Anti Willo Dandy!

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[anti-willo-dandy]

DANDY!

Blog inspired by @anti-willo-cosmo and @anti-willo-sprout

My psys's blog is @anti-willo-astro !

BYF and info below!

BYF; Stances!

Anti endo

Anti willo

Anti harassment

Pro sysplex (No, it's not "Bpd with alters")

Pro Polymind (No, it's not "Endogenic relabeled")

Pro self diagnosis (Educated)

FULLY AGAINST PROSHIP IDEALS!!

Anti harmful paraphilia / pro recovery

Anti radqueer + transIDs

Anti AI

Pro alterhumanity (transspecies included!)

Transandrophobia, exorsexism, intersexism, and transmisogyny all exist and are valid terms ! anti tme/tma language

Pro goodfaith and nonharmful labels

BYF; Blog dni!

Anyone can kindly interact, but i would prefer for radqueers and proshippers to block me. Anyone here to harass, get a nicer hobby, will ya?

Don't interact if you're going to be an asshole or try to "change my mind" because i've done the research and talking around for my list. However if you truly believe something should be changed, say so KINDLY and provide sources or evidence!

INFO; About me!

You can call me Dandy here! I'll probably share my main blog at a later date but I haven't had such a sys based blog before and i want to see if it's something i like to do.

I use he/him along with several xenopronouns. I'd say the ones I prefer most currently are fang/fangs/fangself and aero/aeros/aeroself!

I am mentally and physically disabled. I can be really sensitive or even have no empathy because of symptoms, however I try my best to manage those and be kind and reasonable.

We are a system, though I as the host will probably be the only one posting.

INFO; language!

I will often say "endo" system or "willo" system, instead of quotes around "system". This is because I don't like to fakeclaim and I know of many folk who thought they were endogenic before healing and discovering their trauma.

This blog is not to fakeclaim. If you come here to fakeclaim, you will be asked to leave.

I have also been bashed for being kind to other stances. The truth is, I'm kind to most people I speak to and I regret being harsher in the past. Alienating and bashing others only makes them think the anti-endo community is more ableist and stick to harmful terms where they feel safe. However, I truly believe that a lot of these people just need to have healthy conversations with others outside of their group. After all, we're all human.

INFO; Blog theme!

I did NOT make the art! however, I did edit the pfp (Which is matching with @anti-willo-astro which i also edited)

If the artists see this and would like credit OR you know who the artist is, please let me know so I can credit appropriately! pinterest SUCKS with that stuff :(

I think I used all f2u graphics for the edited pfps, but once again let me know if credit is wanted.

Also, I like Dandy. I do NOT like or support qwel for the blatant ableism or other poor actions. I might occasionally ramble about my rewrite ideas here!

That's all for now, folks!

[user box I'll be using for posts!! Not my best work but pretty fun :)]

[anti-willo-sprout]

If you still actively play dandy’s world despite the shit going on with Qwel you are still actively showing support to her financially even if you do not purchase anything; and my blog is not a safe space for you.

[anti-willo-glisten]

For those unaware:

https://x.com/i/status/2068502593559572674 - Recorded a minor venting to her to laugh about it while knowing they were being groomed

https://x.com/i/status/2071098166410182807 - paying someone 100 robux (less than one USD) for a 2 minute song

https://x.com/i/status/2067725143447613498 - Still in contact with Rox months after his victims spoke up, allegedly lied about having to fight for Dandy's World and Flavor Frenzy files (note that this links back to Rox's Twitter, Do not follow or interact with him for your own safety, he has groomed people. Also take this Source as somewhat unreliable, though he has screenshots.)

https://x.com/i/status/2071378392528633971 - Collective Testimony about BCS

https://x.com/i/status/2068618339258130892 - Joji's experience

https://x.com/i/status/2068790518369382613 - Pinkie's experience

These are all the sources I currently know of, make your own opinions. All I can say is Qwel is a deplorable person in my eyes.

[anti-willo-stu]

saw this post that was like "fine. be anti-endo. but you can't use the term traumagenic, fictive, factive, etc etc" and i had a brain blast because i can just . use them anyway . nobody is stopping me from using terms so widespread in system spaces they're basically community owned sorry man

[anti-willo-uzi]

I'm actually baffled that pro endos think the term traumagenic was made by pro endos

It's a medical term. Used in medical settings to tell you when a disorder is rooted in trauma.

