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♡ scatterbrained & shit-for-brains ♡ current fixation: weirdcore passive fixation: emo

[anxious-rainbow-creature]

ive been really obsessing over blinkies lately and i discovered that there werent that many toontown themed ones so i made some!!! feel free to put them on your blog or wherever (you dont have to credit me but its appreciated!!)

[leikeliscomet]

When it comes to asexual allyship a lot of people wanna have their cake and eat it too (pun unintended). People like a lil 'aces are valid' moment but don't actually unpack compulsory sexuality. People see sexless queer representation and always clock puritanism before they ever clock asexuality. No one's actually reading the ace theory and texts coming out. Everyone keeps doing surprised Pikachu faces whenever a conservative or TERF says they're against asexuality despite the fact ace activists have been saying since day conservatives are not anti sex but anti sexual autonomy. 'Aces are queer' until we actually are. Even ace support posts keep ending with some expectation or condition that asexuality is #valid as long as asexuals still perform a small quota of sex/sexual activity. I'm so over 'Aces still have sex!' 'Aces are hot' Aces are sexy' 'Aces aren't virgin vanilla prude sexless puritans!' disguised as support.

Like no. Sorry. Until you accept that some asexual people's no is permanent, that some asexual's singleness is permanent, that some asexual's childless-ness is permanent, that some asexuals are the 'no' in little to no sexual attraction and i'd say most importantly, that queer sexlessness isn't a biological, social or moral failing, I don't believe you'll ever genuinely support asexuality. (In reverse, I also feel similar about aromanticism and romance).

Like a lot of u haven't gone beyond 'the a isn't for ally' and it shows. I don't want people to support asexuals just because we're soooo hot or because we write the best smut apparently or because we could have hypothetical sex or because we could do hypothetical kink or because our minds are soooo dirty actually or because we'd do romance reallllyyyy well or because we can still have kids or because asexuals hand out water bottles at the orgy or some shit. I want people to support asexuality because no sexuality is deviant and it's basic human decency.

EDIT: U lot really like this post huh. Well it's blown up again and the point's been lost so let's wrap that up:

'But op, some asexuals DO have sex/I'm an acespec that has sex/I'm a non asexual person what about meeee :(' pt 2, pt 3

'There's asexual studies OP??/Where's the asexual studies OP?'

[xxacidnekoxx]

I don't comprehend how becoming nakid is sexual to ppl whenever someone gets naked it just gives me the same effect as peeled pokemon designs when people on Tumblr were making freshly peeled pokemon designs that's what seeing people get naked feels like to me

[oxymoronicdumbass2]

i walk a fine line between “i’m asexual and i hate how much the world revolves around sex” and “sex is way too stigmatized and people should be able to be more open about it if they want to”

[sm0y]

[anxious-rainbow-creature]

lets go up! lets go down! lets go! lets go! lets go! let go! let go let go let go let go let go let go let go let go let go let go let go let go

[churchofthemimic]

come inside.

[depsidase]

[ayeforscotland]

The funnier thing here is that all of these accounts are also bots. Facebook has absolutely lost control.

These bots are constantly producing things based on what is typically liked on Facebook - Anything regarding Jesus, Veterans, Travel, Nature etc

So you end up with bizarro shit like this:

Like, this is dead internet reality rather than theory. An endless reproducing of GenAI shite.

[anxious-rainbow-creature]

heres an article from 404 media about this exact thing and how facebook incentivizes this slop because, what else, money

[mxelliott]

i think it’s really funny how ppl are always either “you be happier in a relationship” or “you won’t be happy taken if you’re unhappy single” or whatever

as an aroace person i can never understand how people don’t understand that the base of just about any long-lasting relationship is friendship?? maybe i wont be happy “taken”/in a romantic relationship however i would fucking die for my best friends because i love them.

fuck everyone who thinks the end goal of all life is to fuck or be romantic bc you can only do one of those things without becoming friend-ish, and it’s not fucking.

[lolcatsaestheticdump]

[anxious-rainbow-creature]

i wish i could forget my shame

please.

[destruction1999x]

[rabbiets]

[lolcatsaestheticdump]

[anxious-rainbow-creature]

so when the allos say that they are marrying their best friend thats all fine and dandy but when the aroaces say they are marrying their best friend somehow THATS a problem

[animentality]

don't say you're "asexual."

say the only lust you feel is bloodlust.

[feverdreamwonderland]