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As an anti-transmed, I’m very angry at how our community has been treating transfem people lately. The whole ‘tucute’ community was started by a trans woman that transmeds insist on calling cis to this day, and now I’m seeing transmasc anti-transmeds say that the tucute community is ‘for trans men only?’ Like, excuse me but

Fuck no, you’re wrong.

The anti-transmed/tucute community was literally coined by a trans woman with the purpose of uniting trans men, trans women and nonbinary people against the toxic gatekeeping of the transmed community, and now a bunch of misogynistic trans dudes are excluding our transfem siblings, and for what purpose? Transfem people already experience higher rates of violence than we trans men do, and now you want to kick them out of the space they created? This is unacceptable. It’s transmisogyny, and it should have no space in the tucute, anti-transmed or trendercore communities. This does not reflect the values of what it means to be an anti-transmed, and in fact goes against everything we stand for. So, @ all the transmascs that have no problem excluding transfem people:

Get. The. Hell. Out. Of. My. Community. You’re not an anti-transmed/tucute/trendercore. You’re a transmisogynist and transmisogyny doesn’t belong here.

Transfem people please feel free to add on/correct me on anything. Your voice is so important and you need to be heard.

megan-against-nasties

So on my main I made a post abt how tucute circles are like, just fucking filled with blatant transmisogyny (and just misogyny to lesser point but that's a seperate post). You may have seen it

And like one person said tucute was for transmen only, so we got the classic "if you exclude transfems unfollow me UwU" which like. Thanks for doing the bare minimum?? But the original post is about blatant transmisogyny not just exclusion of transfems. Like the least you can do is "a community coined/started by a trans women is open to transfem people UwU" wow omg thanks I had no idea?? hdjdbsis god I sound so bitchy but it's just

Y'all are missing the whole god damn point of the OP to make ourselves look better by arguing against one person who also missed the point

megan-against-nasties

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The lack of interaction with this post is telling babes

cottoncandytrender

《New trendercore blog!》

Candy

[Attention: this is how I draw MYSELF, candy is not a character. Ve's me. No reclaiming.]

Pronouns: Ne/Nym/Nis/Nymself

Example:

This is Candy. Ne wants to welcome you to Nis blog, and asks that you be respectful to Nym. Ne drew this art Nymself!

Auxiliary: They/Them, but Nym set is preferred

Favorite foods: Cotton candy, Blue raspberry/cherry ICEEs, bubble gum, blue fruity candy of any kind, sugar cookies, apples, peaches, and plums

Favorite songs: Am I Awake by They Might Be Giants, Dream Sweet in Sea Major by Musical Miracle, Nobody by Mitski

Special Interests: Mystery Skulls Animated, Ace attorney, ghosts/the supernatural

Boost? @twendercore @cisphobicagenda @official-cisphobe @quiet-times @vriskatrender @portalcatismogai

misogynistcatgirl

Transfemenine server!!!

My gf made a server for transfemenine people, it's really small and undeveloped now, but we really want more members so it can turn into a proper community!!!

The server members are all inclus and have a high a-spec concentration, we're all anti-transmed too

The link expires in one day, but I'll reblog this post with another if people want, and if you do me I'll always be open to sending you an invite

Check out the Transfems united community on Discord - hang out with 7 other members and enjoy free voice and text chat.

non transfem reblog please?

vinself

Hey, I'm new to the nonbinary-trendcore-genderpunk area of tumblr (new blog uwu) and was wondering if you could share some of your favorite blogs? I need an active dash >_< P.S: You seem really rad btw!!

aaa thank you!!

@twendercore

@trendercore-orbisian

@neotrender

@uwumars

@nyanbinaryz

@trenderpawz

@nebularomantictrender

@trenderzeraora

also, i’m pretty sure i forgot a lot of good blogs, so mutuals & followers feel free to promo your blogs on this post

marshmallowmlm

trans ask meme!

1. what is your gender?

2. what are your pronouns?

3. what is your gender presentation like?

4. what is your Gender Euphoria Outfit?

