Love yourself if no one else will.

Admin's pronouns + names are in the pinned comment.

[averagefleurson]

Introduction (I accidentally deleted the first intro)

fleur definition

Pronouns/Names

What to expect for this blog:

Posts about paraphilias + parasocialism

Transid + para positivity, opinions, hot takes, etc.

Coining my own flags/terms (I don't take requests)

Disclaimers:

I am anti-c, children and animals can't consent to sex nor am I promoting that idea.

Dia- is another synonym for trans-. I mainly use this so I won't get harassed by antis.

Whenever use the prefix trans-/dia- I mean I should be x but I'm not x. Yes trans-/dia- can be used in this way, trans- doesn't always mean you literally are that thing.

Youth age gap intimacy is a relationship between minors that have large age gaps (eg a 6 year old being w/ a 15 yr old); I am against this.

Tags:

❓💭- my own thoughts/opinions

🥄🗣️- paraphilias

🩷💛- transIDs

⍰- answering asks

🪙🌸- coining posts

📊- polls

➡️🌸- posts about this blog

♻️- reblogs

☁️💟- parasocialism

WNI (Will Not Interact with):

Right wing people

Pro/neu-c for zoo/map

TERFs/SWERFs

Xenosatanists and their adjacents (e.g. basedqueer, lsdqueer, etc).

Really anyone who is rude to me or my beliefs/identities will be blocked. If you want to interact with me or my beliefs/identities, please do so in a polite/patient way.

[averagefleurson]

So y'all know that I'm trisage (ageless) due to spiritual beliefs, but I want to go more in depth about these beliefs.

So for me personally, I believe that everyone's spirit lives on after death and people become apart of the earth's spirit/history.

Even if you see yourself as insignificant, there will always be someone who remembers you having some sort of impact on them, and that will become apart of the earth's history.

With most humans (at least now) their spirits will live on through the people who knew of them and not specifically their body decomposing and feeding other life forms like other animals.

The age of everyone's spirit is undetermined/ageless since it is unknown what impact you made on other people and if your memory will be passed onto others (eg. Michael Jackson's spirit is ageless because he's iconic, but your spirit will be ~80 years old because you aren't well known).

I don't know how long I'll be remembered after death, so I don't know how long my spirit will live on for, thus not knowing what my age is.

Chronologically I know my age (not saying it on here, since I don't want to get doxxed) but I don't know how old spiritually I am.

[averagefleurson]

Another label coining

majqueer- Stands for "majority queer". These are LGBT folks who have majority queer beliefs. This includes:

-pro kink, but hostility towards paraphilias that are controversial or "harmful".

-pro-mental health, but believe that bad things should happen to paraphiles for being paraphiles (eg. isolation, torture, death, conversion therapy or "getting help", and/or not having support systems or outlets).

-TansIDs (in general) are harmful.

-pro-hrt

-anti-terf/jkr

-anti-conservative

-pro-religion

-insinuating that paraphiles are only cishet (eg. "pedos aren't lgbt" when there are, for eg, lesbian maps).

-pro-feminism (paraphilic women bad/don't exist)

-pro-ship is harmful.

-Usually liberal, leftist, or radinclus or aligns with their beliefs (that is excepting of xenogenders, microlables, and micro labels)

conqueer (queers who are anti-rq) is similar to this but the majority of queer people don't know about radqueer. Plus, you can still be a conqueer while being a "conservative gay" which isn't a majority queer belief. The term is intended to be used by paraphiles/transID users.

[averagefleurson]

Diarace culture is being so frustrated when trans women/men/enben have the same experiences as you do but they get all the support while you get hate.

Example:

"Being a trans woman means that you often have to be a doormat for other people while they misgender you."

Tumblr users: *condolences*

Me: "Being a diaracial individual means that you often have to be a doormat for other people while they call you a race you don't want to be called which is mentally taxing."

Tumblr users: "I don't care, you race traitor. You should love yourself or kill yourself, ew."

