hi im Neru and i use it/her prns and any terms , you/your is ok for me
im cool and this account is TOTALLY NOT(is) inspired by @anti-willo-miku 🥹 we stan anti willo miku and neru in the house so 🙏🏻🙏🏻 bffs with @anti-willo-gumi
taking a step away from the AWV even though i havent been posting about it a lot anyway. i havent gotten or sent any hate but please read this anyway
im sorry for everything i have indirectly and directly done. when i started the server it was to make friends within this community , support each other , laugh at how crazy endos are , and be kind. it has turned into mostly not that. im sorry to everyone who has been harmed by those in our community. im debating myself on deleting the server currently. i cannot express how beyond sorry i am and how awful i feel about this. i know apologies do nothing if theres no action so i will try my best to make things nicer going forward. i wish everyone leaving the community the best. you all are heard and valid. i wish i couldve kept my server drama free , i wish i couldve noticed things and nipped them in the bud sooner. but wishes are not reality.
sorry for any spelling mistakes im not in the best state of mind and im genuinely panicking
if you think someone that claims to be a system is faking, mistaken, or “secretly endo,” especially over shit like who their alters are or their special interests being “cringe” and “popular among fakers.” please point yourself out the door. you have proven you are not a safe person for systems.
Hello! Welcome to @madsys-official , this blog is inspired by @sysfreak-official my system and I wanted to create a tag and label SPECIFICALLY for systems who are very mad pride. Now I know sysfreak likely already includes this, but theres literally no harm in creating an offshoot term for systems who wanna get super specific.
Madsys and sysfreak are NOT to be compared to one another, my term is not better than sysfreak and sysfreak is not better than mine. This tag was fr self indulgent largely because mad pride is a cultural-political identity and movement and I know a lot of systems (including myself) like to include their political stances in their identities.
I highly encourage that if you already use sysfreak as a tag that you CONTINUE to use said tag, just add mine on if you'd like to. (Like how you can tag sysfreak, dissociapunk and dissociafreak).
Below the cut you can find the official stances of madsys as well as flags i made ✂️
What is madsys all about?
Madsys is anti psychiatry HOWEVER, from researching it seems that we dont hold the same ideas that a lot of other anti psych people hold. So just...keep that in mind...
Here is what we specifically believe:
- we believe that mentally ill patients should ALWAYS be awarded bodily autonomy and should be allowed to choose any and every treatment they go through, if they go through treatment at all.
- we believe that it is important to acknowledge that the psych industry needs HEAVY reform in how it treats specific conditions, and especially how it treats more severe presentations of such. But also acknowledging that the research into psychiatric conditions has provided a lot of benefit to people in terms of being able to put a label to what they go through.
- we believe there needs to be HEAVY reform to any and all mental health legislation from all governing bodies internationally
- we believe that patients should be allowed to present self diagnoses to their care team and be allowed access to investigative care based on those diagnoses, as in patient says "I believe it have bipolar based on (evidence) I would like to look into that" and their care team will provide that care. We are aware that this does already happen but it doesn't not happen often enough.
- we believe that the mistreatment of mental health patients (including institutional abuse) should be considered as more of a serious crime by the justice system than it currently seems to be.
- we believe any and all individuals with mental disorders dederve the chance of recovery whether that be through 1:1 therapy or finding ways to help yourself instead. Including paraphilic disorders.
Disclaimer!!
Whilst we believe anyone should be able to display their mad pride #madsys is inherently against the endogenic / non traumagenic / natural multiple movement, as well as this we are against transIDs as these groups are inherently ableist and display behaviours designed to take advantage of vulnerable people. That being said we absolutely encourage the reclamation of terms and labels for the communities they should belong to, we welcome recoining blogs.
We also highly encourage education on the harm these groups do and HEAVILY DISCOURAGE harassment. You are not welcome here if you believe it is okay to harass ANYONE, including transIDs & endos & radqueers of any age and regardless of whether they have caused harm or not. Because of this madsys is not aligned with radnormal, cleanqueer, ethiqueer, moralqueer etc etc.
And the final disclaimer, I realise im making this tag when there is a rise of blankqueer labels and an increasing wave of harassment towards those with any paraphilic disorder and so I want to say that madsys is NOT a blankqueer label please DO NOT TREAT IT AS SUCH. madsys works similarly to sysfreak, pluralpunk, cripplepunk and other similar cultural-political identity terms.
Flags & symbols
We have two flags, and two symbols.
Flag & symbol set #1
This is the mad pride flag WITHOUT the Cheshire symbol, I am unsure who made the mad pride flag so I sadly cannot credit them right now but the lotus CDD symbol is a recoloured png of @aka-collective's anti endo CDD symbol
Flag & symbol set #2
This is the mad pride flag WITH the cheshire symbol, again i do not know who made this and it features another recoloured png of @aka-collective's anti endo CDD symbol
GUYS ??? i just idk if this was a mistype but if youre coming here to confirm my age i am 17 ALMOST 18. i am not 15 nor do i have problems with those younger than me.
probably first and last post i'll make about this because its unnecessary just fucking "i have nothing better to do" drama and leave me out of it. im tired of this shit happening in a server that's supposed to be to make friends and engage with the community
can yall stop making fucking -queer labels. dont you guys see those labels like radnormal cleanqueer idfk what else arent helping at all to fight radqueers right? ?? ?
literally making labels online about it will only make things worse, both because yall labels are pretty much against victims that are or were currently victims of radqueers and because you guys are FEEDING radqueers as a whole and proving they exist.
yall can say "im anti radqueer" and its ENOUGH i swear you dont have to make little flags with little names on it
I love you systems whose trauma is considered “not enough” to form a CDD. Everyone’s stress threshold is different and whats traumatic to some isn’t to traumatic to others. You belong in this community, and it’s awful that anyone thinks they have to right to make you feel like you have to justify your trauma response.
I love you systems whose trauma is considered “too much” to be believed. Your experiences are real and deserved to be heard, and if you don’t want to tell you’re not obligated to.
