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•aromantic (aroace?? idk) •she/them •mainly an aro blog •you can call me Arrow :D •any icons i make are ftu w/ credit :D (unless stated otherwise) 🌿 my insta is @aspecs_assemble 🌿 dni please: aro/ace exclusionists, homophobes, biphobes, transphobes, aphobes, terfs, “pro-shippers”, MAPs etc 🌿

[amphibianaday]

Could you please draw a gecko?

day 144

onward, mighty steed!

[raavenb2619]

[ID: The seagull meme. The first panel shows a seagull saying “Hey”. In the second panel, the seagull opens its mouth slightly and says “Do you know what day it is?”. In the third panel, the seagull leans back and opens its mouth a lot. In the fourth panel, the seagull leans forward and screams “It’s transgender day of visibility!”. The last panel is overlaid in the colors of the transgender flag. End ID]

[thearomanticpeach]

Happy Transgender Day Of Visibility to my fellow trans aspecs!💖

[an-aromatic-aromantic]

okay so i don’t know how many of yall have watched the How To Train Your Dragon franchise but there’s a character called Tuffnut and he gives me huge aromantic vibes. more specifically in the tv show (Race To The Edge) where he gets more screentime + development.

like, never once does he get a love interest or show romantic attraction to anybody. literally every other member of the main cast has had a love interest or been romantically attracted to another character at some point, all except him! he doesn’t seem to care for that stuff at all, though he does acknowledge that at some point he’ll probably end up married to a woman (that’s a hetero/amatonormative society for ya).

there’s definitely more, but i don’t want this to get too long, and i’m sorry if this is incoherent. but in conclusion:

[timhortons]

I think I'm falling for you😳

get up

[thearomanticpeach]

I love aromantic people and I love being aromantic. I love our community in all its variety. I feel welcomed and whole here. I feel like I can be myself. Discovering that I am aro and discovering the community has been a wonderful gift.

[aggravatedaroallo-forpositivity]

Let's go ahead and do a new thingy, since I think everyone could use some more positivity during this quarantine. I'm calling it urbbr! Under represented blogs being represented! Not as catchy as uribr, and probably won't be done as much, but here we are because I can't name.

Most of these are going to be specifically for aros, because that is most of what I know, but they'll be split off into categories and stoof so not going to be super disorganized.

Aroallos (Positivity specifically for aroallos) -

@aro-allo-positivity (Amazing blog, super positivity for aroallos, active)

@the-quiver-of-aros (Awesome blog, good positivity for non-sam aros, aroallos and just all aros in general, I think active)

Aros (Just in general, not specifically for aroaces/aroallos)-

@aro-spec-positivity (Awesome Positivity posts, I think active?)

@befriend-an-aro-suggestions (Nice to look through and follow, fairly active)

@aggressivelyarospec (Does aro movies Monday and aro tunes Thursday, good sources and good blog to follow, active)

@aromantic-pride (Good aro pride blog, fairly active)

@annoyed-arospecs-for-positvity (Awesome blog for arospecs and aros in general, fairly active)

@acerbic-aro-for-positivity (Amazing aro blog, fairly active)

@arounited (Good aro blog, I'm not sure how active)

Aroace (General positivity for specifically aroaces)-

@annoyed-aroace-for-positivity (Good positivity posts, not very active)

@anaroaceplace (Good blog, not sure how active)

@antagonizedaroaceforpositivity (Amazing blog, fairly active)

Ace (Positivity specifically for aces)-

@anguished-asexual-for-positivity (Good blog, not sure how active)

@angry-asexual-for-positivity (Amazing blog positivity for aces, fairly active)

@theacevengers (Awesome blog, fairly active)

Aro and Ace (Specifically for aros, aces, aroaces, aroallos, non-sam aros and non-sam aces)-

@aspecpplarebeautiful (AMAZING blog, active)

@rogue-aces-with-maces (Very awesome blog, active)