[averagefleurson]

Reminder to block and report totallyjoyousday (a nazi) if you have the time to or haven't already.

People with hateful ideologies aren't welcome in the fleur + transid community.

Go back to 4chan.

You aren't a scary or edgy person, you're just a pathetic unintelligent piece of shit looser who deserves to be trampled on by other people, especially Jews and Black Americans.

[averagefleurson]

Another poll! (FOR FLEURS ONLY)

Do you think that FLEURs should be more separate from the rq community?

No.

Yes.

Nuance.

Voting ended onJul 16

[averagefleurson]

✦ Your blog is something special, keep going.

Thank you comrade.

Your pop is really cool.

[kanddy-kane]

GET TO KNOW YOUR MUTUALS!

Rules: answer and tag six (I'm not following that rule) people you want to know better!

1. Favourite colour:

2. Last song:

3. Currently reading:

4. Currently watching:

5. Currently craving:

6. Coffee or tea:

@snumnerville @ciel-hungrysemiotician @i-eat-asphalt @marzscreamz @krow-offical @glennzerlda @fernfoxes14 @and-if-that-was-me-then-who-am-i/@14-opossums-in-a-trenchcoat

Mines:

1. Favourite colour: Blue and Yellow!

2. Last song: Kimi wa dekenai

3. Currently reading: Lord of The Rings

4. Currently watching: Steven Universe

5. Currently craving: Tidepod and Aquarium gravel

6. Coffee or tea: Soda. Fanta. Rubicorn.

[lifenconcepts]

1, Maroon. A deep red with a sliver of brown in it. Such a red that makes you feel lost and hungry. Such a red that feels haunting and trecherous. A red that makes you both lost and found. The red that you see across your hands after holding something so tender to you that is now long cold. The red that can not escape you for it runs through your very heart and arteries. The red of loss, the red of gain, the red of anger, and the red of love. Red. Maroon. ooh that and maybe gold!! :3

2,

3, Some random yet fucking incredible webcomic on tumblr of Simon (iron lung) and Grace (Project Hail Mary) that I do not recall the name of the series nor the creator but LOVEEE seeing.. aughhg.h... might find in my screenshots.

4, My life slowly drift through existence and consciousness try to grasp at various passing by and temporary concepts purely out of a desire to form a structured and certain identity. Also, like, octonauts I guess.

5, the ability to feel fulfilled out of inaction that makes every waking moment feel like a breeze and also to go travel by car across Europe in a wonderfully stocked shitbox and like 20 bumper stickers and journal on all my adventures and also perhaps a very yummy bowl of rice and various veggies and spices.

6, Tea. Specifically berry ones, they're cozy. Also black tea with an absurd amount of sugar (fine maybe like 2 tea spoons.)

@sunny-harlequin @toothandfeather @angelandreus nf and anyone welcome !!!

also bonus questions to make it even:

7. Least favourite dynamic to see in media:

8. Hidden interest most people irl do not know about:

9. My preferred nonhuman form:

10. Silly phrase stuck in my head right now:

my answers to my own questions ehehehhe

7, soft girl x hardcore boy in a clearly nonconsentual relationship.

8, I want to be a cannibalistic human lab-experiment guard dog with no moral compass and a craving for mortal blood and also stray in a forest from time to time.

9, WOLF !! Or wolf dog. AWWWOOOOOO!!!!!

10, Never gonna give you up never gonna let you down never gonna run around a-

not joking with that last one ngl

[sunny-harlequin]

I almost didn't see this, the Horror O^O

1. Favourite colour: purple & green!!! Color of dreams and color of nature; both feel very calming to me (and also very me—)

2. Last song: "I like you best" by Ella red (it's been on repeat since my hyperfixation on Fox started—)

3. Currently reading: "La commode aux tiroirs de couleurs" by Olivia Ruiz; i'm participating in a narrated second-hand fashion catwalk and we based one of our decor/set elements on it so i was curious :)

4. Currently watching: In the middle of the Warren-verse movies (of the Conjuring line), and should probably finish Cassandra & Stranger Things

