Feminism and Donuts

I'm a female presenting genderqueer fat college student and a demigirl. I am anti-racism, anti-misogyny and generally anti white cishet men. I am a huge proponent of consensual and ethical kinks, as well as the critiques of unethical or oppressive kinks. MY TRIGGERS include blood, rape, certain kinks, racism, fathers, and dogs. TAG EVERYTHING and let me know if I don't tag properly.

[askatotalstranger]

How come when I say I hate all men, men have to show up and make it all about them.

[lumaterian-deactivated20210529]

a whole study asking the important questions

[sylvanistic]

(transcription of the abstract)

Despite the popular belief that feminists dislike men, few studies have actually examined the empirical accuracy of this stereotype. The present study examined self-identified feminists’ and nonfeminists’ attitudes toward men. An ethnically diverse sample (N = 488) of college students responded to statements from the Ambivalence toward Men Inventory (AMI; Glick & Fiske, 1999). Contrary to popular beliefs, feminists reported lower levels of hostility toward men than did nonfeminists. The persistence of the myth of the man-hating feminist is explored.

*places hands on chin* Hmm, would you look at that.

[askatotalstranger]

This is problematic because it makes it out like man-hating is a bad thing.  I really do hate the privileged sorts of men (not MoC or trans men) and I don't want that to be seen as a negative. Feminism that doesn't detest "Maleness" on some level is not true feminism.  or at least not effective feminsm.

[askatotalstranger]

Duckface is Blackface

First off anyone who criticizes selfies in genral is a misogynist, even if the person criticizing is a woman (Women can be misogynist too).  But this does not mean that ZOMG SELFIE FREEDOM LETS ALL TAKE SELFIES because y'all, this is all types of racist. Selfies are all types of racist if done by white people.  Selfies are yet another thing invented by WoC that has been co opted by white women to seek out attention, and by white cis men to be "funny" and to secretly mock WoC. Duck face is blackface.  Just don't.

[punkpugs]

All I hear when men start shit talking selfie culture is, “Don’t give women any opportunities to believe they are beautiful and important; they might start believing it.”

[askatotalstranger]

Friendly reminder that white women taking selfies is racist.

[askatotalstranger]

Robbery = stealing + privilege

A white person can be a victim of thievery by a PoC but a white person cannot be robbed by a PoC

If you have a problem with this, then you are the EXACT REASON this conversation is important.

[askatotalstranger]

If you aren't queer trans WOC you aint shit.

yeah i said it

[askatotalstranger]

Straight people suffer from serious lack of creativity.

[askatotalstranger]

If you call yourself a straight man and you won’t suck dick, you are garbage.

[non-euclidian-chicken-nuggets]

wow yes because a man who prefers women is scum if he doesn’t want to do stuff with men

god, it’s like people aren’t allowed to have the right to preferences or something

[askatotalstranger]

THIS JUST IN: Women apparently never have dicks.

Better tell the presses!!!!

[askatotalstranger]

Cis women have the MOST pathetic clitori.

[actually-amelia-earhart]

Excuse u my clit is beautiful.

[askatotalstranger]

said no cis woman ever

[askatotalstranger]

Can I just say that political lesbianism is really fucking hard?  I'm still trying to shake the whole "I also like men" thing and I guess I could just date trans men so that I'm not accidentally submitting to an oppressor but trans men still have privilege so idk

[askatotalstranger]

If you call yourself a straight man and you won’t suck dick, you are garbage.

[totaliter]

hey, i must ask: why?

[askatotalstranger]

It's not my job to educate u.

[askatotalstranger]

Cis women have the MOST pathetic clitori.

[askatotalstranger]

If you call yourself a straight man and you won't suck dick, you are garbage.

[askatotalstranger]

Friendly reminder that the term "delusional" is ableist  ლ(́◉◞౪◟◉‵ლ)

[askatotalstranger]

It’s not that I hate white cis men, it’s just that I want to use them as rugs.  And they say chivalry is gone.

[askatotalstranger]

Reblogging myself because this is the most fucking brilliant thing I've ever said.

[askatotalstranger]

I dare you to show me one woman who doesn't, in some way or another, live her life in fear of white cishet men.

[askatotalstranger]

When people ask me how I know Sherlock is gay

I'm like

How do you know he's not