aPhantom

He/him, does art

[learn-how-to-love]

This is just exorsexism and intersexism, btw. Bi/multi/genderqueer people aren’t “wearing your aesthetics”, you’re just an exorsexist. Intersex transfeminine people with top surgery scars from gynecomastia “treatment” aren’t “wearing your aesthetics”, you’re just intersexist. Anyone ever creating/headcanoning a character with indeterminate gender and transition direction isn’t “wearing your aesthetics”, you’re just intersexist and exorsexist. Christ.

[learn-how-to-love]

Multigender and genderqueer “”””TMEs”””” aren’t fetishizing you, you’re just exorsexist. Which, what do you know, she went on to be openly extremely exorsexist not long after:

[transmasc-theory]

"Go outside" not in the sense of "be in nature to reset your brain a bit" but in the sense of "go and look at how the world actually operates when you aren't in a bubble of people with your shared thoughts and beliefs every so often to remind yourself of how privilege actually operates in the real world."

"Trans men aren't victims of real transphobic violence, they're just seen as mentally ill girls (and therefore safe)" is a belief that only exists if you have never seen how women with schizophrenia are treated. Look at how conservatives SNEER the words "mentally ill" when talking about LGBT people they want to murder. Them calling you "mentally ill" is not a sign they want to protect you and help you "recover" like you think it is due to spending time on sites that are generally more positive to mentally ill people. When conservatives call someone mentally ill, they want that person locked up and forcibly medicated for the rest of their natural lives at best, and killed at worst. Go outside. Watch.

[redstonedust]

gender envy usually gets used as a positive to neutral expression but there sure is an evil form of gender envy if you've been in the depths of dysphoria. i have a friend whos talked about hearing news stories of kim petras in highschool and being so jealous it made her angry. i've struggled talking to online friends who got on HRT faster due to their countries better healthcare because obviously i'm happy for them but like. man. ya know its not healthy but if you've been there? you get it. ohhhh you get it.

[draconym]

The eye doctor is the most fun doctor you can go to. They never steal your blood. They never make you get naked and put on a paper dress. They're just like, "Can you see these letters? It's fine if you can't, we can fix that." And they don't even spell anything.

[draconym]

[catboynutsack]

ppl on this website will say that those who refuse to learn from history are doomed to repeat it and then recycle the same "This Marginalized Queer Group Is Actually Bad And It's Actually Okay To Bully Them And Harass Them" discourse every year like clockwork

[redstonedust]

i think most people accept the idea of "you don't control who you're attracted to" in terms of being gay but imo it can go further. like if you're not attracted to men, but you happen to find a transmasc person attractive, i dont think thats inherently transphobic if you acknoweldge that your attraction is incongruent with their identity. you dont need to run yourself in circles creating qualifiers for your sexuality when we live in a world of infinite gender identites. it's not like you have an inbuilt radar that tells you whether that hot stranger at the bar is a woman or not. man who kissed a twink that turned out to be a butch lesbian that thought he was a butch lesbian. etc.

[flyin-shark]

[belmarzi]

behold! the champion of pan! 🍳

i love the new cleo design so much its insane everyone say THANK YOU HOFFEN!!!!

[redstonedust]

Beep Beep I’m a sheep

you guys need to stop sending me asks without evidence :/ i mean i wanna believe that beep beep you're a sheep but have you even followed all the steps? for all you know meow meow you could be a cow. it's just hard to believe anons these days.

[genderkoolaid]

people on this site genuinely talk like "it's so hard to get people to realize misogyny is a current serious problem ruining lives. now if you'll excuse me i need to go tell a trans man to kill himself for trying to get people to realize misogyny is a current serious problem that is ruining his life and the lives of other trans men" we have learned nothing at all from the mistakes of second wave feminism literally nothing at all.

[ffcrazy15]

Me: (watching Project Hail Mary) "Man, Grace and Stratt are really close. I kinda can't tell if I'm supposed to ship them or not. I wonder if they're this weirdly close in the book?"

Every shingle character in Book!Project Hail Mary: "So Grace, are you and Stratt fucking or not?"

Grace: (Balancing Stratt's 6 coffees in one hand and signing off on all her important documents with the other) "I'M JUST HER LEAD SCIENTIST, WHY DO YOU PEOPLE KEEP ASSUMING IT'S SOMETHING WEIRD?!"

[silly-little-arson-frog-offical]

What are your pronouns?

I haven’t unlocked that skill yet

[silly-little-arson-frog-offical]

I left for 30 minutes to get ice cream and I come back to this

[the-haiku-bot]

I left for 30

minutes to get ice cream and

I come back to this

Beep boop! I look for accidental haiku posts. Sometimes I mess up.

[resident-idiot-simp]

[redstonedust]

tumblr blaze is such a funny feature. every blazed post ive ever seen has replies full of people cursing op out for forcing them to see it. for a small fee you too can invite strangers to be mad at you. pay money to be publicly shamed for your x reader fic. incredible.

[irate-iguana]

I love it when a classicist has clearly gotten so lost in the BCE sauce that their perception of time has become deeply warped. Case in point: the article I’m currently reading just described the Byzantine era as “a period relatively modern.”

[mockiatoh]

Stop that’s too funny

[tatdritt]

”I hate trans men for being men, not for being trans!”

>pre transition, he was widely considered a woman

>if he remained “cis” he would be a woman

>trans men are men because they are trans

>trans men are trans because they are men

>if trans man was not trans, he would not be man

>if trans man was not man, he would not be trans

so yes, you do hate him for being trans actually. Because being trans is what made him a man. How is this hard to understand

[pterribledinosaurdrawings]

how it feels to message a friend who's having Problems that you can't do anything to help with.

[redhairandpronouns]

i am once again reminding y'all that agab is literally just a letter a doctor wrote down on a fancy piece of paper when you were 2 seconds old. it does not dictate your gender or hormones or gender or physical appearance or chromosomes or anything. it is a Letter On A Paper. there is no such thing as "an afab" or "an amab". there is no such thing as "afab genitals" or "amab genitals". Stop it.