A Kankri Fictive

[kankris-discourse-blog]

hello, my name is kankri. i am a fictive of kankri vantas from homestuck. (for readability / screenreader reasons, i do not use my typing quirk from source.) i use he/it/blood/crab/🦀 pronouns.

this blog is not exclusively for discourse, but it will certainly feature heavily. because of this, i have no dni.

i am pro-endo / “rad”endo, profiction, radinclus, as well as having several other stances.

we are bodily an adult, intersex, trans man.

[unclegrimsley]

people on here will identify as "misandrists" and then turns out they're just transphobic and misogynistic to trans men. Okay

[transfaguette]

when you’re a little girl boys will say “so if boys and girls are equal that means I get to hit you right?”

and then you grow up to be a trans man and people will say to you “oh i thought you wanted to be a man, that means you have to put up with [abusive behavior]”

and they will tell you these 2 things do not stem from the same desires of gendered punishment and control

[learn-how-to-love]

“Why would a trans man even want to be in lesbian spaces?” Because that’s how they identify

“trans men only want to be in lesbian spaces because they want attention” no they just identify as lesbians

“trans men can’t be lesbians that’s self-misgendering” if they don’t feel like it conflicts with their identity then it’s not really your business

“Trans men only want to be lesbians because they believe their AFABness entitles them to it” no they just identify as lesbians

“I’m a lesbian and I don’t want to date trans men” then don’t

“I’m tired of seeing trans men in the lesbian tag” then block them and their tags

“Trans men being lesbians implies transfems can’t be lesbians” it literally doesn’t

“Well would you be okay with a trans woman identifying as a gay man?” Yeah do whatever you want forever

“Trans men that want to be lesbians aren’t really trans and are going to detransition” you’re just assuming things now

“Ughhhh I just don’t want to have to share MY TERMS with those whiny theyfab transtrenders!!!!!” there it is

[kankris-discourse-blog]

i chose to believe that all the transfems attacking transmascs on here, as well as all the transmascs attacking transfems, are all FBI government psyops

we are all built from the same soil, get more comfortable with people you don’t understand and love each other NOW

[burning-gray-mon]

Hey so if you think a transmasculine interpretation of a work is lesser or wrong than a transfeminine interpretation, that's transphobic as fuck

[kankris-discourse-blog]

How dare systems… have headmates?? What??

[kankris-discourse-blog]

The demonization of kink in woke spaces is genuinely something terrifying and I don’t see anyone talking about it.

Forced feminization is a kink. It’s a kink at its roots. Has it helped many trans women discover themselves/come out/be more open/etc.? Of course! But to say that forcefem is for trans women, and that cis men are gross for participating is not the move. And to say it’s not a kink, and anyone viewing it as a kink is gross, is just as weird! Forcefem is a kink that anyone, cis or trans, man or woman or anything in between, can have. It can be for comfort or for sexual gratification, like any kink. It’s okay.

It’s not just forcefem though. It’s petplay, ABDL, and any kink people find comfort in. Just because you find comfort in something doesn’t mean that anyone who calls it a kink is a bad, evil person. Kinks are ment to comfort. Kink can be nonsexual. BDSM is a lifestyle. Am I saying that regressors have to engage with fetishists? Absolutely not! But you can’t act like they are horrible monsters that need to be kicked out of the community when they made the community in the first place.

It’s the same with furries that find yiff unbearable, or call other furs zoos for the drawn content they engage with. The furry fandom was built on nsfw and kink.

You can’t kick kinky people out of kink. You can’t come into kink communities and demand that the kinky people leave. It doesn’t work like that.

[luxiomahariel]

anyway heres your reminder that its not possible for trans men to hold male privilege in a transphobic patriarchal society where the government doesnt view us as men even if we do pass (which isnt something that all trans men want)

male privilege as a term was not coined with trans men in mind and its shitty to use it against us

update your understanding of feminism or get left behind.

[transmanrageroom]

epidemic of self hating trans men currently… “i don’t care if people call me girl or queen because it’s more important to not misgender women then to not misgender men” “one thing trans men should do is take up less space” “we objectively face less oppression and have privilege over both trans and cis women” “you can misgender me as a joke it’s okay” “yeah it really is such a shame that i’m a man now haha” “we don’t actually need transmasc support groups” pleaseee get up dude stop trying to be One Of The Good Ones

[amirmeavid]

misandry may not be real but some of you see the word 'man' and turn your brains off.

maybe consider why its not ok to see 'trans men deserve to take up space' and go 'HAHA MEN ARE NEVER TAUGHT NOT TO TAKE UP SPACE'

This is a recurring problem, like if I had the exact same material reality, and just called myself a transmasc girl or nonbinary girl, some of the people sending me harassment would suddenly start to have basic thinking capacity again.

you literally see 'man' and forget what trans people are.

[kankris-discourse-blog]

If you hate men on the basis of being men, trans or cis, you are fundamentally failing feminism 101.

Please read a book, I’m literally begging you.

[kankris-discourse-blog]

being anti-para is ableist, by the way.

if you are anti-para, you are ableist.

end of story.

[sysfreak-archive]

"youre a MAN you dont know what misogyny is like!!" right because I, as someone with a uterus, have never been reduced to just that organ. I, as someone with AFAB written on my birth certificate, have never been reduced to just that label. I, as someone born a woman, have never been mistreated and judged simply because I was born with certain parts. clearly I've never experienced misogyny simply because I prefer to be called a man. cleary society is so accepting of trans people that the moment someone says "hey, I know that you view me as a woman and have for many years, but I'm a man" everyone has said "oh okay, welcome to the top of the patriarchy" in response instead of "you're just a delusional woman".

[kankris-discourse-blog]

People that can’t differentiate between Jewish people and Israel genuinely fucking disgust me.

No, goy is not a fucking slur. Yes, the way it’s used in the files in relation to Israel is fucking evil. But that doesn’t make it a slur. It’s literally just a word in another language.

Fuck Israel, free Palastine, and don’t blame innocent Jewish people for the crimes of an entire nation ffs

[kankris-discourse-blog]

anti endos shocked when plurals don’t want hate in inclusive tags

“heads up if you use queer tags as a homophobe you’ll probably get jumped by queers in your ask box”

like ???

[kankris-discourse-blog]

not kankri but didn’t want to discourse on main

i think transmisogyny ( the intersection of misogyny and transphobia, which affects all trans people ) and transmisogyny ( misogyny against trans women ) are two fundamentally different things that should have two separate words. no i don’t know what those words should be.