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!!INTERFEM!! fae/faer clack/clacks syskid & harpykin

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BASICS ABOUT ME!!

Call be Bea (Bee)!

I am a syskid (4 in sys)

intersex & transfem

afro indig & slav ancestry

CIMI / medical abuse survivor!

Fae/faer & clack/clacks pronouns please

traumagenic but psych critical so we don't use medical terminology to describe ourselves.

Blog stuff:

We are very pro endo.

This blog will be probably me making tiny comics about being a syskid, transfem, intersex, disabled, etc

uhm thats all for now i thinkkk

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I'll take things that didn't happen for 200 points!

okay freak

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A self appointed "trans radfem" just tried to correct me on transfeminism... but when discussing the intersection between misogyny and transphobia, they said "that's just transphobia."

Which judging based on their definition of transfeminism being "hate tmes and intersex people and drag queens and", i'm sure they didn't mean to do this, but they essentially just told me transmisogyny wasn't real.

Like. Y'all get that right? If you say there's no intersection between transphobia and misogyny - you're not "owning the tmes" - you're pissing all over transfeminist theory & claiming that transmisogyny isn't real - "it's just transphobia."

[this post is scheduled months in advance due to not wanting to deal with losers currently - and no I don't support ANY "rad" fems. eat shit and live - don't interact with my shit.]

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well, my mom is ignoring her disabled childs worsening health again while she caters all her time to going above and beyond for her other children in ways she never would for me...

here's to another round of praying it really kills me this time. (cuz clearly near death and weeks in the hospital over my entire life never quite did it.)

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not kankri but didn’t want to discourse on main

i think transmisogyny ( the intersection of misogyny and transphobia, which affects all trans people ) and transmisogyny ( misogyny against trans women ) are two fundamentally different things that should have two separate words. no i don’t know what those words should be.

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Not to be That Guy that overly corrects a post on something that doesn't matter and wasn't technically said but the average viewer may not know, but!!

Transmisogyny is a specific phenomenon of the intersection of transphobia and misosgyny as it affects transfeminized people. (to put it very simply.)

It has never and will never be "just general transphobia+misogyny intersection" , and that misconception comes from people just looking at the word and assuming what it should mean. Which is to say, ignorance.

Yea, it sucks it cant just be simple but idk when you go in depth and really look at it; it's a word that was coined because Serano saw a phenomenon happening to her community and wanted to put a name to it and discuss it. That's really all. We just need additional language!!

Uhm idk how to word this cuz i reworded this so many times but yea! It will never be The Intersection That Affects Everyone But People Just Started Saying It's Trans Woman Specific, and it is so much more than "misogyny against trans women."

It's a term that describes a specific societal & systemic phenomenon that happens to transfeminized people because of an intersection between misogyny and transphobia. The existence of that doesn't imply the nonexistence of other things, it simply is.

So yea. They do need different words! But neither of these definitions are what transmisogyny really is. More misconceptions of the term borne from a large portion of people online creating fanfiction about what it means.(lol)

Anyways,, I just use "transphobic misogyny"/"misogynistic transphobia" to try to do that because words are HARD. But one day... we will have more language🤞

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People are trying to rewrite Queer history again and are claiming that MOGAI was created to pretend pedophilia is Queer, and not because nonbinary, mspec, and aspec people were undergoing years worth of harassment campaigns telling us we couldn't identify as LGBT because we weren't literally in the acronym, and that we couldn't call ourselves Queer either. MOGAI, aka "Marginalized Orientations, Genders, and Intersex" was created for all the people told we weren't Queer enough to call ourselves LGBT.

If you spout this shit, just know that you are actively reenacting and upholding the aspec harassment campaign among many others.

the "pedophiles" people are claiming this term was created for? Yeah that's literally just a fucking dog whistle for aspec people. Because the people harassing us for years were literally claiming that we were all pedophiles for being a sexual or aromantic or what have you, the exact same way the conservatives claim that all queer people are pedophiles.

They were literally unironically claiming that it's pedophilic to *be asexual*.

If you would actually fucking listen to people who had to deal with this shit you would all know this.

