I keep seeing people ask why the people who were at Will's coming out were there, because apparently "he barely knows half of them". Asking why Will came out that way. Saying that "no queer person would come out like that." which is a bold and offensive claim.
What people are doing right now is retroactively stripping Will of agency because they didn’t like how he exercised it.
Let’s be very clear about the actual facts of the scene, because the “he barely knows anyone there” claim just… does not survive contact with reality.
Will is surrounded by:
– the core 4. His childhood. His foundation.
– El, who is family in every way that matters.
– Joyce, his mother.
– Hopper, his protector and now effectively his dad.
– Steve, who has been part of his extended found family for years and is one of the safest people in the room.
– Nancy, who has fought literal monsters to save him.
– Robin, who has already been talking to him about queerness and coming out.
– Vickie, another queer person, yes new, but not random, and someone Will already knows through Robin.
And Mr. Clarke, an adult who has always provided a safe space for Will and his friend group for years.
That is not “half of Hawkins.”
That is his world.
The only people there he doesn’t have deep personal history with are Murray and Kali, and even then:
– If Murray were going to be some big homophobe, we would have learned that about him by now. And it probably would have been addressed in a show about a gay man.
– Kali is someone Will’s shared trauma-adjacent to, not some hostile stranger (that we know of rn, it feels sus to me)
And here’s the part people keep refusing to engage with:
Coming out does not require intimacy to be valid.
Sometimes it requires safety.
Will didn’t come out because he wanted a tender one-on-one.
He came out because he wanted the truth to stop being a weapon.
That means:
– witnesses
– communal knowledge
– no more isolation
– no more leverage
That is not careless. That is strategic.
People saying “he barely knows them” are projecting their own fantasy of a coming-out scene onto Will and then punishing him for not performing it correctly.
And honestly? That’s gross.
“You didn’t come out in the way that makes me comfortable, therefore you did it wrong.”
Which is… a sentence a lot of queer people have heard from much worse places.
Will chose:
– when
– how
– to whom
He was not outed, he made a choice before it could be made for him. That is agency.
He was not coerced. He was catalyzed. It was strategy and personal relief.
He was not interrupted.
He spoke. On his terms. In front of people he trusts. And he was met with acceptance. Unconditionally. A pipe dream for a lot of queer people today.
The fact that fandom is now trying to litigate his guest list like it’s a dinner party instead of a survival decision is honestly telling.
They didn’t want Will’s coming out to be about Will.
They wanted it to be about a ship.
And that’s not Will’s fault.
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