5. Currently craving: 4-cheeses pizza or a good ol' French tacos—two of my comfort foods

6. Coffee or tea: Why would you make me choose? So cruel... Tea is so varied and lovely, yet coffee is my go-to comfort drink and it helps make my brain go from a blurry cloud of thoughts into a slightly more defined cloud of thoughts

7. Least favourite dynamic to see in media: jock x nerd—first off it tends to bore me, second off it tens to be toxic and not in the good yummy way—this might come from me being a lil nerd marginalised and bullied idk but i just don't vibe with it (no shame if anyone does :3)

8. Hidden interest most people irl do not know about: My partner knows like everything about me because they don't judge me—much /j—(or they wouldn't be my partner) and i like to talk a lot and i don't have much of a filter with them; then there's Sam, a very freaky friend who knows about the things that could contend for this. HOWEVER!! they are the only ones to know about my obsession with The Price of Flesh and YKMET

9. My preferred nonhuman form: Doggo or cockatiel :3 (kakapo is also a strong contender), jus a silly lil creechur that sqeaks and makes noises and is playful and is curious :3

10. Silly phrase stuck in my head right now: "I am damp all the time. I am damp now, and I will be damp later" courtesy of John Mullaney and the fucking heatwave ✨

@bunny-jun @juustliikehooney @9xersd3nfgjtu @sidequest-official @permabunnie @vagueshape /nf as always, but i would love to read y'all's answers ^w^

[lifenconcepts]

but.. but dreams are an off white mixed with pastel blue and magenta...... ... muahahaha...

EXPAND ON #3 PLEASE!??! EXPLANND!?!? !! !!>..?!/1.1.1.!!!>.1111/1..1//.111>!?!

YOOO YOUR interests are so genuinely very coool!!

i shall now go check them out. this post does not show the passage of time.

THE SONG IS SO COOL!! Actually reminds me of Annie Lenox a little, blake robinson synthetic robinson, puppyplay by mailpul an' femtanyl, and drunk groove by maruv. honestly. the prior are so wonderfulll.. I didn't expect such a fun song exists, albeit its queerplatonic now, i headcannon that.

specifically these 3:

is that anything to you? ;3

honestly they are such a delicous style of fucked uppp woooooo!!

do you play the price of flesh or watch the playthrough? Outspoken on yt got a good narrated one and it seems charming ngl! detroit become human vibes for some reason. HOLY SHITTTT did someone just by a human being and set them off into the wood to survive? no joke this seems intersting and the voice talking is incredible.. wowoahhh..

also the kakapo reminds me of a shoebill ngl

[sunny-harlequin]

OMGS these are the exact vibe that scratches my brain rn i love you so much /vpos /gen

I played it actually!! But if it's a narrated playthrough i may just have to check it out, i'm a sucker for good voice acting!! Yeaaaah it's in the horrorporn genre, though you can deactivate sexual content and keep just the horror without the plot being impacted ^w^ I still have a few achievements to get, but the DLC route has me in a chokehold ngl 😳 The reason only 2 people IRL know about me liking this stuff is well... i've found most people find my interest in these topics disturbing, but then again i am the kind of person who thinks cannibalism is intimate and crawling under one's skin is couple's goals (be it romantic or otherwise) so it took me a few awkward silences to get that XD

I see it. Same silly but a bit uncanny category of birbs. Very much a vibe 💫

[averagefleurson]

1. Favourite colour:

I would say a very dark purple/green.

2. Last song:

Duvet x linger remix

3. Currently reading:

A Perfect Arrangement by Suzanne Berne

4. Currently watching:

I think Hereditary (2018)

5. Currently craving:

Rights of non-offending maps, zoos, and necros.

6. Coffee or tea:

Tea. There's more variety.

@dyspunktional-leviathan @halfpinthoodwink @nekochuuya

[averagefleurson]

One of the main struggles I have as a diaracial + diaethnic is America.