[vampirehuntersystemreblogs]

Sure, I'll stop using fictive/factive, we hate those terms anyways and prefer introject. As long as you stop using protector, persecutor, caretaker, self helper, ep/anp, _____ holder, etc.

[anti-willo-uzi]

Tbf most of those terms aren't CDD exclusive

Multiple disorders can have EPs/ANPs such as many personality disorders

Also everyone introjects

And there's a ton of different communities that also use the term caretaker such as agere and petre communities

We need to stop mixing community terms with medical terms and also stop mixing CDD non-exclusive symptoms with CDD exclusive symptoms

[anti-willo-uzi]

Hello anti endo community

I wanna start this off by saying I AM ANTI ENDO!!!! I DO NOT BELIEVE IN NONTRAUMAGENIC CDD!!!!

That being said

Y'all are hypocritical asf

I'm anti endo bc the term is rooted in a hate campaign against dissociative disorders and that they infiltrate trauma spaces then convinced everyone they can that their trauma isn't enough

Y'all just hate them bc they're too similar to us

What these communities are experiencing aren't non-existent, I believe them when they say they feel like their experience is happening, I just don't believe the cause of it is CDD unless they have hidden trauma.

People can experience similar things to CDD without it being CDD, such as many personality disorders, schizospec disorders, IFS, age regression and more

No one hates on these communities even though they sometimes share our terms, because everyone generally understands that whilst they may have some similarities or even actually overlap they are still completely different experiences

Now let's look at the polymind community

A community of a term with 0 relation to CDD and functions solely on subpersonalities and is and never will be a disorder

Y'all hate them for why???? Because they're too similar???? Oh no! Synonyms being used. 😰😱 Whatever will you do!!!! It's not like half the things I listed before literally SHARE terms with us (cough cough little, caregiver, headspace, innerworld, splitting)

The term is used by like maybe 50, 100 people maximum.. y'all are crying over a nonexistent percentage of people in their own community, I even see anti polyminds infiltrating THEIR tags..!

Endogenic CDD is built on the idea that you can have alters without a CDD

Polymindence is.. subpersonalities. SUBPERSONALITIES! not alters.

"but katz, everyone has subpersonalities" If that's your only argument then we don't need any identity labels at all bc "everyone experiences this the same"

Which just isn't true, whilst everyone has them, not everyone can differentiate them as much as polyminds do

"but I see pro endo polyminds" just bc an alterhuman or Agere is pro endo does that mean they aren't alterhuman or Agere? Their stance has nothing to do with their polymindence

"but they're causing themselves dissociation" if polymindence causes you dissociation then maybe look into therapy because there's probably another underlying condition. Polymindence is not a disorder.

+ any identity label can be bad for you if taken far enough but I don't see y'all whining about people using fictionkin, alterhuman, agere as identity labels. Because let me tell you an underlying dissociation issue can combat with these experiences aswell, but at the end of the day that person isnt "faking CDD" because of it right? So why polyminds? It really is just because they're "too similar" isn't it? Yeah

Anyways I didn't mean for this to become a huge ass rant but it did lmao, I'm just tired of this community grouping a harmless identity with endos when they never had anything to do with us

[antiendoastro]

its pretty early in the day for me but heres some daily reminders <3

you do not owe anyone your diagnosis status

you do not owe anyone your system's information

don't share your triggers online (+ dont put them in pluralkit. pluralkit is not private unless you individually set every single member as private)

you are not faking just because your mind quiets down

p-did & osdd-1a systems are valid

endos dont exist - it contradicts the entire meaning of what a system even is and how it develops! your experiences most likely are not "endogenic systemhood".

having a multi-facetted identity is normal

introjects arent their sources but that doesnt mean you force introjects in systems youve never met before to source seperate

there's probably more im forgetting so feel free to add more daily reminder things if you want <3 you are loved!

