one last thought, if you live as a disabled person person who relies on "good will", you have to always be kind and thankful and never show any irritation or criticise the help (even if it's not very helpful!), never be frustrated about your own disability, never ask for too many things in a row, because otherwise that good will can be revoked. be gracious and polite but not too needy! always have a positive outlook. never make people feel uncomfortable by struggling in front of them. definitely don't complain ever at all, even when the people showing you "good will" are complaining about you. et cetera. it's exhausting.













