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[amia-ami]

masterlist of all my flag posts since it was requested

RULES FOR FLAG REQUESTS!

What I will do: lesser known flags, (some) contradictory labels, alternate versions of well known flags, (most) xenogenders

What I won’t do: radqueer/transid flags, bdsm/sexual culture flags (ex. bear, leather, etc), harmful contradictory labels

Post #1 flags included: lesbian, gay, bisexual, biromantic, pansexual, pan romantic, asexual, demisexual, demiboy, demigirl, transgender, boyflux, nonbinary, transfeminine, transmasculine, aroace, aromantic, agender, genderfluid, bigender, girlflux, genderqueer, omnisexual, heterosexual, polysexual, berrisexual, almondsexual, apagender, graysexual, abrosexual

Post #2

flags included: omniromantic, demiromantic, arospike, acespike, nebulasexual, nebularomantic, androsexual, pangender, pomosexual, intersex, polyamorous, agenderfluix, genderfae, genderfaun, gynesexual, heteroromantic

Request #1

flags included: aegosexual, gynesexual

Request #2

flags included: femme

Post #3

flags included: sapphic, achillean, berriromantic, almondromantic, gaybian, lesboy, quoimasc, quoifem, trigender, demigender

Post #4 flags included: xenogender

Post #5 flags included: acespec, gender non-conforming, (alt) bigender, grayromantic, cupiosexual, cupioromantic, aceflux, aroflux, faesari, faunsari, queer, abroromantic, bicurious, (alt) polyamorous, genderflor

Request #3 flags included: apagender, clowngender, vampgender, stargender, dollgender, sungender, demixenogender, heteroflexible, queer platonic Post #6

flags included: (alt) transmasculine, (alt) transfeminine, pomoromantic, librafemme, libramasc, libragender, diamoric, uranic, neptunic, beauboy, beaugirl, homoflexible Post #7

flags included: fraysexual, frayromantic, rosgirl, lithosexual, azurboy, bellussexual, bellusromantic, homoromantic, librafluid, azurgirl, recipromantic, reciprosexual, multigender, (alt)acespike, (alt)arospike

Will update if I make more! Thanks @saphrineaus for suggesting I make a masterlist 🥹🥹

PLEASE REQUEST MORE FLAGS IM SO BORED!!!!

[amia-ami]

I’m bored and my best friend is passed out across from me what do I do

[amia-ami]

Ok flag requests

You want some

Aegoromantic

Aegosexual

aegorose (the 2 mixed together)

orented aroace

idk these are mine so

Yeh

something about the aego flags tickles my brain in a good way… here you go!!

[alpaca-clouds]

Okay, let's talk about kids and needles.

Because under the post about giving minors the right to medically consent, people are spreading a ton of misinformation on this - largely because they just do not question the stuff they just assume are "normal". Which here is: "kids are all afraid of needles and therefore if we let them consent or not to medical proceedures, they would just not consent and not get vaccinations, because needles hurt".

And, look. Here is the thing: no, needles do not actually hurt a whole lot. And while, yes, certain procedures that involve being stabbed by a needle hurt more if you are younger for a bunch of reasons... that is actually not the main reason children fear needles. Because, again: the pain is not that bad. And most kids, especially young kids, whose motor skills are still developing, usually will have a bunch more hurting scratches, bruises and the like at any given moment than there will be pain from the needle.

No, from what research can tell, the main reason kids are afraid of needles, is more that for many of them needle procedures are very traumatizing. And that is largely because of the consent issue.

Imagine you are a person who is still pretty darn new to that whole human thing. So for one, yes, your brain is actually not that great in understanding what pain is dangerous and what pain is a safe limit of pain. So yes, someone intentionally hurting you (like with a needle) is really kinda scary. But then there is also the thing where this person hurting you is not telling you why they are doing. The people who you normally trust with keeping you safe (your family) is betraying you, by just holding you down and scolding you for crying over it. Or maybe it is not your family, but some strange nurse who is holding you. And while you are scared, because someone is intentionally hurting you, while someone else is restricting you, the adults around you are telling you, that your emotional reaction to this is actually bad and you are wrong for reacting that way. They might in fact lie to you and tell you that something that is insanely scary to you is "not that bad", instead of just understanding that it is super scary to you. And that is then what you start to expect whenever you see a doctor prepare a needle: people holding you down, hurting you without reason, and telling you that you are wrong for being upset, actively gaslighting you.

We have research on this. And this research is pretty clear: most kids are actually somewhat okay with needles, if you inform them why you are doing it, allow for them to have their emotions, talk to them about their emotions, and allow for them to set at least some conditions.

