CEO of asexual Tim Drake

he/him. page dedicated to asexual fandom stuff. All my favs are sex repulsed

[asexual-will]

Intro Post ─── ⋆⋅☆⋅⋆ ──

☆·˖He/him ᯓ★ In my 20s .𖥔 ݁ ˖ Asexual and queer

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˗ˏˋ ★ This blog is dedicated solely to asexuality and asexuality in relation to fandoms

Specifically, this blog is about asexuality the way I experience it, which is:

⋆ˊˎ- zero sexual attraction ⋆ˊˎ- sex-repulsed/averse ⋆ˊˎ- alloace

My account centers these experiences and when I talk about asexuality, I usually mean this type.

I made this blog both for general discussions and vents about asexuality and also as for asexual fandom content to give myself the representation I want and to have comforting content that I hope helps me overcome my own struggles with my identity

/ᐠ - ˕ -マ☆.˳·˖✶𓆩𓁺𓆪✶˖·˳.

Disclaimer:

This blog is a safe space for sex-repulsed and averse people, and meant to be a safe place to vent about or discuss disliking sex without catering to those who do have sex.

I do not care what others do sexually, this is not a sex negative blog! But this blog will not focus on sex favorability, having any sexual attraction, or being a kinky asexual (or any other types of aces that enjoy sexual content)

I want this to be a place for aces like myself who are completely uninterested in sex and sexual content ♡ welcome and asks always appreciated!

[queer-cosette]

For my ace buddies and fellow demis.

(I'm gonna add alt text in a few hours - I'm currently on mobile with a shitty Internet signal)

[anilineine]

Thinking about Nico di Angelo at a pride event stacking up all the asexual merch like a freak. That man is proud of his asexual identity, trust.

[snoomfies]

snoopy pride flags :)

[asexual-will]

HAPPY PRIDE MONTH🥳🥳🥳

Shout out to the ace icon Connor Hawke!! And shout out to all my fellow aces!! It's not nearly enough representation, but it is wonderful to remember that we do have a canon asexual character in DC.

Asexuality is so often forgotten about even in queer conversations and during pride month, so i encourage others to talk about asexuality more in fandoms, whether its headcanons or canon ace characters, and support ace creators and ace media!

[polillamielera]

and you're not "missing" anything. you're you and that's all that matters. you deserve just as much happiness.

[drawotion]

Ace allos! ✨

[goldenasters]

Happy Halloween! This is what I look like btw

[justarandomart]

happy pride month!! some aro ace Phantumps to celebrate!

[aromantic-journal]

"everyone should get more aromantic" can appeal to tumblr's sensibilities but I genuinely think everyone should also get more asexual. I don't mean everyone stop having sex, what I mean is

Sex is not essential. You can live without it. Full stop.

Not having sex isn't shameful or a sign of failure. It also doesn't make anyone boring.

You are not entitled to having sex with anybody and nobody is entitled to having sex with you.

Sex is not what makes someone an adult.

Nobody's worth is defined by how much sex they have or don't have.

Sex is not equally important to everyone.

You can have fulfilling and happy relationships without sex.

You should only have sex on your own terms, not because you feel like you owe it to someone, or because you feel like you'd be incomplete without it.

Know your boundaries around sex and be firm about them. Know how to respect other people's boundaries.

The previous point also applies when it comes to discussing sex. If someone doesn't wanna talk about it or hear about it you have to back down.

Anything can be sexual but not everything has to be sexual.

[possessable]

sex repulsed peopl remember this always

alternatively,

[lizardsfromspace]

"Sex is what makes us human" is stupid. Almost every species fucks. Humans are the only species that jumps motorcycles over school buses that are on fire. Some other things too probably

[ur-favorite-fishgirl]

sex is a distraction from your true purpose in life which is to go to the aquarium and look at the fish and go "wooooooaaah.... fishies". cmon guys we all need to lock in.

[asexual-will]

I love horror and stories that explore queerness in allegories, and there just really isn't media that explores asexuality in those deep ways. I truly am happy to see any ace rep at all, but an occasional throwaway line about being ace or the creator confirmed in it a tweet/interview!!! Doesn't resonate with me. Because that's not my experience. My asexual identity is not a throwaway line or a background trait. It's a huge fucking part of my life.

Asexuality is something I feel so deeply and it's impacted my life in huge ways (often negative), and I need media that captures those huge feelings ya know? I read an article or smth recently where it was singing praises about some character that's asexual but their orientation isn't their whole identity or the main focus, and that's great! But for many people it is a huge deal! And I just feel like that's not all that groundbreaking for an asexual character, when thats also every asexual character ever, just one small little sidenote that won't be explored much.

And assuming its chill for me to talk about my own personal hatred of sex...as a sex repulsed ace whos experienced SA, sex is not a neutral thing to me. To me, sex is horrifying, not just "ew gross", but something I can never experience safely. And I cant stop thinking about a horror story that explores those feelings of being a sex repulsed suevivor in such a sexualized world. Experiences of someone that where others see a beautiful or desirable physical act, they see body horror. What others see as the ultimate declaration of trust and intimacy, they can only feel a deep violation.

I want more ace stories where the asexuality IS deeply embedded in the plot. And yeah, I want body horror that captures how I feel about sex, but whatever

[shap3shifter-witch]

Just wanna say how much I LOVE being asexual. Theres so much joy and whimsy to find in life when not worrying about the confines of relationship expectations.I literally cannot imagine myself any other way. I would not be the same person at all if I were not asexual. I understand that a lot of people accept and acknowledge their queerness while not considering it be a core part of their personality, but for me it is So Integral to how I operate as a human being that i consider it a huge part of my personality. Which is a good thing for me!! Just thinking about my asexuality and being confident in who I am brings me such euphoria. I love love love being asexual. I love that this is the way I am. I love existing sometimes it is so great 10/10 would recommend. Asexuals of the world, you are loved.

[rabbitheatedgrrrl]

Sex repulsed asexuals are not prudes, puritans, or slut shamers for simply being grossed out by sex. No one’s saying you shouldn’t be allowed to have sex. We’re just saying we would like to be allowed to be uncomfortable with it and not participate in it or anything related to it. We’re asking for the same sexual revolution you get to have. We’re asking to be liberated from the chains of being told we have to do something that isn’t what we want.

[denizenhardwick]

sex-repulsed people are fully within our rights to be cranky and blunt about not liking sex and how it's fucking everywhere btw. we shouldn't have to tiptoe around and make sure our phrasing is perfectly squeaky clean because people interpret any criticism of sex and sexualization as puritanism. venting about compulsory sexuality is not purity culture. maybe you could stand to learn a thing or two from us.