Your future spouse and relationship themes according to Venus/Descendant/Ruler of the 7th
Aries Venus/1H; Aries Descendant; 7th House Ruler in the 1H
Someone athletic and fast. Your Future Spouse would be short-tempered and very passionate. Somebody that would openly chase after you. Very open and straightforward. Could have a taste for challenging you just to see whether you can keep up. Someone with many previous, short-lived relationships. They love to take the lead and look like someone you wouldn’t wanna fight.
They (or you) could have some issues with commitment, so the relationship may be on and off. You both could live for the excitement of it. Aries being fiery, the passions may burn and die out instantly. The ideal spouse is one that can capture both the fast pace and the loyalty. Aries likes to fight for what they’ve acquired, but even more for what they don’t have yet. So essentially you’re going to be playing catch me if you can for a big part of the relationship, but underneath the game is burning, passionate, serious love.
Taurus/2H Venus; Taurus Descendant; 7th House Ruler in the 2H
A class act. Somebody so good looking you want to eat them up. Flawless skin and beautiful, pouty lips. Wavy or curly hair. They probably love to be kissed on the neck. Someone with a distinctive, beautiful voice. Good manners and well-educated. Somebody discerning, who really values high quality. Maybe a successful business owner, good with money. An art lover. On the downside, could be too materialistic. Will be very possessive about you.
Taking turns spoiling each other as a love language. Attending luxurious, expensive dinner parties. Acquiring rich, influential friendships together. Loyal till the end. Overspending and overindulging. A possible danger here is focusing too much on the physical and not enough on the emotional bond. Thinking everything can be fixed with money. However, those are really dignified placement, hence the love life is overall harmonious (in not debilitated).
Gemini/3H Venus; Gemini Descendant; 7th House Ruler in the 3H
Brainy and witty. Likely younger than you (either metrically or by spirit). Loves writing and good with words. Someone with curious, cat-like eyes and a youthful smile. Beautiful hands and fingers. Siblings playing a big role in said persons’ life; they may talk about them frequently. Could be interested in cars. There’s some duality to this person. Like they could be really playful and jovial, but also contain a different, deeper and more mysterious persona, which they bare only at times.
Each day with them is a never ending intellectual chase. Creating an own language together, giving words new meaning only known to you two. Doing crosswords and playing Scrabble together during cosy rainy days. Sharing a genuine friendship. Talking about everything and anything you see. Finding extraordinary in the mundane.
Cancer/4H Venus; Cancer Descendant; 7th House Ruler in the 4H
Your Future Spouse would be very caring and protective, reminding you of motherly love. They will be desperate to make themselves a necessity to your well-being. They will take pleasure in home-making: baking, cooking, beautifying the house. Doing these things for you is how they’ll show love. They would try really hard to gain your trust and make you feel emotionally and physically comfortable with them. Physically they could have a rounder build, beautiful breasts and overall a soft look. Deep, inviting and big eyes.
You could move in together very quickly. Home is wherever I’m with you. Adopting a pet together, them getting you a puppy as a surprise. Crying because you make them so happy. Always carefully listening to each other, mindful about their wants and needs. They would be up-front about wanting kids with you since the very beginning. They could be someone from your childhood.
Leo/5H Venus; Leo Descendant; 7th House Ruler in the 5H
Your Future Spouse would be someone striving for fame. And it doesn’t have to be world-wide fame — even within friendships this person is someone who loves when the attention is on them. I’m talking Mr. Peanutbutter from Bojack Horseman. Someone with charisma, that is universally loved and has a lot of friends and acquaintances. They can talk to and charm almost anyone. Someone who loves acting. Very open and magnetic — everyone want to be a part of their world. They could have beautiful, thick hair — like a lion’s mane. They’ll love surprising you frequently.
Your relationship could bring up the urge to have children together or to generally-speaking act like your inner child with them. There could be a lot of playful banter between you, that turns into passionate kissing. Everybody and their mom is able to tell that you love each other. Could act like high school sweethearts that everyone envies. Going out on lots of dates, making them your sun.
Virgo/6H Venus; Virgo Descendant; 7th House Ruler in the 6H
They’re likely very particular and perfectionists, but when it comes to you they will happily accept each and every flaw. Someone that is already focused on making themself better for you. Someone that is very precise and dresses impeccably. Maybe they wear glasses. Their skin is perfect and overall they’re well-groomed. The kind of person showing up with a hairdo, fresh manicure and neatly pressed clothes, saying that they’ve just gotten out of bed lol. They could work in healthcare and be very organised.
Your relationship would likely be structured around service and helping each other. What they cannot understand about you, they will make up by baking your favourite cookies. Maybe they’re not very outspoken, but they observe and listen carefully, and try to then embody your ideal. You can clearly see the potential in them and do everything to achieve it. They probably have a close bond to animals.
