My mind is in shambles and my heart is yours for the taking. I like bad jokes and long walks to the fridge. Aquarius ♒ | Leo ♌ | ☾ Taurus ♉

[mikhellya]

[invaderxan]

TBH, collecting pretty rocks and stuff is both something which I would do and something which would impress me

[v01dgalaxy]

[thefingerfuckingfemalefury]

That gif has a Very Evil Energy

[lettersfromadreamgirl]

my hidden talents include romanticising everything, oversharing, crying, and overthinking 

[lovelustquotes]

[hell-homer]

[alyptic]

I haven’t had to worry about having a period in an entire year. I might cry when it finally returns.

[weloveshortvideos]

when she touches you so you touch her back

[fuks]

[alyptic]

That's me with daisy whenever she starts jumping all over me hahahah

[welcometoyouredoom]

[madame-melodrama]

“Making a Murderer” is making me ugly cry. It is so transparently obvious that Brendan Dassey is not bright. It is obvious that he is simple with a childlike capacity to want to please those in authority. And to see him on the stand not knowing the difference between a foot and a yard. To see him even name the book that he got his references from. To see the tape with the cops emotionally manipulating him to say what they want to hear. It is so heartbreaking. And to further ask him how does he feel. And then badger him when, like a child, he speaks on feelings regarding himself, not the victim. Ugh. I cannot take it. Steven Avery may or may not be guilty, but Brendan Dassey is clearly not.

All it makes me think of is the Hatfields and the McCoys, where the fall guy was  a man that clearly was mentally and emotionally still a child. 

Or the West Memphis Three.

As Steven Avery said, “the poor always lose.”

[bunlly]

Why is it that life speeds up when we are happy and slows down so much when we’re in pain?

Ioana Cristina Casapu (via lazypacific)

[alyptic]

Riley is 20 days old today which means she won’t be a newborn for much longer.  :(

[mommydelirious-blog]

5 Reasons You Can Stop Referring to C-Sections as “The Easy Way Out”

Sometimes the grass looks greener on the other side of the birthing suite if you know what I mean. I thought Id clear up a bit of my patch of grass and dispel the myth that c sections are the “easy way out”.

1) Its not the easy way out! Bear with me. So the vagina is MADE for this shit. It opens like a beautiful magical flower to let your bundle of joy into the world. Sure its hard. Sure it gets beat up but it’s doing what its supposed to do. You get 10 glorious centimeters to squeeze your babe out of while a c section incision is usually about 4-6 inches of non stretchy abdomen and right into the uterus. No. Youre right that shit aint natural! My babies were 9lb10oz and 10lb’s! I don’t wanna know what kind of maneuvering is going on down there.

2) It’s Surgery. Its become so common that we forget that its legitimately surgery with risks and complications. You’re not only putting your life in someones hands but also, literally putting your baby’s life in someones hands. Infection is a possibility and I PROMISE you rubbing antibacterial ointment on an incision you can’t see yet cause its hidden under a baby induced FUPA is a horribly unnerving experience.

3)Bed-rest Isn’t An Option. Especially if this isn’t your first child. They recommend taking a breather for 6 whole weeks. No matter how good intended your family might be you still have to get up because you’re a mom. Who else is going to feed the 3 year old when they have to eat RIGHT.NOW and your partner is going for the Guinness World Record for “Longest Pretend Dump While On Iphone”?

4)You Still Just Had A Baby. It may not have came out of the built in slip n slide but I promise you that our experiences are similar.Engorgement, sleep deprivation, stitches, etc. Plus the post op instructions and wound care.

5)The “Best” Of Both Worlds. Many times a c section happens after labor doesn’t go right. Count me in that area. I went through 9 cm’s of dilation without an epidural and huffed and puffed but couldn’t get that baby down. So while some might think it was easier for a friend to have their baby taken out surgically than have it the old fashioned way..that person just may be thinking it would have been better if they actually could have just chosen one.

In the end its a lot less about how they get here and a lot more about what we do with them after that. We all worked hard to get them out and will spend the next 20+ years wondering why the hell we were in such a big hurry to do that.

(And yes there IS a supernatural gif for EVERYTHING)

[alyptic]

If I ever take longer than five minutes to feed Riley she angrily shakes her head at me as she latches on. It's so cute.

[overthebabybump]

"Stock up on sleep before the baby gets here!

Back sleeping: heartburn. Side sleeping: hip cramps. Belly sleeping: you’re funny.

Getting up to pee every half hour.

Anxiety about life after baby keeping me up until ridiculous hours.

Waking up early for OBGYN appointments.

Sorry, what did you say?

[lmaoooo]

[5000letters]

but it really is so important to find people who don’t lose patience with you or get angry if you’re being irrational or insecure or downright ridiculous, it is so so necessary to be treated with gentleness from loved ones and not to be made to feel like you’re irritating or a burden