does anyone know how to break up with a person you're hooking up with once you've tried all the sex things with them and thus no longer require them to be around in ur life, but you know they probably will still want to keep hooking up because novelty isn't their main motivator, and you think they're a nice person so you want to be nice about it, but like...you want to make it clear you're done with them...but also not make them feel like a piece of discarded meat...because you do value them as a human being, but only the same way you value every human being and think we should treat each other with dignity
how do you break off a purely transactional relationship without making the other person feel like they were the object being transacted, instead of feeling like a willing business partner shaking hands and leaving peacefully