Libra/7H Venus; Libra Descendant; 7th House Ruler in the 7H
Your Future Spouse is one of a graceful and delicate beauty. They’re extremely charming, so much so that it is intimidating! They’re very well-spoken and someone that spreads the aura of calmness and balance. They would instantly make you think that they’re the perfect addition to your life. They are outstandingly beautiful, but also modest and balanced. They might work in law or the arts.
The relationship between you could become the most important in your life. You two will be very devoted to creating a healthy bond. The relationship essentially serves its purpose as a mirror — you see your victories, shortcomings and flaws through the lens of the spouse. It is a good thing as that’s the role partnerships are supposed to play. You’re destined to become more balanced, learn the art of teamwork and compromise. You could have a feeling that they’re bringing out the best in you.
Scorpio/8H Venus; Scorpio Descendant; 7th House Ruler in the 8H
There will be a darkness about them, a darkness that draws you in. Your Person would have dark, thick hair, dark eyes or dark circles. They won’t reveal all of their cards at first, so you won’t recognise the purpose of the relationship for some time. You could be interested in someone else (not committed, though), but you risk your all as they walk in. They could be someone who has just left a marriage or a long-term relationship.
They could introduce you to higher society (or vice versa). A class difference between you. Some kind of taboo being broken by your relationship. They could sacrifice a lot for you. Power couple. Your friends are weary of this person. No one really knows what’s going on between you. A financial imbalance. They let you indulge in their fortune (or once again, vice versa). If it’s the 7H Ruler it’s likely you that gives them money. They could be someone with a big inheritance. They open you up like no one had managed to before.
Sagittarius/9H Venus; Sagittarius Descendant; 7th House Ruler in the 9H
Someone studying or working at a university when you meet. Someone for whom higher education is very important. Very passionate about their studies, devoted to many topics and teaching you about them. Somebody with a true lust for life. They could look up to you like a guru (or vice versa). Someone with distinctive legs — maybe impressively toned, long, or with thick thighs (😋).
A relationship that could connect you to the divine and open you up spiritually. They would introduce you to different philosophical beliefs. There’s a prominent educational value to this relationship, you both are forced to learn a lot through it. You could move out to another country together — or one of you could do it for the other. Could be long distance for some time. Lots of travelling and feeling very lucky 🍀 .
Capricorn/10H Venus; Capricorn Descendant; 7th House Ruler in the 10H
A very hard working person, may come from a famous, household-name family. Elegant and sleek. High cheekbones and impressive physique. Could be reminding of a father figure in some way (sensible, responsible etc.). Could be older than you. A MILF or a DILF. You could’ve heard about them beforehand. Someone you want to impress and they force you to work at it. True pragmatics, also when it comes to love.
A relationship that resembles a job, you could work for them in some sense — maybe literally, they employ you, or helping them around the house, cleaning etc. A relationship like a well-structured enterprise. They love to show you off and vice versa. You could achieve your long-term goals through them. Their gifts are generous, but rather practical than lavish (e.g. a car or a house). Them or you could’ve found happiness together only later in life. You could be forced to fight through some obstacles to make your union happen.
Aquarius/11H Venus; Aquarius Descendant; 7th House Ruler in the 11H
When you meet this person, you’ll think to yourself, I’ve never seen anyone like this. There is something very authentic and organic about them, that you won’t be able to find in anyone else. Maybe you won’t be even able to name it. They’ll have this electric look (and you’ll know, once you find them) that reveals something to you, invites you in. They just seem aware, you know? Like they’re able to see beyond. Physically, they’ll likely be tall and have a long, alien-like face. Striking eyes and hair that seems to have been struck by electricity. They could look completely different than their family. They’re probably interested in humanitarian causes and take a firm political stance on many issues.
The relationship will be, of course, somewhat unconventional. You could even live separately or choose not to get married, but it will suit you. It will be filled with friends and trying new things together. It will give you both just enough space to feel love, and explore yourselves.
Pisces/12H Venus; Pisces Descendant; 7th House Ruler in the 12H
You future person is ethereal and otherworldly. Very kind and compassionate, high emotional intelligence. They’ll be highly successful in artistic fields, as well as fields that are focused on helping others, like medicine. A dreamer who believes in a higher good. Somebody that would never walk on by if they see someone suffering. Doe, deer eyes with long lashes and a beautiful nose. Could also have pretty feet and even have a thing for them.
The relationship is almost happening in another realm. Many conversations are being had through the eyes. Everything is very intuitive and gentle. There is a prominent sacrifice element here, with you serving them or vice versa. Themes like moving abroad for them or supporting their career full-time are frequent with this placement. Also overlooking the other’s faults, in extreme cases it would be even staying with someone despite an active addiction going on, desperate to save them.
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