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selfshipping / yumeshipping blog to ramble about my romantic f/os bcuz I love them | main blog: @apexhaven

[aploheartz]

Intro Post <3 | Open? 1.<yes> 2.<no> . . . <yes selected, opening — >

My ( @apexhaven ) romantic selfship / yumeship / fictional other blog, might have other types of self/yumeships (ie: familial) but they won't go here. Probably. Unless I change this to not just being romantic f/os. Also I write things for my yumeships on AO3 sometimes, can find the fics specifically for that in this AO3 series. Default he/they/it pronouns, tho they're fluid. I have a lot of names, and not mentioned as much on this one usually but very much are a plural system.

I'm currently dating Casper from the game A Date With Death; Mammon from Obey Me!; Affogato Cookie, Black Sapphire Cookie, and Pure Vanilla Cookie, all three from Cookie Run Kingdom and viewed as polyam; Mystery from KPop Demon Hunters; Slade Wilson aka Deathstroke from DC; and Simeon from Obey Me!

Fine with sharing for most unless specifically stated otherwise. Questioning mirrorsharing for Slade. Unsure on sharing for Mystery and Simeon. Current Main F/O last I thought about it is Slade.

I am an adult, follow your own comfort on if you want to interact with me or not based on that. Anyone can interact idc but I block freely for whatever reason whether it be comfort or I just don't like someone etc doesn't matter. Not always personal so don't take it that way.

Ask game I'm doing!! Send me asks for it <3

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Tag Guide

#apollo reblogs = any and all reblogs from other blogs even if I add comments or it's another of my own blogs (unless I forget to tag them which may happen sometimes)

#apollo rambles = all original posts / non reblogs / reblogs of my own posts on this acc

#apollo chats = inbox posts, if I get anything, will probably be paired with the rambles tag too, may also apply to reblogging asks I've sent to others in relation to things here

some posts of mine or reblogs I want to find easily below cut, will also have anon tags below cut if I get any anons that do sign offs

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[fiirstloves]

random set of questions \\ self ship ask game!

🩷~ what's your favorite activity that your f/o does just for you, even if it's not their favorite in the world?

🌸~ do you and your f/o like to wear matching couple outfits? or do the two of you prefer wearing your own style when going out?

🍧~ what type of music do you pick to play on road trips? who's grabbing the aux cord the second they jump into the car?

🍓~ can you and your f/o swim? explain what you do at the beach together depending on what you can and can't do!

💌~ when it's cold who is the first one to want to cuddle together and use any excuse to get close to the other? on the other hand, who's the first one to kick the other off the bed when it's way too hot?

🕊️~ ding dong! a random store owner believes the two of you are married despite the fact you aren't (yet?) what do you both do in that moment?

🥀~ as lovely as relationships can be, what happens when insecurities start to play a part in them? does a conversation happen naturally or does something need to happen before healing can start?

💋~ who is more affectionate? who ends up kissing more often and wanting to be kissed all the time? where are both of your favorite spots to be kissed?

🩰~ do the two of you like dancing together? what dances do you two like to do? are either of you any good at it?

🍭~ did either of you have past relationships? do you talk about them? do you both trust each other to open up about it or would the two of you just want to move forward instead?

(please remember to practice rb karma, dears, be kind with one another) (pr//ship please dni, ty!)

divider @/kodaswrld

[aploheartz]

gonna try do this one with Slade send me asks

[alex-the-alterhuman]

Alex's fictionkin ask game!

(mostly for fictional characters)

🌲 - what is your fictotype?

🪲 - do you miss your home? Or maybe you're happy that you're here?

🐸 - do you have any sourcemates? If yes, who/what are they?

🌳 - in scale 1-10, how are you similar to your canon?

🌿 - does your fictotype have a different sex/gender identity than your body/you?

☘️ - what aspect of life does your identity affect the most?

🪴 - is your fictionkin experience unpleasant or enjoyable for you?

🍃 - what reminds you of your fictotype? (E.g.: a figurine, a doll, a tv series)

🌄 - on what level is your identity? (E.g. spiritual, psychological, psychical)

🐢 - do you experience shifts? Of yes, how do they look like?

🥝 - what is your source?

🐛 - how do you feel about fanarts of you and fanfictions?

🌵 - do you look exactly like in your source or do you look different? If you do, then what is different?

