Boho

hetero around 20’s 30’s A page where I post usually quotes, my thoughts about life and philosophy, love and relationships. Sometimes memes and jokes and other random stuff. Sometimes it happens to repost things that catches up my mind occasionally. Feel free to lurk.

[autuboho]

my content includes amato, grease and illusions cursed straight stuff and philosophy

[autuboho]

Your role as a partner is to provide and make sure she never needs another person

[autuboho]

This is official hate post amatonormativity

I hate amatonormativity

[autuboho]

platonic love is spending time with your girlfriend laying in the grass looking at the sky and share a laugher about a dumb joke

[autuboho]

Good morning to all

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Happy Easter to all 💛

[autuboho]

Let’s repeat together

partner isn’t synonym of romance.

romance isn’t synonym of commitment.

commitment isn’t synonym of exclusivity.

exclusivity isn’t synonym of monogamy.

and monogamy isn’t synonym of exclusivity.

Now let’s repeat in backwards.

[autuboho]

“once you've learned love norm, you'll never want to stop beating people to death with your bare hands.”

- anthony bourdain

[autuboho]

*san valentine’s day*: today is the day of love. choose a person to celebrate love! spend time with someone you love, show them, tell them, make them feel special, mean it.

me: *celebrates with my friend instead with my girlfriend*

also san valentine’s day: actually you are supposed to celebrate with your girlfriend.

either celebrate it your friend, you along with your girlfriend.

go with s friend but before to do so tell her or she gets mad.

or (recommended option) you and girlfriend ^_^

[autuboho]

people: love a person!

*me love my friend*

also people: where is your girlfriend ?

[autuboho]

I love love. That’s it.

[lleyksie]

swans in love

[autuboho]

awwww ♥️

[this-is-amato-heteronormativity]

I know it’s may be not related but after a long time I realized myself to be heterosexual, I tried to coming out as straight to my queer friend they said something like "are you sure?" "you may haven't discovered/explored yourself yet."

Yeah uh idk if I overreacted but I blocked them ;-;

I cannot tell if this is bait or not, but if it really isn't bait, then this is very strange behavior on part of your ex friend.

[autuboho]

From what I get it, the person isn’t necessarily trans. I understand that person probably didn’t intend to dismiss them: in many contexts, heterosexual identity is often expected or imposed on people who later realize through experience that this identity doesn’t fit for them… their comment may have been meant as an invitation to reflect more deeply on one’s being. That said, regardless of intention, the remark comes across rather dismissive and disrespectful, and that matters. Just because you experience more discrimination doesn’t justify invalidating someone else’ individuality. Heterophobia, just like queerphobia, even thought it’s not that frequent, still it is not acceptable. Ultimately, it is up to you to define what and who you are, not from others.

[3xhowolves]

my mom really likes a certain song and i have so SO many criticisms for the lyrics and could write an entire essay ranting about it but she would hate that and lives in a world so fundamentally different i would genuinely upset her so every time she plays it im just trying so hard to focus on the rhythm (which is very interesting mind you) and i feel like im biting and clawing the walls

[autuboho]

the day I stop following amatonormativity is the day I become a villain

[autuboho]

Merry Christmas, happy new year and good day to anyone ! ♥️

[autuboho]

Hard life is it 🫣