Anyway I've said this before but all the weird cisnormative jokes aside, being unironicaly "misandrist" is actually not good!/srs
This isn't to say that it's bad to hate cis men for their misogyny or that any kind of reverse oppression exists but like...? You're defining your ideology by hating men as a whole and everyone who IDs as a man. But many men are oppressed by people who ID as misandrists.
If you're a white woman, men of color aren't oppressing you.
If you're a cis woman, trans men aren't oppressing you. [Edit: on the basis of gender that is. Obviously it is possible for trans men to have other privileges over cis women such as white privilege or abled privilege. They don't have male privilege tho is my point.]
And white cis men aren't harmed by misandry, obviously, but literally any other marginalized men are? Because the whole ideology involves weaponizing mens marginalized identities against them, there is currently no way to avoid that in the current discourses people are having.
And there's also the unaddressed issue that misandry is closely tied to terf ideology. There's a reason self IDed misandrists keep accidentally rbing terf posts and have to be reminded. And it's really fucking weird how cis women will be told that their rbed post that are shit like "Men are inherently abusive and invasive and horrible" were actually made by a terf and will be like "oh I'm sorry I thought this was about men, ill delete it" and then??? Find more of the same shit without thinking about why terfs think like that? (See: because they simplify concepts like misogyny to "men = bad and women = good" and then apply a transphobic misgendering view to that and are radicalized against trans women as a result.)
Things like "man" and "woman" are constructs, that doesn't mean they hold no meaning, but they don't even remotely = experience. For example the statement "men don't experience misogyny" is incorrect. Trans men experience misogyny because to cis men they're perceived as women, not all trans men pass as cis men enough to not experience misogyny, and people can ID as a man and as a woman at the same time. It simply is not simple enough to be reduced to something like misandry.
For example when you say "I hate men and that includes trans men, they're men so they're bad. Trans women are okay though" (a take I see a lot) not only is this very transphobic against trans men but also excludes all the Bigender and multigender/genderfluid trans women and TMA nonbinary people who ID as both a trans woman and a man. They do in fact exist. You do not understand the trans communities like you think you do.
Basically, I get it. There's nothing wrong with punching up at abusers. But the "misandrist" view has nothing to do with punching up, it's headed by white cis women who are taking out the trauma experienced due to cis white men onto other marginalized people.
Listen to all trans people. Not just the ones who fit your view of womanhood enough to be "one of you". Stop being transphobic and otherwise bigoted and realize that this isn't the epic girlboss moment you think it is.
Anyway don't reblog this it's going to get flooded by terfs probably because they don't like it when I say this stuff lmao. (Which should be telling on its own that when I speak about how misandry is a harmful ideology the main people attacking it are terfs)
But if you're cis especially if you're a white cis woman I want you to think about this. You deserve to be able to set boundaries and feel safe too and misogyny is a serious and horrible thing to experience but all you're doing is lashing out at people who experience the same or similar oppression. You're not helping yourself or anyone else, please evaluate this and try to treat your trauma from misogynists in a healthier way.