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Jonice Webb, Running on Empty: Overcome Your Childhood Emotional Neglect
white people ruined the non sexual intimacy of nakedness methinks
i think that for a species that come into the world naked and have such an easy time understanding sex, its ironic that the world at large cant accept that intimacy cant occur outside of sexual desire. there is intimacy in a shared bath between a mother and her child. between brothers sharing a bed. between friends changing in the same room.
and i said white people bc i feel like literally everyone else figured that shit out already? like in public bath houses and women walking around with their breasts exposed. europe got a hold of chriatianity and decided to put a worldwide ban nakedness and put these restrictions on the human body, bastardizing the nature with which we come into the world. its dirty, its deviant, its dangerous to be exposed in the appropriate spaces or ones own home.
the way young people have to cover up in their homes before guests come, the way shorts and other summer clothes are only perceived as sexual in nature and not the most effective way of combating a million degree heat, the way people freak out when they see a bra strap like it wasnt them who made bitches wear bras in the first place
i think we should let bodies be bodies be bodies
tl;dr dont be surprised if one day i just-
transgender men in japan in a trans-friendly hot spring in beppu japan
himba girls from a village in kaokoland, namibia
indian boys playing in a varanasi ghat
[text ID: a tweet by Aqqalu @uyarakq that reads, “nudity shouldn’t be sexual. my ancestors walked the tundra with their tits out and nobody cared until those with a bible came.” / end ID]
Native women near me used to just wear basket hats and skirts and maybe necklaces for special occasions. It was common for ppl of both sexes and all ages to bath and sweat in sweat houses together, naked of course, bc nudity wasn’t that sexualized until the colonizers came.
Seriously, why the fuck is showing your body sexual?
quotes that help me survive:
“You are not lost. You are here. Stop abandoning yourself. Stop repeating this myth about love and success that will land in your lap or evade you forever. Build a humble, flawed life from the rubble, and cherish that. There is nothing more glorious on the face of the earth than someone who refuses to give up, who refuses to give in to their most self-hating, discouraged, disillusioned self, and instead learns, slowly and painfully, how to relish the feeling of building a hut in middle of the suffocating dust.” — Heather Havrilesky, Ask Polly
this tumblr text post:
“To live in this world you must be able to do three things: to love what is mortal; to hold it against your bones knowing your own life depends on it; and, when the time comes to let it go, to let it go.” — Mary Oliver
From an interview with Kazu Makino:
Instructions On Not Giving Up, Ada Limon:
And this poster by Yumi Sakugawa
“You have to believe, in your heart, that even if you don’t work hard and exercise and think positive thoughts and make new friends and march triumphantly into the future, you are still enough. You will always have bad days. Being broken doesn’t make you a loser. You can crumble, and you will still be enough. Make that your religion moving forward. You are here to feel this moment. You are not here to become someone better. You are not here to impress or compete. You are not here to prove yourself. You are here to savor this life. Let down your guard. You are already enough. Believe it.” — Heather Havrilesky
“The first feminist gesture is to say: “Ok. They’re looking at me. But I’m looking at them.” The act of deciding to look, of deciding that the world is not defined by how people see me, but by how I see them.” -Agnès Varda
lyrics from the song Grow by The Oh Hellos:
“The world’s otherness is antidote to confusion, that standing within this otherness—the beauty and the mystery of the world, out in the fields or deep inside books—can re-dignify the worst-stung heart.” — Mary Oliver
“I hope you will go out and let stories, that is life, happen to you,and that you will work with these stories from your life--not someone else's life--water them with your blood and tears and your laughter till they bloom, till you yourself burst into bloom. That is the work. The only work.” — Clarissa Pinkola Estes
no talking phase just move in together & adopt black kitten
We can never escape the world is to broken
PLEASE DO NOT THINK FOR EVEN A SECOND THAT YOUR VOICE WILL NOT HAVE AN IMPACT THIS IS LITERALLY THE BARE MINIMUM
I'm sorry for putting this in the BLM and stop Asian hate tag but in the last few days posts tagged with "Palestine" have not been showing up.
It really me against the world
i want to be someone else’s safety. even nonromantically. i want to be “hey can i tell you something?” i want to be - i tried something new and i’m a little scared but i wanted to show you. i want to be “i knew i could trust you”. i want to be okay to hold the hand of, always ready to listen, always trying. even if i don’t get it perfect, you know? i just want to be a place other people can relax and be themselves and not worry for a fraction of an instant.
questionnaire on girlhood (read this, if you would, with your ankles crossed).
at what age did you stop wearing v-necks? at what age did you stop wearing shirts with graphics on them to prevent what? i was just reading it. at what age did you no longer wear “loud prints”. at what age did you resent a dress?
when you threw up, was it across the street from where you put your belly? did you ever skip lunch. when collapsing your ribs in the mirror, was it your mother’s voice in your head, or your own? could you laugh loudly or did you watch yourself laughing and worry about it. did you ruin your own hair at any point. how often did you say - oh, i hate mine and mean your body/spirit/mind.
how often were you not allowed access to girlhood. were you ever comfortable in locker rooms; were you ever comfortable at all. could you look at other girls without worrying you were looking too long. could you be a girl and belong. could you be a girl without flinching. could you be a girl without apology. did you have to be an apology so loudly it seemed delicate, sweet, raw.
how often are you yourself, and how often are you just beside of your body. do you fix your hair in the middle of your zoom meetings. do you worry you don’t cry beautifully. is it a meeting of your teeth or is it a hiss. are you alone? when was the last time you broke, and did you hide it?
can you be home, or are you in unstable ribs. can you be safe. can you ever unhear the moon. can you pray loud enough. is the altar her skin, or is it inside you? is this enough. are you going, too.
are you okay? no, really, are you?
Resting is much important than you think. Getting back after completely falling down takes so much more time than resting here and there, and I've learned it the hard way. Take a break. You don't have to feel bad about it. You need it, you deserve it. When you're ready, just get moving again. Then you'll be able to finish doing what you need to do.
life is crying, reading books, drinking coffee, listening to like 2 songs, yearning, simping for the moon and then you die
i remember telling her it hurts and she’ll blame it on me “moving” when im not even moving
My witch ass NEEDS one of these moon lamps bc WOW but the big one is stupidly expensive :(
It’s literally $100… BUT I WANT THE MOON
Who wants to Venmo me the funds? I’ll give you a free tarot reading 🔮💫 venmo: @crystald77
I want to hold the moon but I’m broke asf
PSSST-
There’s a HUGE sale atm on moon lamps!
The big moon lamp is on sale for only $44 ($100) and they have three smaller sizes if you want a slightly smaller moon that’s just as detailed.
I LOVE MINE !! BEST. NIGHTLIGHT. EVER.
It gives off a soft light that illuminates ur room just enough without blinding you like the sun.
It’s so relaxing to look at while ur falling asleep and it really feels like the moon is in ur room!
I was afraid it wouldn’t look like the moon but it’s completely identical.. its MY OWN MINI MOON
It works without being plugged in which was really convenient when I had to pee last night.
YOU JUST SAVED ME OVER 50 BUCKS thank you so much @tranquilwaves you’re a lifesaver!
As a grown ass man I wasn’t so sure about getting myself a night light but IM GEEKING
I always have mine with me! I call it my emotional support moon bc I legit take it everywhere.
This might sound silly but an emotional support moon sounds like exactly what my life needs rn
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