Since Cajun and LA Creole are specific to the US, and Louisiana is the only place I can see myself being from but I hate what the US stands for and its history (also LA because of how conservative it is).

I know that in a just world Cajuns and Creoles wouldn't exist because Europeans wouldn't have colonized the world, but I should still be that anyway.

I can't control racial dysphoria or if I'm diaracial/ethnic or not, but I still feel bad over it yknow.

[averagefleurson]

It makes me happy when I see trace individuals alleviate dysphoria or pass as the race that makes them feel the most comfortable.

That isn't something I can do, mainly because of the dire social consequences that I would face.

Do what you can to alleviate dysphoria, even if it is something small like listening to music or listening to vlogs from someone of your desired race or ethnicity.

Do what you can safely and hope no one jumps you.

Sometimes it feels like living in a horror movie with how much people despise you, but you are safe here.

I promise.

[sidequest-official]

Mutuals are only allowed to reply with ONE WORD describing your vibe.

No explanations.

Reblog and tag more people.

[sunny-harlequin]

Pebbles

@lifenconcepts @juustliikehooney @bunny-jun @toothandfeather @vagueshape @9xersd3nfgjtu (/nf as always <3)

[averagefleurson]

trippy.

@dyspunktional-leviathan @halfpinthoodwink @heartsakee @nekochuuya @rq-flowergarden @mycotoxin

[averagefleurson]

"If necros/maps/zoos are normalized, then my kids will have to interact with them! I don't want to put my child in danger!"

That is objectively the most stupid anti-para argument I've ever heard.

You most likely have already interacted with a zoo/necro/map without knowing it.

The people who I talk to on a regular basis have no idea I'm a zoo/necro/map.

There are no observable features to give away if someone is a zoo/necro/map, it's purely a mental and psychological experience.

Unless if someone tells you they're a zoo/necro/map or has told you they are attracted to a controversial action/subject, you have no clue as to what their paraphilias are.

[averagefleurson]

Another poll :) (trace people only)

Do you feel a disconnect from your family because they're a different race than you?

Yes

No

Sort of

Voting ended onJul 9

[averagefleurson]

Fleuraison culture is when you're a leftist and you try to respect other minorities but you have 0 compassion towards them due to the trauma and harassment you've faced from people saying that they are "safe spaces for marginalized people" but then tell you to kill yourself.

I don't want to be compassionless, I just have a very hard time fighting for the rights of people who'd rather see me dead, in an asylum, or constantly dissociating from my attraction/identities.

[averagefleurson]

tw paramisia, misusage of paraphilic/medical terms, Epstein, sexual abuse

I'm in the living room with my mom while she's watching the Epstein documentary on Netflix and it's so nerve racking.

They've already misused the term pedophile to refer to Epstein/Epstein's "pedophile" island and it's so fucking frustrating.

I don't feel entitled to a child's body nor do I think it's good idea to force a child into a sexual or romantic relationship with an adult because they have no financial independence and they have no experience with relationships.

I'm very very lucky my mom is alright with me being a map, but I know most people who watched that documentary who are going to focus on him being attracted to minors rather than him being so unbelievably rich that he could afford good lawyers and BUY AN ISOLATED ISLAND so he could get away with raping children.

Like people even said in the interview that there was nothing they could do because he was too rich and famous.

[averagefleurson]

Finding ANOTHER transethnic/race person on Youtube is CRAZY

This is the second time this happened!

[averagefleurson]

It's so strange to me that cisage people will genuinely see another generation as some sort of alien species they have nothing in common with.

"You (28 year old) can't be in a relationship with a 50 year old, that's abusive!"

If me and that 50 year old has some things in common (eg. we both like writing) then we could get along with each other without it being abusive (not a big fan of romance, sex, or platonicism personally).

We all live on the same planet, we all have common interests that can span across generations (eg. cooking, reading), right now we're in a global housing and affordability crisis...

We're really not that so different from each other and I can see through the bullshit more easily because I can't relate to any generation or age group.