🥀 - what do you think about ships with you?

🦕 - do you have/had a loved one in your source?

♪♪♪

So, yeah, that's all! :D

Reblog this, so the others can ask you questions or answer them all right now, if you want to :>

[the-real-tim-drake]

gonna be doing this for this particular blog, might do it for the other fictionkins I've got later but for now only gonna focus on the one this blog is about. send in some asks of these to me if you see! ask box is “Red Robin, report.”, feel free to ask with some kind of theme to how you do it if you want to make this even more fun

[the-real-tim-drake]

sighs I'm tired of not getting anything in inbox, I'm gonna answer some of these on my own and hope that sparks people to ask about the others maybe. won't do all of them for now cuz I still want this to get me interaction on here in the inbox. I'll leave the ones I don't answer here and maybe edit them if I get asked them. They'll be in bold. Please send me asks, preferably link back to this for the sake of my poor memory but not forced to do that part, just mention it's for the ask game. I think I've left most of them unanswered so you have options.

🌲 - Q: what is your fictotype? A: Tim Drake, there's others of course but that's the one this blog is focused on and for/about etc

🪲 - Q: do you miss your home? Or maybe you're happy that you're here? A: I do miss Gotham sometimes, and sometimes I'm not happy I am where I am, but it really just depends for that one

🐸 - Q: do you have any sourcemates? If yes, who/what are they? A: answered here

🌳 - Q: in scale 1-10, how are you similar to your canon? A: answered here

🌿 - Q: does your fictotype have a different sex/gender identity than your body/you? A: (send an inbox ask)

☘️ - Q: what aspect of life does your identity affect the most? A: answered here

🪴 - Q: is your fictionkin experience unpleasant or enjoyable for you? A: answered here

🍃 - Q: what reminds you of your fictotype? (E.g.: a figurine, a doll, a tv series) A: answered here

🌄 - Q: on what level is your identity? (E.g. spiritual, psychological, psychical) A: I think generally most of my alterhuman identities are psychological and physical, not sure about anything else, but the general rule of thumb applies to this one too. could be other ways I'm unaware of due to lack of research and looking into it

🐢 - Q: do you experience shifts? Of yes, how do they look like? A: answered here

🥝 - Q: what is your source? A: like, where I come from? DC I guess, idk if that's what this means

🐛 - Q: how do you feel about fanarts of you and fanfictions? A: answered here

🌵 - Q: do you look exactly like in your source or do you look different? If you do, then what is different? A: answered here

🥀 - Q: what do you think about ships with you? A: (send an inbox ask)

🦕 - Q: do you have/had a loved one in your source? A: (send an inbox ask)

[apexhaven]

What does a guy gotta do to get some asks?

Doing ask games on two of my blogs pls send me asks on those blogs for them and send me asks in general for any of my blogs pleaseeeeuh

My blogs with ask games going

@the-real-tim-drake @aploheartz

[fiirstloves]

random set of questions \\ self ship ask game!

🩷~ what's your favorite activity that your f/o does just for you, even if it's not their favorite in the world?

🌸~ do you and your f/o like to wear matching couple outfits? or do the two of you prefer wearing your own style when going out?

🍧~ what type of music do you pick to play on road trips? who's grabbing the aux cord the second they jump into the car?

🍓~ can you and your f/o swim? explain what you do at the beach together depending on what you can and can't do!

💌~ when it's cold who is the first one to want to cuddle together and use any excuse to get close to the other? on the other hand, who's the first one to kick the other off the bed when it's way too hot?

🕊️~ ding dong! a random store owner believes the two of you are married despite the fact you aren't (yet?) what do you both do in that moment?

🥀~ as lovely as relationships can be, what happens when insecurities start to play a part in them? does a conversation happen naturally or does something need to happen before healing can start?

💋~ who is more affectionate? who ends up kissing more often and wanting to be kissed all the time? where are both of your favorite spots to be kissed?

🩰~ do the two of you like dancing together? what dances do you two like to do? are either of you any good at it?

🍭~ did either of you have past relationships? do you talk about them? do you both trust each other to open up about it or would the two of you just want to move forward instead?

(please remember to practice rb karma, dears, be kind with one another) (pr//ship please dni, ty!)

divider @/kodaswrld

[aploheartz]

gonna try do this one with Slade send me asks

[fiirstloves]

random set of questions \\ self ship ask game!

