"To people who believe itās weird or gross because āthey share DNAā or ātheyāre siblingsā¦ā Yeah. They share the same DNA, clearlyājust like the Alligator Loki! š And they share parents, clearlyāoh, except they donāt, because Lokiās parents were the kind of people to hide his true origins from him, and Sylvieās parents were as different from that as you can get. They donāt share DNA,
Loki is a shapeshifter, for all we know alligator š loki is just a loki who refuse to be in a more "human " form, and just wants to be a alligator š¤·āāļø. They do share the same parents kind of, in sylvie universe odin and frigga just decided to be more smart and caring and tell her about her origin. Whereas loki odin and frigga didn't, putting aside adopted parents. Loki and sylvie do have the same biological parents. The ship is literally loki laufeyson x sylvie laufeydottir. This is the closet thing to selfcest. Gross and weird
"they arenāt the same gender, they donāt share memories or a similar history, and they donāt even share a name. "
Yes they are not the same gender on screen ....(because disney and marvel are cowards) loki is genderfluid , technically he is sometimes a woman and sometimes a man. They had same life till sylvie nexus event. Of course they don't share the same name she CHANGED her name.
"Confident instead of pretending to be confident; heroic instead of pretending to be heroic; secure in who he is regardless of what people think of him; able to focus on something bigger than himself; etc. Lokiās never been able to be those things and even convinced himself heās proud of pretendingābut Sylvie genuinely is all those things."
Oh boy, do I have a lot of say on this post.
I agree on this whole loki likes sylvie because he thinks that sylvie is not like him that she is different (I emphasize on think he thinks she is better and oh so much different than him)
Confident instead of pretending to be confident;
No pushing your identity away . Her being so insisted on how she is not a loki ( while also wearing loki horns and similar custom and have his iconic green color) is not confidence, that is low self esteem. Tho their is not any in universe explanation on why she is so against on the idea of being a "loki " , how can someone who seems to reject their previous identity be seen as "confidence "? Like what does she even think being a loki means?
heroic instead of pretending to be heroic;
I am sorry , Are you calling sylvie heroic ?š¤£š¤£š¤£ this is one of the most hilarious thing I have seen sylvie fans say. Which is something a lot of her fans claim. This will never stop being hilarious and at the same time be a ridiculous thing to say. Well putting this aside because if you want to talk about this I am willing to make a whole new argument on this whole ShE iS HeRoIC argument. Here I will just point that loki has never pretended to be someone heroic, he has never done anything like that. Sure maybe (focus on the maybe) he does want to be seen as that, or be a better person but he has never "pretended" to be heroic.
able to focus on something bigger than himself;
One of his problem is that he focus too much on others.
Loki has always looked out for others he has spent a good amount of his screen time in the mcu trying to gain other approval or thinking about others.
He saved fandral in thor 1 when he was going to a mental breakdown,He almost died saving jane twice in tdw , he in the first place brought the frost giants in asgard , so his parents would see that thor is not het ready to be king or in his words "save asgard from my idiotic brother rule a while longer", he also has shown care for frigga and odin I feel like this one is obvious so I am not going to talk about this. And even in LS he was trying to give pep talk to a girl he meet 12 hours ago which seems to look down on him and was trying to compliment and make HER feel better in his "last "moments.
but Sylvie genuinely is all those things."
Funnily enough it is actually sylvie who doesn't care about anyone except herself. And she is one of the least "heroic" varient of loki we have seen. Like please tell me about "heroic " actions of her are you talking about ?
All Loki needs to know about Sylvie is that her character traits match up with everything heās always wished he could be:
I agree with this one and this is the reason why I hate this ship so much. Loki "loves" her because he think she is better than him (but she actually is not), there could not be anything more toxic than this. He looks down on himself , for all the writers going how this whole sylki bullshit is self love. Sylki is the farthest thing from self love.
And she is not even in any way better than him or somethinghe should wish to be like, she isn't kinder ,she doesn't have better morals or anything that loki could learn. She is a much worse person than him. I guess the only thing she is better at than him is violence.
Because sheās the most not-him person that there is. He wants to be the center of attention. She wants to live a quiet life left alone. He wants to take thrones and rule. She wants to topple thrones and rulers. He wants to tyrannize and enslave. She wants to set whole realities free. He sets traps to defeat his most hated foes. She just runs up and stabs them. He never shuts up. Sheās stoic and quiet.
He wants to be the center of attention. She wants to live a quiet life left alone
Their is absolutely nothing wrong with loki wanting attention because he was neglected his whole life. I donāt understand why you needed to say this , this whole paragraph feels like you are pointing out how she is different and of so much better than him. "How he wants to rule and she just wants peace š"
He never shuts up. Sheās stoic and quiet.
Again him being talkative is not something negative
He wants to take thrones and rule. She wants to topple thrones and rulers.
The end game of his motivation was not the throne it was knowledgement and love. He only wanted the throne in 1 flim, in which he was not even completely himself properly because all his negative emotions were amplified because of the mind stone.