[anti-willo-astro]

this stupid nigga hate willows so much he made it his username 😭 whole personality bro 😭 smartest israeli’s world fan 😭

It is just a common trend going around to claim character as anti-willo. I don't hate willogenic. I do however hate that they're spreading a narrative that will make it harder for people with trauma to realize that they do have trauma and could also help abusers getting away. I do not understand the link with Israel as I am firmly pro-Palestine and anti-zionism, as well as anti-semitic of course, if someone's using zionism as an excuse to hate on jewish people they need to get the fuck out of my account. Also, I'm white.

[anti-willo-dandy]

Anti ableism means pro murder and war I guess?

Lmao 😭

[anti-willo-uzi]

Made a DNI banner for the blog :P

[anti-willo-sprout]

“ I’m anti censorship! “

Cool. Why don’t you talk about how many violent crimes against minorities are constantly covered up and silenced?

Cool. Why don’t you talk about How victims of Abuse, rape and Child exploitation are constantly put down and treated like they’re crazy in media and in society?

Oh, you don’t wanna? Oh you just wanna Jack off to drawings of babies getting molested. Oh okay.

[anti-willo-cosmo]

♡ ~ First ever blocklist I got on! This makes me happy that I was recognized as a member of the community, especially since I overthink my following and if people actually see my stuff. I'd like to thank my parents for getting me to this point, I'd like to thank my partner too for believing in me. [Holding this picture like a trophy] @anti-willo-c00lkidd @anti-willo-miku @anti-willo-dandy @anti-willo-kinger @anti-willo-zygard Please be careful! You all were added too, just be aware.

[anti-willo-dandy]

I feel like I'm laughing too hard about this

[anti-willo-astro]

I cannot stress this put it really is important to put the appropriate tags on your post. If you're going to be using syscourse term, whether you're pro or anti endo please put your tags. If you're anti-polymind put your tags in. No one wants to stumble on post they don't want to see and no one wants to have to go investigate a blog to see which stance you stand for.

[anti-willo-cosmo]

♡ ~ Polymindence. This has been a tough topic in the system community for some time now and I've seen and can understand both sides. This is also coming from someone who formally identified as a polymind and has been part of the community for a few months now! First off I need people to understand that being Polyminded is NOT the same as being a CDD system. The term Polymind is used for people who view their subpersonalities as different people. This is not something to do after finding out what polymindence is, this is a term for people who did it before learning it was bad or that there was a term for it. Causes of this can be disorders that wouldn't cause a CDD [like BPD], trauma, ifs therapy or maladaptive daydreaming. Polymindence is NOT a disorder, and it is not "being a system". I do believe theres ways to be "plural" outside of a CDD, but it is NOT the same as being a system/having a CDD. If people want to see themselves as multiple people I believe its fine, as long as they don't attempt to steal system terms, system spaces or claim to have a disorder. [Again, being polyminded isnt a disorder, its just a way of viewing yourself]

[anti-willo-uzi]

Since I'm starting to get followers on here I wanna make it clear I'm PRO POLYMIND!!!! Yes I can be pro polymind and anti endo/willo

We have polyminded alters

If you are anti polymind I truly believe you are illiterate and or don't understand the real reason why endogenic systems are bad, and just hate on whatever you're told to without research, which are the type of followers I don't want. DONT BE SHEEP!!!

Polymindence has absolutely nothing to do with systemhood nor the endogenic community

It's just an identity label like any other

Endos are bad because they perpetuate this concept that CDD can be non disordered, barge into CDD communities and make up "slurs" for the CDD community (traumascum, sysmed, ect)

Polymindence is simply seeing your sub personalities as individuals

That's it

That's all

And honestly? Comparing polymindence to CDD is treating CDD as an alter disorder

Alters and subpersonalities are different things, very very different things, maybe they have some similarities but at the end of the day an alter is caused by extreme dissociation whilst subpersonalities are something literally everyone has

"if everyone has them then why the term?" 1. For fun (how evil I know /sar) 2. Because not everyone in the world can identify their subpersonalities

"oh but separating yourself is harmful" If that's the case then y'all shouldn't be separating your alters the way y'all do, if anything in that logic its more dangerous for CDDs to see their alters as alters because CDDs actually have established dissociation. Polyminds do not, because they are not a disorder

