its all connected ahhhh

this is all in good fun! see a gender term that's too complicated for ya? send it my way! (Not limited to AP, just an example) Mogai friendly || Neopronouns friendly || he/him lesbian friendly

[cybergal-png-deactivated2026051]

Hewwo pwease hewp me I’m-

Wondering why people still defend he/him lesbians and nondysphoric ppl claiming to be trans and ace inclusionists

[trainwreckbisexual]

because none of them are hurting anyone lmaooo

he/him lesbians are just gnc lesbians that are disconnected from womanhood

dysphoria isn’t what makes you trans and it’s just a side effect of gender incongruence

ace inclusionists at their core just want to be more inclusive and make people feel welcome, and you may disagree with that & that’s fine but they’re not bad people as a whole

[system-lgbt]

@tillallareone is a he/him lesbian and my partner. He still identifies as femgender (lunettian xirl) but uses he/him because he doesn’t care what pronouns people use.

[arcotranslated]

stuff like this really tells you how REGs arent involved in any lgbt+ communities. talk to a feminine gay man, or a group of them. you know what they call each other? she. queen. sister. it's literally in our history that lgbt+ men and women and everyone else has used terms that 'disagree' with our percieved gender. it is. literally. lgbt+. history. go the fuck away with this "you must use your assigned pronouns or you're being queer wrong" bullshit. there is NO reason for it.

[arcotranslated]

truscum: you must experience dysphoria to be trans

tucutes: no you dont, you just have to experience a disconnect from your assigned gender

truscum: no thats wrong. look it up. you’re cis.

truscum when they realize theyve gotten the definition of dysphoria wrong: uhh.. so like.. dysphoria is when you feel a disconnect.

tucutes: oh so now you’re saying that tucutes experience dysphoria, they just dont know what it is.

truscum: no, no, you’re still cis.

tucutes: -looking into the camera like theyre on the office- you’ve found new and improved ways to be wrong

[trainwreckbisexual]

what why do you think people have to go to a doctor and get diagnosed with gender dysphoria before taking HRT if its not a mental condition? or why top and bottom surgery isnt cosmetic and can be covered by insurance? you seem uh nice but super confusing and contradicting ngl. like gender dysphoria is literally the disconnect between your body and your mind. also caused by a chemical imbalance. which is why most people transition, to ease their condition. r u ok, i recommend you research more

yeah gender dysphoria is a medical condition & i don’t remember saying it wasn’t? but being trans isn’t a medical condition

[system-lgbt]

Anon I think you’re the one who’s confused here.

[arcotranslated]

" like gender dysphoria is literally the disconnect between your body and your mind" uhhhhhhhh nooooo?

[apfrombmpf]

Oh really? Shut up. How does being proud of being trans make anyone a "transtrender"??? First it was "you need dysphoria to be trans" now its "even if you have dysphoria, you arent allowed to be proud of being trans"??? I wish transphobes would make up their minds about which argument to use. Or are you gonna call me a fujoshi despite the fact that im a gay man like all the other transphobes ive dealt with?

Did you look up the transtrender meaning? It’s anyone happy of their transness. Sorry I don’t make the rules.

Fujoshi has became a truscum/terf slur for gay men focused in being gay more than being man, ofc it was banalized because it’s just about fandom shipping (I’m fujoshi myself).

[jelly-brainz]

I dont need to look up the meaning bc transtrending isnt a real thing, twit.

The flag was made by a proud, dysphoric trans person. I myself am a proud, dysphoric transman. Does being proud of myself mean im suddenly not trans, even if i have a dysphoric episode???

And no, truscum and terfs dont use “fujoshi” against gay men more focused on being gay than being a man. I know because ive had several transphobes call me a fujoshi because i havent transitioned yet. Said i was “pretending to be a gay man because gay men are your fetish” when?? Theyre not??