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you never owe anyone an apology for being disinterested in the relationship they want with you

you should never feel guilty for being disinterested in a relationship someone wants with you

you are not a bad person for being disinterested in a relationship someone wants with you

and if anyone tries to say you are/do/should they are an asshole

that goes for ANY relationship - platonic, alterous, romantic, familial, etc.

you don't owe anyone reciprocation

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I really wish I could control my plato repulsion. 🍎

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when you think about it i truly should not be the host. i regress mentally down really fast and a lot and it makes it impossible for me to handle literally anything, it's not that i'm stupid i just as if I no longer have the cognitive ability to do anything anymore.

as a syskid i am not always literally a baby mentally and I like to consider myself one of the Big littles out there but I still feel mentally stunted in my growth. I am the same person I was when I was a child mentally, just without the memories. idk:/

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Can't scroll two seconds on tiktok without getting a hogwarts advert.

And everyone is hyping if up like oml all of you hate trans people

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Sorry I don't really see what's so goth about dressing up as a nazi and telling groups affected it's "not a big issue".

you just want aesthetic, no matter who you hurt.

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Should DID be a spectrum disorder?

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I genuinely think so. OSDD 1 gets run under the bus by DID 100% of the time. Most people don't even know what OSDD 1 is, but everyone's heard of DID (or at least MPD) in some way or form.

The rates of diagnosis between DID and OSDD 1 vary by country. And, unless I'm mistaken, P-DID is often used interchangeably with OSDD 1 (also by country). There's a lot of competition and hierarchy between the different CDD diagnoses. I think having it as a spectrum disorder would be beneficial, or at least neutral, for everyone with a CDD.

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I wanna add onto this by saying I've seen professionals say before it truly works more like a spectrum. I think CDD systemhood is a specific thing that can present in a lot of different ways and I don't think the system we have currently really reflects that enough. (part of why half my sys stopped calling ourselves an OSDD system actually - cuz we are critical of the diagnostic setup that's currently out there).

But yea that's just my non-medical professional opinion.

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One more bit I thought of.

In the OSDD tags, I saw someone with OSDD 4 complaining about how they can't find any other experiences like theirs because everyone uses general OSDD tags when they only mean OSDD 1, which is the only type of OSDD to form a system.

Bringing OSDD 1 out of the general OSDD diagnosis would vastly help patients with the other three forms and paint a clear line between the type with a system and the types without so that they could have more resources that are more easily accessible.

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Being a system is ruff because if you don't present exactly how others want you to -- you're as good as a faker. Best you can get is your systemhood ignored and symptoms demonized.

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Should DID be a spectrum disorder?

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I genuinely think so. OSDD 1 gets run under the bus by DID 100% of the time. Most people don't even know what OSDD 1 is, but everyone's heard of DID (or at least MPD) in some way or form.

The rates of diagnosis between DID and OSDD 1 vary by country. And, unless I'm mistaken, P-DID is often used interchangeably with OSDD 1 (also by country). There's a lot of competition and hierarchy between the different CDD diagnoses. I think having it as a spectrum disorder would be beneficial, or at least neutral, for everyone with a CDD.

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I wanna add onto this by saying I've seen professionals say before it truly works more like a spectrum. I think CDD systemhood is a specific thing that can present in a lot of different ways and I don't think the system we have currently really reflects that enough. (part of why half my sys stopped calling ourselves an OSDD system actually - cuz we are critical of the diagnostic setup that's currently out there).

But yea that's just my non-medical professional opinion.

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david wallace after he gets fired makes me sad:(

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If you reference obscenity laws or "onscene" content to justify your hatred of the ideas of strangers jacking it to shit you don't like, you already lost. pack it up.

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I do try to never do business through toyhouse as a website because it's a bunch of people who regardless of age jusr have no maturity or understanding of how to interact with others. Genuinely every single TOS/CW I read has more and more absurd things.

Half the users on there want to basically still own the character after they sold it for a shit ton, another half have lists of users they hate on their wall (and this is weird and commonplace), I saw a TOS today that was just complaining about people who block freely and how "immature" and stupid it is to block people for whatever reason you so choose...

just the entire website is trash.