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WHAT IS HAPPENING
âSometimes a scream is better than a thesis.â
â Ralph Waldo Emerson
this changed me as a person
Iâm in tears!
I just want to know how the writers of snl knew about my very specific sexual fantasy
my soul: savedÂ
One of my favourites
the shot of a pizza roll dragging across bare skin fucking kills me
EDIT:Â Okay, as it turns out I actually have Feels about this.
âWhatâs your name?â âIâve never had one.â
Not only is this objectively the funniest line in the entire thing, but it also speaks to something deeper. Like, every bit guy who was in one scene gets a name. But not her, the ostensible star of the commercial. She exists only to feed her Hungry Guys. Her name is âBabe, we need more Totinos!â
That actually says⌠kinda a lot about heteronormativity and marketing.
They did two previous ones of these and, no, she never did have a name.
@phallicasfuck
Poly Problem #35
When your friends ask you for a foursome but you donât find them attractive and try to figure out how best to explain that to them without hurting their feelings.
Christina of Sweden was a 17th-century monarch who ruled as a king. Born covered in hair, she had a cry so deep that everyone thought she was a boy. Happy to learn she was a girl, her father decreed she would have the education of a prince and made her his heir. She inherited the throne at the age of 6 and ruled for years as a blunt, unmarried, lady king who often disguised herself as a man for political and safety reasons. Source Source 2
Recognizing emotionally mature people
Taken from Adult Children of Emotionally Immature Parents by Lindsay C. Gibson, Psy.D. A summary of the tips the book hands you on how to recognize emotionally healthy people.
Theyâre realistic and reliable
They work with reality rather than fighting it. They see problems and try to fix them, instead of overreacting with a fixation on how things should be.
They can feel and think at the same time. The ability to think even when upset makes an emotionally mature person someone you can reason with. They donât lose their ability to see another perspective just because they arenât getting what they want.
Their consistency makes them reliable. Because they have an integrated sense of self, they usually wonât surprise you with unexpected inconsistencies.
They donât take everything personally. They can laugh at themselves and their foibles. Theyâre realistic enough to not feel unloved just because you made a mistake.
Theyâre respectful and reciprocal
They respect your boundaries. Theyâre looking for connection and closeness, not intrusion, control or enmeshment. They respect your individuality and that others have the final say on what their motivations are. They may tell you how they feel about what you did, but they donât pretend to know you better than you know yourself.
They give back. They donât like taking advantage of people, nor do they like the feeling of being used.
They are flexible and compromise well. Because collaborative, mature people donât have an agenda to win at all costs, you wonât feel like youâre being taken advantage of. Compromise doesnât mean mutual sacrifice; it means a mutual balancing of desires. They care about how you feel and donât want to leave you feeling unsatisfied.
Theyâre even-tempered. They donât sulk or pout for long periods of time or make you walk on eggshells. When angered, they will usually tell you whatâs wrong and ask you to do things differently. Theyâre willing to take the initiative to bring conflict to a close.
They are willing to be influenced. They donât feel threatened when other people see things differently, nor are they afraid of seeming weak if they donât know something. They may not agree, but theyâll try to understand your point of view.
Theyâre truthful. They understand why youâre upset if they lie or give you a false impression.
They apologize and make amends. They want to be responsible for their own behavior and are willing to apologize when needed.
Theyâre responsive
Their empathy makes you feel safe. Along with self-awareness, empathy is the soul of emotional intelligence.
They make you feel seen and understood. Their behavior reflects their desire to really get to know you, rather than looking for you to mirror them. They arenât afraid of your emotions and donât tell you that you should be feeling some other way.
They like to comfort and be comforted. They are sympathetic and know how crucial friendly support can be.
They reflect on their actions and try to change. They clearly understand how people affect each other emotionally. They take you seriously if you tell them about a behavior of theirs that makes you uncomfortable. Theyâll remain aware of the issue and demonstrate follow-through in their attempts to change.
They can laugh and be playful. Laughter is a form of egalitarian play between people and reflects an ability to relinquish control and follow someone elseâs lead.
Theyâre enjoyable to be around. They arenât always happy, but for the most part they seem able to generate their own good feelings and enjoy life.
â Š Adult Children of Emotionally Immature Parents, Lindsay C. Gibson, Psy.D.
