A thing i think a lot of people are missing in the sea of the "bucktommy is great stop hating just because of buddie" and "just be greatfull for bi buck!" (Which i don't necessarily disagree with) is that some people are a bit afraid of what that means for eddie as a character.
For a lot of people it was important for buck to get to be bi - regardless of buddie - because they see it as an important aspect of his character, which i totally agree with! but i think some people, like me, have the same idea about Eddie's character, so that's why seeing all of that happen with tommy makes us feel scared that we won't get to see Eddie have it too! For me it's less "ugh i hate tommy i want buddie canon" (although we all obviously want that), it's more about wanting to see eddie also get that much deserved realization/coming out arc!