[apfrombmpf]

Nondysphoric trans isn’t a real thing anyway, only circumstantially (socially dysphoric and coporeally euphoric), anyone who uses a gender that isn’t exclusively their AGAB transcended gender spectrum so they are gender transverse (transgender).

If you don’t believe transtrender is a thing why are you arguing anyway? Just because someone signified doesn’t cease abstract and self-interpretative descriptions. 

Also if someone is transtrender they are trans, that would be redundant saying the opposite (except the case of cistrans ppl). But I was just referring how they threat the word transtrender, that I’m proud. It’s like cisphobia, some ppl call themselves cisphobes but it doesn’t not exist (same with misandry).

[oumogai]

transtrender doesnt mean ‘happy to be trans’ where did you even learn that. transtrender is a nb-and-xenophobic term used against people who use nb and xenogenders and occasionally ‘nondysphoric’ trans, saying theyre using being trans as a ‘fad or trend’ instead of just experiencing being trans differently than binary trans people

[apfrombmpf]

didn’t you notice how they act this word means? I don’t think it’s just about trans identity elitism, anti-transtrenders often experience internalized hate and blame selft-determined nondysphorics for it. That’s my view point.

[arcotranslated]

Did you look up the transtrender meaning? It’s anyone happy of their transness. Sorry I don’t make the rules.

The current use of transtrender in anti-trender circles really does mean this tbh. Proud of being trans? Sorry, you’re a trender now.

Fujoshi has became a truscum/terf slur for gay men focused in being gay more than being man, ofc it was banalized because it’s just about fandom shipping (I’m fujoshi myself).

While I’m iffy on the word ‘slur’ here, this is also true to an extent. “Fujoshi” has recently been misused and misdefined, and then the people who misdefine it turn around and call gay men (usually trans gay men, because transphobia) fujoshi’s (because it means woman who ships slash. Basically “You think you’re a gay men because you love your uwu sin babies”)

Nondysphoric trans isn’t a real thing anyway, only circumstantially (socially dysphoric and coporeally euphoric), anyone who uses a gender that isn’t exclusively their AGAB transcended gender spectrum so they are gender transverse (transgender).

AP believes that people who are ‘nondysphoric’ actually experience some kind of dysphoria, they just don’t know it or it’s atypical dysphoria. Ae believes the ‘disconnect’ between assigned gender and actual gender is caused by dysphoria, realized or not.

But I was just referring how they threat the word transtrender, that I’m proud. It’s like cisphobia, some ppl call themselves cisphobes but it doesn’t not exist (same with misandry).

Same as above (with the current meaning of transtrender)

didn’t you notice how they act this word means? I don’t think it’s just about trans identity elitism, anti-transtrenders often experience internalized hate and blame selft-determined nondysphorics for it. That’s my view point.

And finally, this point, which is similar to the ones above but a bit more in depth. The current use of trender is influenced by a lot of anti-trender people believing that, more or less, being trans is defined by suffering and self-hatred. Thus this has created the belief that liking or being proud of being trans is inherently Trendering

As always, please take this ‘translation’ with a grain of salt. My goal is simply to simplify and reorganize thoughts and opinions for accessibility purposes. If I’m wrong please correct me.

[jelly-brainz]

Are you gonna even touch the whole “misandry doesnt exist” bit? And if they really have that mindset of “anti trenders see trans as being defined by self hatred” or something along those lines, why did they go on someone else’s post and call them a transtrender??

[arcotranslated]

OH sure, ill touch on the “misandry doesnt exist” bit!

“misandry doesnt exist”

Meaning:  misandry doesnt exist

[apfrombmpf]

Oh really? Shut up. How does being proud of being trans make anyone a "transtrender"??? First it was "you need dysphoria to be trans" now its "even if you have dysphoria, you arent allowed to be proud of being trans"??? I wish transphobes would make up their minds about which argument to use. Or are you gonna call me a fujoshi despite the fact that im a gay man like all the other transphobes ive dealt with?

Did you look up the transtrender meaning? It’s anyone happy of their transness. Sorry I don’t make the rules.