But guess what? It's not always causing harm is it? And if it does it's no one's business but them and a therapist, not you, some stranger on the internet. This goes for polyminds aswell

Y'all brought them into syscourse when they were literally just a community of maybe 15 people existing away from the CDD community

I mean, how would it look if we started bashing agere and alterhumanity out of nowhere simply because of some similarities????? And yes It IS the same thing

Agere and alterhumanity can both have similarities to CDD, but everyone can all agree that these are separate things, agere and alterhumanity are identities, and whilst in some cases someone might have a bad relationship with it, it's no one on the internets job to police their identity

These self labeled identity communities also share some terms with us, but I see no one complaining that agere and petre both share the terms littles, caretakers, ect

So I don't understand why everyone's so upset about polymind terms sometimes being synonymous with ours

why are we out here whining our asses off about synonyms..? Are we seriously crying about fucking synonyms?????? Get a fucking grip

The experience is not evil, people are allowed to exist as long as they aren't hurting other people, the polymind community doesn't have the long disgusting history that the natural multiplicity movement does

"oh but what if they're systems in denial" let them. Leave them be. I was in denial for years and forgot about the concept of DID until I was ready to realize I was a system. People should be allowed to figure themselves out at their own pace. It can be extremely dangerous to tell someone they might be a system if you don't know them well enough to know they're in a safe space to have a syscovery

So let them explore that by themself

Basically

Endo bad cuz long history of trying to demedicalize CDD

Polymind just a self labeled identity, not a disorder, never meant to be disorder, has absolutely 0 to do with CDD

[anti-willo-dandy]

I am the prettiest and most handsomest flower in all of garden view. trust

[million-with-a-b]

Reblog if you are a safe place for people who used to identify as endogenic/tulpas before realizing they were either a) a DID/OSDD system or b) not a system at all

im trying to see something

[the-starry-city]

As long as they're anti endo now ofc they're safe here :]

[vhs-mogai]

★⠀⁺⠀VHS-MOGAI⠀⸝⠀📼

It/its pronouns ONLY — No they.

Main blog - @beetlefanngz

Discourse centric blog - @anti-willo-sprout

★⠀⁺⠀Before you Request . . .⠀⸝⠀📼

I have the right to deny a request for any reason, please don’t get offended if I do. : )

I am anti-endo, anti-Radqueer, anti-profic/darkship, anti censorship and pro-contradictory labels. If any of this is on your dni, please block me. I have no DNI, Don’t make a fuss, please.

I sometimes take a while to get to requests as I work on a queue — if I respond late to a request, it may have been put at the bottom of my list due to overwhelming amounts.

★⠀⁺⠀i will do …⠀⸝⠀📼

Alter roles (including labels for fictives, factives etc. )

Alterhuman/fictionkin/otherkin terms

Contradictory labels

Harmless paraphillia flags/terms

Queer flags/terms, disability pride flags/terms

Stance flags/terms (that align with my own)

★⠀⁺⠀i Won’t do …⠀⸝⠀📼

Radqueer terms/flags + TransIDs

Xeno-origins, any terms in relation to “non-disordered” systems.

Harmful paraphillia flags/terms

Terms made to mock minorities or oppressed groups or promote harmful behavior or content.

Terms related to problematic media (TCOAAL, Alfred’s playhouse, etc etc.)

[asexual-amanita]

It’s mental health awareness month, and I’ve said it before, and I’ll say it again:

Your mental health advocacy is complete and utter garbage if it excludes people who have:

- A criminal record

- Narcissistic personality disorder

- Antisocial personality disorder

- Homicidal ideation

- Factitious disorder

- A scizospec disorder

- Taboo themes of OCD

- Bipolar or other mood disorders

We need to stick together and fight for each other. Infighting helps no one.

[anti-willo-cosmo]

♡~ Everyone on this list is safe here. I cant speak on the experiences on too many since I don’t have most of them, but this blog is mental health based not JUST syscourse based!

[USERBOX TEXT - This user has no DNI ♡ Stances in pinned]

[anti-willo-dandy]

Cool looking blog: anti endo

Me: oh wow :D

Also blog: starts to actively fakeclaim or frame others as fakeclaiming them when they're called out

Me: oh no :D