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25. Female. Alter in a DID system. Try to befriend me and die.

[aplatonic-buneary]

FAQ or whatever the fuck

Yes, I have a name. You're not getting it. We're not even acquaintances.

No, the Buneary in my url isn't just "my favorite Pokémon" or something like that. I'm literally a Buneary. (Technically a human-Buneary hybrid but whatever.)

No, I do not make exceptions to my aplatonicism. I make exceptions, occasionally, to my asociality, and that's all you're going to get.

I experience one (1) form of attraction, and that is sexual. Sexual contact with me is welcome. Don't expect it to lead to anything more (see preceding item).

I deal with an annoying amount of internalized aplphobia and being the only apl alter I know of in my system doesn't help. Discussion of aplatonic topics with me is allowed (it's why I made this blog).

[aplatonic-buneary]

Controversial opinion but you shouldn't need to have or make friends in order to survive.

[aplatonic-buneary]

Looking for aplatonic/asocial friendly game recs. I can only play spider solitaire so many times.

And yes I know about Friendship Test. (Not that that's much of an asocial game, but it's apl enough to be worth mentioning. Apl only games are allowed for recs too but please say if it's asocial friendly or not because my social repulsion is worse some times than others.)

[ixlikexsealz]

Love is about more than a romantic partner. Love is about more than your family. Love is even about more than your friends. We don’t just love people, we love animals too. We don’t just love living beings, we love our favourite items too. We love our passions and our favourite activities. We love memories, we love thoughts and beliefs. We love. We all love or care in some way, it’s just not always as obvious or simple or typical as expected.

[aplatonic-buneary]

Actually I'm 100% loveless sorry. Not all of us feel love and that doesn't mean there's something wrong with us. Fuck you.

[battle-for-dyke-island]

you can be loveless. You can literally be loveless. It’s allowed. You aren’t, like, evil or anything. You are in fact awesome. Please accept yourself and be compassionate to yourself if you are loveless. It is not something wrong with you.

[sortingmyideas]

The disregard for aspecs who aren't aro or ace actually annoys me a lot, and it needs to stop happening.

"Aspecs can still love in other ways! We aren't heartless!" Okay, but some of us are and don't. Saying these things does more harm than good and it throws parts of our community under the bus and we can't be fucking doing that.

Aplatonic, afamilial, analterous, anaesthetic, aqueerplatonic, asensual, and many other people exist.

As a community, we really need to stop saying shit like this. It doesn't help anyone.

[aplatonic-buneary]

I experience NO attraction other than sexual. And my sexual attraction isn't "love." I'm loveless and heartless and have little desire to interact with anyone unless it's for sex, and guess what? Still a person.

[aaronisntreal]

I hate when aroace positivity revolves around friends.... like what about aplatonic people 😔

[aplatonic-buneary]

Reminder that fuck friendship. Loveless and aplatonic until I die.

[aplatonic-buneary]

as someone who's not interested in deep relationships of ANY kind the amatonormativity i see in the apl community sometimes pisses me off. i don't give a shit if you're alloromantic or not you don't get to talk about how society pushes friendship on you and then turn around and say "any deep relationship has to be romantic."

how would you like it if i said if two people care about each other there's no explanation besides them fucking?

[aplatonic-buneary]

btw trying to argue some systems aren't real according to your arbitrary standards is stupid and loser behavior. this will be my only post about syscourse ever

[aplatonic-buneary]

aplatonic headmate with no interests besides sex fronts all day and she isn't even horny. this is so fucking boring.

[aplatonic-buneary]

i don't think it's possible for me to be negative enough about friendship actually. the alloplatonics can go have fun with it or whatever but that doesn't make it not stupid and awful

[aplatonic-buneary]

go max power frustration go and destroy friendship everywhere forever

[aplatonic-buneary]

@isuggestaplatonicism is run by a terf