Fujoshi has became a truscum/terf slur for gay men focused in being gay more than being man, ofc it was banalized because it’s just about fandom shipping (I’m fujoshi myself).

[jelly-brainz]

I dont need to look up the meaning bc transtrending isnt a real thing, twit.

The flag was made by a proud, dysphoric trans person. I myself am a proud, dysphoric transman. Does being proud of myself mean im suddenly not trans, even if i have a dysphoric episode???

And no, truscum and terfs dont use “fujoshi” against gay men more focused on being gay than being a man. I know because ive had several transphobes call me a fujoshi because i havent transitioned yet. Said i was “pretending to be a gay man because gay men are your fetish” when?? Theyre not??

[apfrombmpf]

Nondysphoric trans isn’t a real thing anyway, only circumstantially (socially dysphoric and coporeally euphoric), anyone who uses a gender that isn’t exclusively their AGAB transcended gender spectrum so they are gender transverse (transgender).

If you don’t believe transtrender is a thing why are you arguing anyway? Just because someone signified doesn’t cease abstract and self-interpretative descriptions. 

Also if someone is transtrender they are trans, that would be redundant saying the opposite (except the case of cistrans ppl). But I was just referring how they threat the word transtrender, that I’m proud. It’s like cisphobia, some ppl call themselves cisphobes but it doesn’t not exist (same with misandry).

[oumogai]

transtrender doesnt mean ‘happy to be trans’ where did you even learn that. transtrender is a nb-and-xenophobic term used against people who use nb and xenogenders and occasionally ‘nondysphoric’ trans, saying theyre using being trans as a 'fad or trend’ instead of just experiencing being trans differently than binary trans people

[apfrombmpf]

didn’t you notice how they act this word means? I don’t think it’s just about trans identity elitism, anti-transtrenders often experience internalized hate and blame selft-determined nondysphorics for it. That’s my view point.

[arcotranslated]

Did you look up the transtrender meaning? It’s anyone happy of their transness. Sorry I don’t make the rules.

The current use of transtrender in anti-trender circles really does mean this tbh. Proud of being trans? Sorry, you’re a trender now.

Fujoshi has became a truscum/terf slur for gay men focused in being gay more than being man, ofc it was banalized because it’s just about fandom shipping (I’m fujoshi myself).

While I’m iffy on the word ‘slur’ here, this is also true to an extent. “Fujoshi” has recently been misused and misdefined, and then the people who misdefine it turn around and call gay men (usually trans gay men, because transphobia) fujoshi’s (because it means woman who ships slash. Basically “You think you’re a gay men because you love your uwu sin babies”)

Nondysphoric trans isn’t a real thing anyway, only circumstantially (socially dysphoric and coporeally euphoric), anyone who uses a gender that isn’t exclusively their AGAB transcended gender spectrum so they are gender transverse (transgender).

AP believes that people who are ‘nondysphoric’ actually experience some kind of dysphoria, they just don’t know it or it’s atypical dysphoria. Ae believes the ‘disconnect’ between assigned gender and actual gender is caused by dysphoria, realized or not.

But I was just referring how they threat the word transtrender, that I’m proud. It’s like cisphobia, some ppl call themselves cisphobes but it doesn’t not exist (same with misandry).

Same as above (with the current meaning of transtrender)

didn’t you notice how they act this word means? I don’t think it’s just about trans identity elitism, anti-transtrenders often experience internalized hate and blame selft-determined nondysphorics for it. That’s my view point.

And finally, this point, which is similar to the ones above but a bit more in depth. The current use of trender is influenced by a lot of anti-trender people believing that, more or less, being trans is defined by suffering and self-hatred. Thus this has created the belief that liking or being proud of being trans is inherently Trendering

As always, please take this ‘translation’ with a grain of salt. My goal is simply to simplify and reorganize thoughts and opinions for accessibility purposes. If I’m wrong please correct me.

[arcopluris]

Please explain your about, I don't understand most of your labels.