Thor one loki literally says "I never wanted the throne I only wanted to be your equal" also frigga was the one who made him king and in that scene he looks confused and uncertain. In thor dark world he offers the throne to thor and in ragnorak he again offers to try to "rule" TOGETHER with thor. In infinity war , again he has no personal or selfish motivation .
Her end motivation was her revenge, loki in his goal of "wanting a throne" (which is actually just knowledgement and recognization) and her goal of "topple throne "(which is just revenge) and both have hurted other innocent people , sylvie much more than loki. Again not much difference, not something for loki to look at and think she is better than me.
And Sylvie? Since she was stolen from her home and family she has made no connections, had nobody care about her, and focused only on her mission. If she ever had dreams outside of that, it probably revolved around the idea of freedom. Then in comes this guy who not only expresses care for her, but is the type of guy who doesnāt let anybody tell him what he is or what to doāhe can relate to her feelings of hurt, and eventually, tries to help her grow beyond them, too.
So she only cares that there is this guy who is willing to compliment her and talk about how much great she is and shut ups and do whatever she says and as soon as he goes against her and didn't want to kill hwr , she throws him through a time door ...Wow , how lovely and romantic š
(Fucking toxic son of a bitch)
but is the type of guy who doesnāt let anybody tell him what he is or what to do
But tva loki is just doing any thing other are telling him too, he didn't have his own goal or motivation. The stupid writers made loki entire self in season 1 just be a sidelined character to just shut up and support the creator pet named sylvie.
he can relate to her feelings of hurt, and eventually, tries to help her grow beyond them, too.
he did try to do that and what did he got in return , just more hurt and betrayal...
How is this a mistake? Itās literally the smartest way theyāve ever had Loki make a connection with someone outside his adopted family. (Mobius is cool and all but heās a Thor-stand-in for this Loki, whoās been ripped out of Thorās timeline.)
This whole sylki thing is as smart as mobius psychological breaking loki in ep 1 and then calling it therapy, it is as smart as them calling loki a narcissistic. (Aka this is dumb)
The way the writers talk about sylki is that loki is learning self love because of the relationship which is not true, he likes her because he thinks she is different then him , I can't even put it more properly into words then this. You liking someone because you believe them to be better than you , and blaming yourself for things that aren't your fault, or just caring about the other person so much while they don't give a damn about who is one of the most unhealthy, and toxic thing ever. As I said this is the farthest thing from " self love" . Cherry on top of the cake , sylvie is not even actually better than loki, there is nothing to learn.
I would argue sylvie is more like the stand in for thor. Both are someone who loki believes to be better than him. Both seems to look down on him and yet loki just follows them š
Even you in this while post talks as if sylvie actual is better than loki and loki can kearn something from her (spoiler alert he can't )which she is not neither she seems to admire loki as he admires or care about her("admire" lol , damn poor loki he has such a low self esteem), so that fails too.
They both represent something that the other person has always wanted to do or be, and they both challenge each other, and they both have this big existential hole in their hearts of ānobody wants me or likes meā to relate to each other with.
Yes loki seems to think sylvie is "heroic " and "different "than him, but sylvie ? She has constantly shown to believe herself as smarter and better
She has a habit of telling him to shut up, she calls his plan stupid on two occasions the writers have literally called her " the superior varient "on writers and literally in the show.
She has not even in one scene shown any sort of admiration for loki. So I wonder why you are saying that loki represents something sylvie want to be like because we have not been shown anything like that.
nobody wants me or likes meā
Again when has sylvie shown any emotion like that?
Iām going to stop beating the dead horse, but basically, if you think Loki and Sylvie as a romantic couple is weird, try and look at it the way it actually is, instead of superimposing āfemale love interest badā or catchy Internet memes like āLoki Show Approves Incestā over everything š
I think loki and sylvie as a couple is incrediblely toxic , unhealthy and abuse. Loki deserves better than that. And yeah I do think it is weird, especially after spidey varient referring to each other as brothers. But my main issue is that I can't fucking stand this toxic ship. And other calling loki a narcissistic. I am looking at the way it actually is ,a toxic ship. My "catchy" phrase is sylki is toxic. Which people ignore because #Gurlboss š®āšØ
Well ,putting this all aside . I am a little confused you tag the pro sylki as anti sylki, because you wanted anti sylki people to be "open minded " ,and see your point okay..cool but you also said that if you only tagged it sylki, anti sylki who want to argue would only see this and argue..but what makes you think anyone who does see it in anti sylki tag won't argue if they want to ? People who are going to sylki tags to argue would obviously argue on a pro sylki post in a anti sylki tag. That doesn't make much sense... And aren't people who go to sylki tags to put there view "open minded" , why see that as just argument not as being open minded. You want them to see your point then you should see their points too.
But okay š I think I am going to be like that too, this is a good decision sylvie and sylki fans should be "open minded" too. For all how much they call sylvie heroic and claim the hate is because of misogynists they should see the actual valid reasons, instead of screaming misogynists at everyone and ignoring all the valid reason . For how much they say she is "complex " and people don't understand a moral grey character(calling her "complex" is so funny) they should see the the argument on how she is a terribly written character. Instead of putting complex before her name to make it seem like she is a very well written character.