âThereâs something about you, something so wonderfully wicked and terribly sexy. The very mention of your name arouses me.â
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Michael Faudet
How do you politely tell someone that you want them naked on top of you
Iâm pretty much positive thatâs why poetry was even invented in the first place.
for the constellations of your skin to brush against the earth of mine i would swim the seas a thousand times (please letâs fuck now)
That was beautiful
QuestionâŚ
An anguished question from a Trump supporter: âWhy do liberals think Trump supporters are stupid?â
The serious answer: Hereâs what we really think about Trump supporters - the rich, the poor, the malignant and the innocently well-meaning, the ones who think and the ones who donâtâŚ
That when you saw a man who had owned a fraudulent University, intent on scamming poor people, you thought âFine.â
That when you saw a man who had made it his business practice to stiff his creditors, you said, âOkay.â
That when you heard him proudly brag about his own history of sexual abuse, you said, âNo problem.â
That when he made up stories about seeing muslim-Americans in the thousands cheering the destruction of the World Trade Center, you said, âNot an issue.â
That when you saw him brag that he could shoot a man on Fifth Avenue and you wouldnât care, you chirped, âHe sure knows me.â
That when you heard him illustrate his own character by telling that cute story about the elderly guest bleeding on the floor at his country club, the story about how he turned his back and how it was all an imposition on him, you said, âThatâs cool!â
That when you saw him mock the disabled, you thought it was the funniest thing you ever saw.
That when you heard him brag that he doesnât read books, you said, âWell, who has time?â
That when the Central Park Five were compensated as innocent men convicted of a crime they didnât commit, and he angrily said that they should still be in prison, you said, âThat makes sense.â
That when you heard him tell his supporters to beat up protesters and that he would hire attorneys, you thought, âYes!â
That when you heard him tell one rally to confiscate a manâs coat before throwing him out into the freezing cold, you said, âWhat a great guy!â
That you have watched the parade of neo-Nazis and white supremacists with whom he curries favor, while refusing to condemn outright Nazis, and you have said, âThumbs up!â
That you hear him unable to talk to foreign dignitaries without insulting their countries and demanding that they praise his electoral win, you said, âThatâs the way I want my President to be.â
That you have watched him remove expertise from all layers of government in favor of people who make money off of eliminating protections in the industries theyâre supposed to be regulating and you have said, âWhat a genius!â
That you have heard him continue to profit from his businesses, in part by leveraging his position as President, to the point of overcharging the Secret Service for space in the properties he owns, and you have said, âThatâs smart!â
That you have heard him say that it was difficult to help Puerto Rico because it was the middle of water and you have said, âThat makes sense.â
That you have seen him start fights with every country from Canada to New Zealand while praising Russia and quote, âfalling in loveâ with the dictator of North Korea, and you have said, âThatâs statesmanship!â
That Trump separated children from their families and put them in cages, managed to lose track of 1500 kids. has opened a tent city incarceration camp in the desert in Texas - he explains that theyâre just âanimalsâ - and you say, âwell, ok then.â
That you have witnessed all the thousand and one other manifestations of corruption and low moral character and outright animalistic rudeness and contempt for you, the working American voter, and you still show up grinning and wearing your MAGA hats and threatening to beat up anybody who says otherwise.
What you donât get, Trump supporters in 2018, is that succumbing to frustration and thinking of you as stupid may be wrong and unhelpful, but itâs alsoâŚhear meâŚcharitable.
Because if youâre NOT stupid, we must turn to other explanations, and most of them are *less* flattering.
there are people you havenât met yet who will love you
The freedom to loveâŚ
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hi Iâm a therapist some people come to me to break down severe childhood trauma some people come to me because their job is super stressful some people come to me because theyâre worried all the time about stuff that they know they shouldnât be worried about but they worry anyway some people come to me because theyâre bad at focusing some people come to me because their mom said they should but theyâre enjoying the experience anyway what iâm saying is there is no wrong time, reason, or explanation to come see a therapist. weâre ready for you.
S/o to all the polyamorous folks who
recently found out polyamory was a thing
are in a healthy relationship with their partners
have been broken up with for being a âcheaterâ
are trying to communicate with their potential partner about being polyamorous (best of luck!)
are scared they will never find someone who understands their love for others
still feel guilty for loving multiple people
were conditioned to think their polyamory was a bad thing
âwhat time is itâ you ask, i pull out my 2.7 metric ton granite sundial and immediately crush both of your feet, I loudly announce âit is cloudyâ
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Whatâs wrong with texting first and replying to a text immediately? whatâs wrong with calling and telling them you miss them? Whatâs wrong with showing you care? Take down your pride a notch and be genuine with your feelings.