Your ask need more nuance. About or bio?

[system-lgbt]

Your gender list, arco.

[arcopluris]

I guess now it’s resumed into xenine nixpangi attraflux, my genderlessness has pangender aspects (librapangender?), my attraflux is an altegender femache (male-female), sometimes magiboy pixelgirl, other times emiboy demigirl as examples. I’d say these comgendered feelings are negatrois (negative-genders), and my agendered feeling is positive (positrois), I can’t tell if this is zerogender (genderlight), cendgender, but sure divigender of demiagender. The gender-freedom is compared to a pearl, mixing null colors and light (forming a rainbow in it), so a neutragender. It could be genderfluid (so amplusian or possigender), panlingender (panfin+panmingender), gendereaux neudoux and nullary (a(non))binary.

My gender identity(ies) is/are completely xenine (in nature?), associated with clouds (nubegender, cloudgender too), ocean/water (hydrogender, seasea mavrine and many others), air (foggender, ventigender), astral (astrogender, stargendercosmic, epicaeline aliegender), ground/earth (mazeplexgender, panaplocgender, ouygenderbloom, estrialgender ale), fire (anti-magmagender, ardegender), fayries (pixiegender, genderei), etc.

[arcotranslated]

Xenine Nixpangi Attraflux:

Xenine is xeno of course, Nixpangi is an identity comprised of both genderless and partial pandrogynous or androgye pan-aligned aspects, and attraflux means someone whose gender changes to be the same as or similar to who they are attracted to at the time.

So a xenine genderless+pangender+condigender

my genderlessness has pangender aspects (librapangender?):

This part’s libragender yeah, p simple

my attraflux is an altegender femache (male-female), sometimes magiboy pixelgirl, other times emiboy demigirl as examples

Altegender: derived from shortening the phrase “alternate existence.” It is a xenogender that feels as though it’s in a parallel dimension, on a different plane, in a mirror universe, or just in an alternate existence. 

Femache means a simultaneous male-female experience. 

Magigender/magiboy: Related to demigender, magigender means to identify as mostly one gender and slightly as another gender(s).

Pixelgender/pixelgirl: A subset of demigender when one gender is the smallest addressable element in an overall gender experience. Ex: A pixelgirl would be a tiny bit “girl” but mostly something else.

Emigender/emiboy: Having a loose or weak connection to a gender or certain qualities, but not actually being that gender. Can be combined with relevant genders. This flag is for all varieties of this gender type.

listen im not gonna list demigender because im going to run out of room okay

Those genders are the ones 🎈s experienced for attraflux.

I’d say these comgendered feelings are negatrois (negative-genders), and my agendered feeling is positive (positrois), I can’t tell if this is zerogender (genderlight), cendgender, but sure divigender of demiagender. The gender-freedom is compared to a pearl, mixing null colors and light (forming a rainbow in it), so a neutragender

I have no idea what the positive and negative gender feelings mean. ive read the posts so many times and just.. nothing.

My gender identity(ies) is/are completely xenine (in nature?), associated with clouds (nubegender, cloudgender too), ocean/water (hydrogender, seasea mavrine and many others), air (foggender, ventigender), astral (astrogender, stargendercosmic, epicaeline aliegender), ground/earth (mazeplexgender, panaplocgender, ouygenderbloom, estrialgender ale), fire (anti-magmagender, ardegender), fayries (pixiegender, genderei), etc.

🎈 xenine genders are related to:

Clouds

Ocean/water

Air

Astral

Ground/Earth

Fire

Fairies

More

In conclusion:

Genderfluid, librapangender (agender+pangender), lots of xenogenders, and nonbinary genders that are in some part male and/or female. Emphasis on gender fluidity, neutrality, and xenine.

Please let me know if I’ve gotten anything wrong or oversimplified to the point of disrespect.

[arcopluris]

I said I was possigender (possibly genderfluid), I’m most genderfluX. Negative/positive genders are explained here.