@raavenb2619 (Very good blog, makes awesome memes)

Aro/Acespec (General positivity for certain aro/acespec identities)

@mid-community (Amazing blog for newly coined term, aromid, acemid, amid, a little active)

@official-quoisexual (Amazing blog for quoisexuals, fairly active)

@feral-frayromantic4positivity (Amazing blog for not just frayromantics but frays in general, active)

@depressed-demi-for-positivity (Good blog for demis, I'm not sure how active)

@disgruntleddemiro-for-positivity (Amazing blog specifically for demiromantics, I'm not sure how active)

@gravelymadgrayspecforpositivity (AMAZING blog for grayspecs, active)

Oriented AroAces (General Positivity for oriented AroAces)-

@outraged-oriented-for-positivity (AMAZING blog for oriented AroAces, active)

@ornery-oriented-for-positivity (Also amazing blog, fairly active)

So! That concludes my first urbbr! (Still isn't catchy, I'll find a new name) This one was (obviously) specifically for aspecs, acespecs and arospecs, I would do more but this was getting pretty long already, and it's getting pretty late as well and I would like to get this up tonight. I'll do another one tomorrow with more blogs that aren't just aspec! But here's the first edition! Hopefully you guys liked it and this gave you some more positivity? But yea, these blogs are all pretty awesome and you should definitely go follow them!

[guiltyidealist]

Reblog if you'd die for aroallo rights. 😤💪

[aspec-is-amazing]

The problems demisexual and demiromantic people deal with are real and worth listening to.

[trendersollux]

me: :(

aro lesbians: exist

me: :)

[ace-and-aro-wlw-positivity]

Demiromantic Writer Moodboard // Mod Primaria

[luckywhatwhat]

[tobio-loves-aspecs]

non binary aces, non binary aros and non binary aroaces are all fantastic!

[spiderdragons]

me: I’m aromantic. I don’t feel romantic attraction.

person I’m talking to: oh ok, interesting! But what do you mean by romantic attraction?

me, an aromantic who doesn’t feel romantic attraction:

[aro-allo-positivity]

This is me whenever y'all ask me what romantic attraction feels like

[amphibianaday]

day 142: frong is learning to drive

[aroaesflags]

Aromid, acemid, and amid heart emojis for @zen-the-alien - flags by @star-allos

[star-allos]

“ yeah i think labels cause more problems than they solve. yeah i want to keep coming up with more labels to describe myself. we exist” - A good friend of mine

Hello aspecs who aren’t strictly aro and/or ace! Ever feel alienated by the split between alloromantic-aromantic and allosexual-asexual. Ever feel like you place on the spectrum is a thing all of its own, rather than having to pick a ‘side’? Thought of the non-sam or neu label but found it limiting to omit their sexual and/or romantic orientation? Well, as someone who’s sexuality, no matter how limited, is deeply important to me, and who is tired of swapping between the labels of non-sam, aroallo, and angled aroace, I decided to coin my own terms! Maybe a community will arise from this, because I know I’m not the only one who feels weird about the divide, and who have not found comfort in the terms neu or non-sam, and perhaps dialogue can arise from that.

ANYHOW. The flags are all amalgations of the aroace flag by @aroaesflags​  In place of the orange (community and union) and yellow (forms of love outside of sex and romance) are shades of green for aromantism and purple for asexuality, the multiple shades representing community and diversity among aromantics and asexuals. The middle flag uses shades of grey in place of yellow and orange. The term grey is used for those who find themselves in between a lack of and presence of attraction (greysexual, greyromantic). As the blues represent a combination of asexuality and aromantism, those remain present, as does the white stripe for unity.

Aromid - Someone who is strictly aromantic, but not strictly asexual, while still being on the asexual spectrum. 

Amid - Someone who isn’t strictly aromantic or asexual, but on the spectrum of both asexuality and aromantism. 

Acemid - Someone who is strictly asexual, but not strictly aromantic, while still being on the aromantic spectrum.