it takes years to learn the difference between who to let go and who to be patient with. the same way it takes years to know what you deserve and what you don’t. so hang on there, growth and experience come with time.
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it takes years to learn the difference between who to let go and who to be patient with. the same way it takes years to know what you deserve and what you don’t. so hang on there, growth and experience come with time.
I'm a girl, and I already can say that you have a good bum.. and a cute face, and great tattoos and a cute hair, which means you are simply beautiful and I'm your fan.
anons were my biggest supporters back in 2015, i miss these days
i love your tumblr k thx bye
angel 💖
damn it's been a while
nobody gives me butterflies anymore y’all just give me brain damage
Where r u from?
england :)
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“The problem is you are too busy holding on to your unworthiness.”
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my plan B for everything is to die before it happens
Can I power fuck your little dyke cunt then finish in your pretty mouth pussy?
First, am not gay
Second, guarantee it'll be the weakest dick ever
Third, suck ya mum
people are allowed to leave you. people are allowed to break up with you. people are allowed to love you but not want to be with you. people are allowed to not want to talk to you. people are allowed to put their happiness before yours and do what makes them happy even if it does not include you. people are allowed to move on from you. people are allowed to fall in love with someone else. people are allowed to not want you in their life. people are allowed to do whatever they want to better themselves and become the version of themselves they are trying so hard to love. don’t be bitter towards someone who is only trying to be happy.
I feel like this POV does not get enough voice.
I don't like how this is worded. At all. By all means, take care of yourself, but you don't have be cruel to other people in order to do that. When you involve yourself with someone, you know what you're signing yourself up for. You know at some point, you could hurt them. But how bad do you want to hurt them? If you stop loving someone, that's okay, but be kind to them because they still love you. If you want to end a relationship, that's okay, but don't completely abandon that person. If you want to stop talking to someone, that's okay, but do the right thing and tell them why in a way that they actually understand, as opposed to telling them in a way that is going to do nothing but upset them.
When we care about someone, we're allowing them to care about us. And with that, comes the responsibility of not letting this person feel regret, or wishing they'd never met you.
Take care of yourself. Don't be selfish. Don't be the cause of unnecessary pain.
I've seen too many people go out of their way to intentionally hurt someone. Why is it so difficult to just consider someone else's feelings?
I've been on both sides. I had a relationship that wasn't for me, so I left. But I left with kindness. I left them in a position where they could look back on our relationship and be happy that it happened. I never wanted to give them a reason to look back on it and question it, because that's what happens. That's what happened to me. My ex broke up with me and instead of saying "hey this isn't working anymore, this is why and here's how I feel" he did none of that. He took everything from me in a matters of hours then proceeded to just use me when it suited him. To this day, I don't understand what happened, and to this day, I still ask questions. It's been 2 years and I'm still full of doubt and anxiety about it and it's stopping me from finding someone else I can be happy with. Don't do that to a person you once cared about.
It takes equal energy to help as it does to hurt. Don't make the active choice to fuck someone up.