Basically my agender-ness is pan-aligned, but this pangender alignment has an attraflux (attractional genderflux, depending on who I’m attracted to a gender alignment grows and another decreases but does not cease to exist). The attraflux isn’t essentially a condigender because the alignments are still there circumstantially or not.

[arcotranslated]

Tbh the negative/positive genders are near impossible to understand from the average point of view. They're VERY jargon heavy and involve a lot of complicated thinking for abstract concepts, if that makes sense. Also attraflux is by definition a condigender I believe? Even if the alignments are constant. Still, I didn't mean to imply condigender was your identity so much as it was an easier way of explaining several of the more complicated terms/ideas there. I'll definitely remember it's flux not fluid and the alignment is constant. Still, sorry for the confusion. I got pretty close! I'll keep this info in mind for future reference, too.

[arcopluris]

Please explain your about, I don't understand most of your labels.

Your ask need more nuance. About or bio?

[system-lgbt]

Your gender list, arco.

[arcopluris]

I guess now it’s resumed into xenine nixpangi attraflux, my genderlessness has pangender aspects (librapangender?), my attraflux is an altegender femache (male-female), sometimes magiboy pixelgirl, other times emiboy demigirl as examples. I’d say these comgendered feelings are negatrois (negative-genders), and my agendered feeling is positive (positrois), I can’t tell if this is zerogender (genderlight), cendgender, but sure divigender of demiagender. The gender-freedom is compared to a pearl, mixing null colors and light (forming a rainbow in it), so a neutragender. It could be genderfluid (so amplusian or possigender), panlingender (panfin+panmingender), gendereaux neudoux and nullary (a(non))binary.

My gender identity(ies) is/are completely xenine (in nature?), associated with clouds (nubegender, cloudgender too), ocean/water (hydrogender, seasea mavrine and many others), air (foggender, ventigender), astral (astrogender, stargendercosmic, epicaeline aliegender), ground/earth (mazeplexgender, panaplocgender, ouygenderbloom, estrialgender ale), fire (anti-magmagender, ardegender), fayries (pixiegender, genderei), etc.

[arcotranslated]

Xenine Nixpangi Attraflux:

Xenine is xeno of course, Nixpangi is an identity comprised of both genderless and partial pandrogynous or androgye pan-aligned aspects, and attraflux means someone whose gender changes to be the same as or similar to who they are attracted to at the time.

So a xenine genderless+pangender+condigender

my genderlessness has pangender aspects (librapangender?):

This part’s libragender yeah, p simple

my attraflux is an altegender femache (male-female), sometimes magiboy pixelgirl, other times emiboy demigirl as examples

Altegender: derived from shortening the phrase “alternate existence.” It is a xenogender that feels as though it’s in a parallel dimension, on a different plane, in a mirror universe, or just in an alternate existence. 

Femache means a simultaneous male-female experience. 

Magigender/magiboy: Related to demigender, magigender means to identify as mostly one gender and slightly as another gender(s).

Pixelgender/pixelgirl: A subset of demigender when one gender is the smallest addressable element in an overall gender experience. Ex: A pixelgirl would be a tiny bit "girl" but mostly something else.

Emigender/emiboy: Having a loose or weak connection to a gender or certain qualities, but not actually being that gender. Can be combined with relevant genders. This flag is for all varieties of this gender type.

listen im not gonna list demigender because im going to run out of room okay

Those genders are the ones 🎈s experienced for attraflux.

I’d say these comgendered feelings are negatrois (negative-genders), and my agendered feeling is positive (positrois), I can’t tell if this is zerogender (genderlight), cendgender, but sure divigender of demiagender. The gender-freedom is compared to a pearl, mixing null colors and light (forming a rainbow in it), so a neutragender

I have no idea what the positive and negative gender feelings mean. ive read the posts so many times and just.. nothing.