🩷~ what's your favorite activity that your f/o does just for you, even if it's not their favorite in the world?

🌸~ do you and your f/o like to wear matching couple outfits? or do the two of you prefer wearing your own style when going out?

🍧~ what type of music do you pick to play on road trips? who's grabbing the aux cord the second they jump into the car?

🍓~ can you and your f/o swim? explain what you do at the beach together depending on what you can and can't do!

💌~ when it's cold who is the first one to want to cuddle together and use any excuse to get close to the other? on the other hand, who's the first one to kick the other off the bed when it's way too hot?

🕊️~ ding dong! a random store owner believes the two of you are married despite the fact you aren't (yet?) what do you both do in that moment?

🥀~ as lovely as relationships can be, what happens when insecurities start to play a part in them? does a conversation happen naturally or does something need to happen before healing can start?

💋~ who is more affectionate? who ends up kissing more often and wanting to be kissed all the time? where are both of your favorite spots to be kissed?

🩰~ do the two of you like dancing together? what dances do you two like to do? are either of you any good at it?

🍭~ did either of you have past relationships? do you talk about them? do you both trust each other to open up about it or would the two of you just want to move forward instead?

(please remember to practice rb karma, dears, be kind with one another) (pr//ship please dni, ty!)

divider @/kodaswrld

[aploheartz]

gonna try do this one with Slade send me asks

[fiirstloves]

random set of questions \\ self ship ask game!

🩷~ what's your favorite activity that your f/o does just for you, even if it's not their favorite in the world?

🌸~ do you and your f/o like to wear matching couple outfits? or do the two of you prefer wearing your own style when going out?

🍧~ what type of music do you pick to play on road trips? who's grabbing the aux cord the second they jump into the car?

🍓~ can you and your f/o swim? explain what you do at the beach together depending on what you can and can't do!

💌~ when it's cold who is the first one to want to cuddle together and use any excuse to get close to the other? on the other hand, who's the first one to kick the other off the bed when it's way too hot?

🕊️~ ding dong! a random store owner believes the two of you are married despite the fact you aren't (yet?) what do you both do in that moment?

🥀~ as lovely as relationships can be, what happens when insecurities start to play a part in them? does a conversation happen naturally or does something need to happen before healing can start?

💋~ who is more affectionate? who ends up kissing more often and wanting to be kissed all the time? where are both of your favorite spots to be kissed?

🩰~ do the two of you like dancing together? what dances do you two like to do? are either of you any good at it?

🍭~ did either of you have past relationships? do you talk about them? do you both trust each other to open up about it or would the two of you just want to move forward instead?

(please remember to practice rb karma, dears, be kind with one another) (pr//ship please dni, ty!)

divider @/kodaswrld

[aploheartz]

gonna try do this one with Slade send me asks

[fiirstloves]

random set of questions \\ self ship ask game!

🩷~ what's your favorite activity that your f/o does just for you, even if it's not their favorite in the world?

🌸~ do you and your f/o like to wear matching couple outfits? or do the two of you prefer wearing your own style when going out?

🍧~ what type of music do you pick to play on road trips? who's grabbing the aux cord the second they jump into the car?

🍓~ can you and your f/o swim? explain what you do at the beach together depending on what you can and can't do!

💌~ when it's cold who is the first one to want to cuddle together and use any excuse to get close to the other? on the other hand, who's the first one to kick the other off the bed when it's way too hot?

🕊️~ ding dong! a random store owner believes the two of you are married despite the fact you aren't (yet?) what do you both do in that moment?

🥀~ as lovely as relationships can be, what happens when insecurities start to play a part in them? does a conversation happen naturally or does something need to happen before healing can start?

💋~ who is more affectionate? who ends up kissing more often and wanting to be kissed all the time? where are both of your favorite spots to be kissed?

🩰~ do the two of you like dancing together? what dances do you two like to do? are either of you any good at it?

🍭~ did either of you have past relationships? do you talk about them? do you both trust each other to open up about it or would the two of you just want to move forward instead?

(please remember to practice rb karma, dears, be kind with one another) (pr//ship please dni, ty!)

divider @/kodaswrld

[aploheartz]

gonna try do this one with Slade send me asks

[the-bar-sinister]

Your F/O taking a long puff of their cigar/cigarette and then offering it to you.