5. what makes you feel validated?

6. top five favorite parts of your body (n why you love them)?

7. favorite trans meme/bit of trans humor?

8. how did you pick your name?

9. what does your name mean?

10. do you have any trans pride merch?

11. recent happy trans moment?

12. favorite trans headcanon?

13. favorite canon trans character? (alt: 2nd favorite trans headcanon?)

14. favorite trans blog(s)/trans blogger(s)?

15. favorite trans celebrity?

16. song that gives you Big Trans Feels?

17. something you wish you could tell your younger self?

18. what would your Ideal Fashion Look be?

19. (how) does your gender relate to your sexuality?

20. do you have a comfort item?

21. what makes you feel euphoric?

22. what genre of media would you love to see more trans characters in?

23. claim something as trans culture.

24. give some love to your trans friends/mutuals (alt: give some love to the trans community in general)

25. what's your favorite part of being trans?

gayboywooloo

If people are looking for good trendercore flags that aren’t f*rris’, May I suggest @trendercore-flags , they’re a kinda new blog and don’t have every flag, but you can request any one you want! And they’re pretty speedy with requests too. They’re also ace/mogai friendly 🥰

trendercore-flags

oh hey, thats me! thanks for the promo!

morinokunikara

go in my inbox and describe me im terms of “op literally ____ but go off i guess”

misogynistcatgirl

Ok trendercore transmascs, y'all seem to be getting really pissy about transfems wanting to be included in trendercore, so here's a few tips on how to do it without being a lil bitch:

Stop making it an unsafe place and platforming transmisogynists

Respect trans women

Stop doing that thing where you push trans women out of trans spaces like you did with the trans community as a whole

Be more accepting of non-pretty transfems, most of us aren't sexy big boob-ed beauties slathered in makeup

STOP MAKING TRANSMISOGYNISTIC JOKES AND UPHOLDING TRANSMISOGYNISTIC MEDIA AS "REP"

Maybe, just stop demonising transfem and other amab trans people? Please??

Listen to transfem, you'll learn something

Maybe make some content about transfemenine people? Sylvia Rivera fought for your rights, draw a picture of her or smthn

Or just make more transfemenine ocs, and you could make them not transmisogynistic this time

And stop saying it's safer to be excluded

misogynistcatgirl

Oh, and yeah, RB this post

misogynistcatgirl

(in response to some recent anons)

Some of y'all, (and actually, I’ve only ever see transmascs do this) in the trans community are really looking for any opportunity to hate on trans women

As soon as a trans woman does something bad, y'all will compare her to terfs, you will apply transmisogynistic stereotypes onto them, etcetera, and I think it’s disgusting, because then you pretend to care about trans women, reblogging little one word positivity posts (while you reblog entire resource posts for transmascs) and being anti-terf (which doesn’t make you pro-trans woman)

And then there is the fucking untruths, calling us “shady” and too aggressive when you can’t think of a reason to hate us, saying “I heard someone say they’re bad” when you can’t be bothered to give us a reason why you hate us, trying to send us asks to catch us out by accusing us of transmisogyny ourselves, or even accusing us of being your oppressors, and I’m fucking sick of it

And of course there’s the transmisogynistic jokes, and the hcing of male characters to be transfem, and the drawing of trans women to be hypermasculine, AND THE ENTIRE THING WHERE YOUVE ESSENTIALLY PUSHED US OUT THE TRANS COMMUNITY

I’m so sick of having to deal with those that do this, I’m sure it’s not all transmascs, but I’ve met 3 transmisogynistic transmascs for every 1 transmasc ive met who is an ally to transfem, and that’s not good, more of you need to be allies, that is vital for the survival or the community

Non-transfem are encouraged to reblog, but if you’re cis or a man/masc don’t think of clowning on this post

goodoldfashionedfanboy-deactiva

As a trans man I’m so sorry you have to put up with this bullcrap, us transmasc people (especially transmeds) need to do better. I support my trans sisters and transfem siblings 100%, and transmisogyny should have no place in our community.