My gender identity(ies) is/are completely xenine (in nature?), associated with clouds (nubegender, cloudgender too), ocean/water (hydrogender, seasea mavrine and many others), air (foggender, ventigender), astral (astrogender, stargendercosmic, epicaeline aliegender), ground/earth (mazeplexgender, panaplocgender, ouygenderbloom, estrialgender ale), fire (anti-magmagender, ardegender), fayries (pixiegender, genderei), etc.

🎈 xenine genders are related to:

Clouds

Ocean/water

Air

Astral

Ground/Earth

Fire

Fairies

More

In conclusion:

Genderfluid, librapangender (agender+pangender), lots of xenogenders, and nonbinary genders that are in some part male and/or female. Emphasis on gender fluidity, neutrality, and xenine.

Please let me know if I’ve gotten anything wrong or oversimplified to the point of disrespect.

[arcotranslated]

hey @ antis and the like. stop saying “oh but i support people with POCD who are trying to get help!”

you obviously dont know what pocd is, and you’re throwing us under the bus and forcing us in the same spaces as pedophiles. we are NOT pedophiles, stop saying we are, you’re fucking dangerous and disgusting, thanks!

[arcopluris]

How can someone be a lesbian and not be exclusively attracted to women? Is that not what lesbian means? I'm honestly just curious.

Some lesbians interpret exclusivist attraction doesn’t apply to them, so they can be amplusic, lesbiflexible (homoflexible), varioriented (crossoriented such as pansexual lesbromantic, homosexual biromantic), sapphic pluralian (mspec) and many other forms. 

There are many identity narratives that would be fair when identifying as lesbians, even if they once felt attraction to a guy in life.

I’m seeing some aniso- women are reclaiming lesbianness these days, they can also be bi- lesbians (lesbi).

Also the freedom to self-identify our sexuality is incompatible with the freedom to self-identify our gender, because the freedom to self-identify our sexuality assumes that we can know or decide the gender of other people, and the freedom to self-identify our gender rejects this assumption.

If we are committed to gender self-determination, we must reject sexuality self-determination.And even aside from that, all arguments about why “I would never date a fat or [insert non-white race] person” is bad also apply to any of the infinite genders and every possible body type that they might occupy. 

So lesbianism must not require gender-based attractional exclusivism, it’s also misgendering to not acknowledge others’ genders.

[arcopluris]

You see? Homo- identities were never limited to just one gender, there’s no meaning that says “…exclusively attracted…”, you can also compare it to homosocial, homosociality is a sociological term but it doesn’t exclude bisociality.

[arcotranslated]

I believe what this post in particular is saying is that the term homosexual, as seen in the screenshots, don't say "someone ONLY attracted to the same sex." As in, by this definition, a bi woman who is sapphic is not 'knocked out' of the definition of homosexual or lesbian, because the definition here does not say the term does not apply to her.

[beyond-mogai-pride-flags]

Zedattractional Flag

Zedattractional or Alloattractional: non-anattractional.

Based on allo-/zed- flags. 

-Ap

[arcotranslated]

Someone who is not aspec for any attraction. (ie, someone who is not ace, aro, aplatonic, asensual, etc etc.)

[beyond-mogai-pride-flags]

XTX Cisgender Pride Flag

Cis XTX/NBTNB (Nonbinary-to-Nonbinary): a cisneutral or otherwise non-binary individual who considers emself as transitioning from non-binary to non-binary, as they have always been non-binary. An alternative to BTX/BTNB/BTN (MTX/MTNB/MTN/etc. and FTX/FTNB/FTN), fauxcisgender and transneutral.

- a-p

[arcotranslated]

A nonbinary person who identifies as cis.

[beyond-mogai-pride-flags]

FTM Cisgender Pride Flag

Cis FTM (Female-to-Male): a cis man who transitioned from female to male, still considering himself cis, just not in the way being cisgender is traditionally defined as. An alternative to trans MTM, circumboy and fauxcisboy.

~ a.p

[arcotranslated]

A "trans man" (by definition, someone who is FTM, AFAB, etc.) who considers himself cis/identifies as cis.