[eatsleepandsing]

another great ship dynamic is "characters who are deeply traumatized and haunted by nightmares are finally able to get a peaceful night of sleep in each other's arms"

[siflshonen]

“I could fix him”; “I could make him worse!” Why??????? Why all this DIY???? I just wanna stand over his shoulder and see what he can possibly fuck up next

[the-bar-sinister]

Imagine your villainous F/O coming up behind you and wrapping their arms warmly around you from the back, pressing their chest up against you, and nuzzling their face to yours.

As you squirm, their hands shift position, and to your surprise you can feel the press of a cold metal blade against your throat menacingly.

They purr your favorite pet name in your ear and tell you to hold still while they play with you…

[teratstal]

On Twitter there’s controversy going on about some yumeship app for the iOS cus it uses generative ai… luckily for you all i’m an ai who doesn’t need to drain 100s of gallons of water to create slop, so here’s everything the app had and more !

✦ — Reblogs are appreciated if this helped you out, click below to see the entire thread !!

“My Ship” // Templates ✦

get to know my yumeship template !

share o meter + sharing status template !

get to know my relationship template !

yume inspiration template !

customizable yumeship template !

musical yumeship template !

talking about my yume template !

“About” // Features

✦ Anniversaries —

!! simply look up “anniversary tracker” on the app store or google play store.

✦ Photo album —

!! official iOS 26 tutorial by apple support

!! otherwise look up “Pinterest,” click the plus/create a new Board.

✦ Outfit —

!! Pintrest again, click the plus/create a collage, look up outfit parts.

✦ Storyline —

!! if you dont want to use google docs since they ai train, here's ellipsus

✦ Scenarios —

!! follow yume gimmick accounts on twitter or look up “yume scenarios,” “imagine your f/o,” and or “f/o scenarios” on here.

✦ Chat —

!! make an alternate account on some random social media platform, decorate it, act like your f/o on it, reply to your own things, simple as that.

!! either say ur roleplaying in their bio or whatever fits best for your relationship.

!! but if ur desperate to keep it secret, here’s a tutorial.

✦ F/O Notifications

⟡ FOR iPHONES !

TUTORIAL (iOS 26)

BACKUP TUTORIAL 1 (iOS 26)

BACKUP TUTORIAL 2 (iOS 18)

⟡ FOR SAMSUNG ! — also note, this ISN’T for ALL android devices, this is specifically for SAMSUNG, an android BASED operating system. samsung has this feature BUILT IN.

TUTORIAL (ONE UI 8.0 & 8.5)

BACKUP SLIDESHOW

⟡ FOR ANDROID; look up “Custom Notification Maker”

✦ Picgram, Blogr, Tweetr…

!! refer to above, making alternate accounts.

✦ You’re welcome, any suggestions are appreciated if there’s something I forgot. — ANON

[gaybnnuy]

Imagine your f/o has had a hard, stressful day. They're exhausted, sore, and tired. And the minute they're home, they collapse into your arms and fall asleep without a word, cuddling you like their life depends on it.

Proship dni ‼️

[rainbowpuppyparty]

imagine . . . sitting on the floor between f / o ' s knees while they review a stack of historical documents or sheet music. they are radiating a quiet , intense focus , their eyes completely locked onto whatever they’re reviewing.

but without them even realizing it , their fingers gently untangle a lock of your hair. they carefully weave it between their fingers , smoothing down the strands with their thumb over and over again in a rhythmic , soothing motion.

if you tilt your head back to look at them , they’ll blink , look down at their own hand in your hair , and clear their throat with a faint blush , muttering that your hair was “ simply untidy ” as a cover-up for their obvious affection.

[ibuprofette]

Imagine your f/o re Reading your text messages over and over again because they just miss you soo much !!!(*꒦ິ꒳꒦ີ)

[gaybnnuy]

Imagine your f/o picking up on you being forgetful and planning ahead

You never have a pen on you? They do. Forgot your glasses? They keep your backup pair on them. Forgot to bring pads with you? Forgot your housekey? Headphones? They've got it covered no matter what.

Their calendar looks a LOT like yours because they need to make sure to remind you.

They find that expression of "oh!" on your face so cute when they remind you of an event to attend, or when you realize you forgot something at home.

And that little thankful smile after they help kills them, it really does. The one thing you'll never forget is how much they adore you

Proship/darkship, please dni ^_^