And frankly, I hate how many people just accept the framing of "kids are naturally afraid of this because it hurts". Like, folks, I know y'all are fucking Americans and that in your culture it is kinda normalized to like put kids into like some sort of fortified hamsterball to stop them from like doing typical kids stuff. But... let me tell you: if you do not do that, kids will actually very regularly engage in dangerous play that they know will often end up in injuries that are going to hurt. And, no, they are not to dumb to understand that. The kids know that this is what might happen because of their play. They actually just take the risk. Yes, they will cry if they get hurt, because - again - their nervous system is still calibrating how it relates to pain. But they will likely do that thing again and again. I can tell you: I fell down a tree so often during my childhood, and I still climbed it. Again and again. So did most kids I knew. Like, fuck, we lived next to a forest. We played "Tarzan", and tried to go along paths without touching the ground. And we fell. A lot. And we still did it.

It is not the fear of pain that makes kids afraid of doctors. It is the fear of the associated force, and gaslighting.

[takawoyu]

[amia-ami]

oh god this reminds me of when I used to roleplay in royale high in 2019 and I used the fucking “my hair color changes based on my emotions” trope

[syscultureis]

Sys culture is reading a au of your comfort media and wondering why you keep feeling the characters emotions only to figure out said character has appeared in your brain right next to you...... hes highkey a diva tho

-✨🎧

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[amia-ami]

me with tommy and jes (our tsukasa fictives) bro. pro tip for me just don’t read tsukasa tenma angst ever again because we have 2 tsukasa’s now

[xxedas]

listening to tame impala on daily basis really did something to my artworks…

aaaand i dont have it in me to finish this one

[amia-ami]

I LOVE THIS ART SO SO SO SO MUCH IT IS SO FUCKING INCREDIBLE AND AMAZING BUT GENUINELY THE FIRST THING I THOUGHT OF WAS THIS IMAGE BRO

[gruesome-divine]

hey parents if your kids are avoiding you or are visibly scared of you i think you should contemplate what you did wrong

[amia-ami]

“Oh no way it’s national girlfriend day I sho-“

and then I remember we broke up literally yesterday

[amia-ami]

ykw happy national girlfriend day @clowndogg1 you have been promoted to platonic girlfriend for today and only today

[clowndogg1]

awwwwww geez 😁😁

[amia-ami]

awww so cute

[amia-ami]

“Oh no way it’s national girlfriend day I sho-“

and then I remember we broke up literally yesterday

[amia-ami]

ykw happy national girlfriend day @clowndogg1 you have been promoted to platonic girlfriend for today and only today

[amia-ami]

“Oh no way it’s national girlfriend day I sho-“

and then I remember we broke up literally yesterday

[redstonedust]

nostalgia bait is much less effective when you have memory problems. "hey its that thing from your childhood, don't you love thing from your childhood?" i wouldnt know </3 i forgor.

[this-is-trans-joy]

trans joy is when people do not question my manhood when i tell them my pronouns are not exclusively he/him (i go by it/he/hy).

there's a small but weird population of identity policing ppl who are like "but you have to be transmasc, not a trans man!!!" like pronouns are not gender, people!!!! i am 100% wholly a man and my pronouns are not exclusively he/him, and i love it!!! gender isn't stored in the he/him container!!!

of course those people are the minority but it still makes me happy when people just go with what i say i am instead of trying to change my identity to what they feel i should be.

This is trans joy!!!

[this-is-trans-joy]

it’s crazy people online are still trying to justify hating on trans men lesbians by saying “b-but it’s TRANSPHOBIC to say that MEN can be lesbians!! Are you saying that trans men aren’t REAL men??” acting like we’re talking about transphobes calling trans men lesbians and not transmasc lesbians themselves using that label FOR THEMSELVES like just admit you don’t like contradictory labels and shut the hell up!! You’re not fooling anyone with your bullshit motte and bailey fallacy!!

Anyway shoutout transmasc and trans men lesbians I’m sorry people are so goddamn annoying all the time.

[cr0wleather]

cool uncle

[amia-ami]

i WILL keep reblogging art of grace crossdressing and no one can stop me

[queer-teacher-teto]

Hello, students!

Just so you all know, I’d love if you have any suggestions for lgbtq+ identities to post! I don’t have them in a set order, I just pick whatever I feel like posting that day. Now is your chance to become the teacher yourself and introduce me to labels I haven’t heard of before! :D

[amia-ami]

fun fact I run this blog. I post a new pride flag and it’s definition once a day. go be gay on @queer-teacher-teto and send some recommendations for me to post there… or send recs for the rounded pride flags here.. ok..

[amia-ami]

im coming out im almondromantic and demisexual everybody clap