#boho post

[autuboho]

Open your mind

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[autuboho]

“I want a relationship.”

“Same I want a partner.”

“I need a friend so badly.”

“Didn’t you said you want a relationship?”

“Friendships are relationships. End of the story."

[autuboho]

"If there’s [insert] this is not a friendship."

It is, you are just heavily stuck in amatonormative puddle.

[autuboho]

"I am looking for a man of other times who is serious, respectable and loyal."

*come out a man who have a different outlook on love and doesn’t follow love norms and stereotypes*

"I said a real man of other times."

a man: im sorry i thought you wanted a man of other norms.

[autuboho]

Confessing to your crush

An act of gambling. You either gain a partnership or lose a friendship.

[autuboho]

"humans are naturally built to have more than one partner."

no humans are naturally built to have more than one person WHO isn’t a partner.

[autuboho]

cant love your partner platonically because your relationship is supposed to be romantic? amatonormativity. cant love your friend because your relationship is supposed to be strictly platonic? amatonormativity. cant befriend with anyone unless of same sex or your nuclear family? amatonormativity. cant romance your friend because is exclusive to person you may gonna marry? amatonormativity. cant go out with a friend you just met because of your partner and opposite sex? amatonormativity. cant turn to your partner to a friend you just met because your partner was first? amatonormativity. can’t have sex and romance with your friends instead with your partner? amatonormativity. cant have exclusivity with your friend instead with your partner? amatonormativity. cant feel fulfill your standards to others people because that’s what romantic/platonic a partner/partners is supposed to be? amatonormativity. cant a friend help you when you are at the lowest because you have a partner and they are supposed to be there for you? amatonormativity. cant a romantic relationship be non conjugal because thats what romance is supposed to be? amatonormativity. cant a friendship be a romantic relationship because that is supposed to be a partnership? amatonormativity. can’t a platonic relationship be conjugal because that is supposed to be family or friendship? amatonormativity. that a relationship is supposed to be a partner relation? amatonormativity. prioritize your conjugal relationship beyond your other relationships? amatonormativity. your other half is supposed to be a partner? amatonormativity. significant other is supposed to be your partner? amatonormativity. soulmate is supposed to be your partner? amatonormativity. the other you is supposed to be your partner? amatonormativity.

I’m fed up that anything about that has to do with love inherently means a partner interest.