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The largest Muslim Ban protest is at JFK made up of New Yorkers, the ones most devastated by 9/11. They are not fooled & you shouldn’t be either.
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Trump and the former President of Mexico acting like bitchy high school girls on social media.
It’s like The West Wing meets Mean Girls.
What the world has come to.
full offense, but the term ‘The Great Wall’ is already taken…
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First they came for the scientists…
And the National Parks Services said, “lol, no” and went rogue and we were all like, “I was not expecting the park rangers to lead the resistance, none of the dystopian novels I read prepared me for this but cool.”
Best tumblr post by a friend of mine in years.
For real though…
“This was not the outcome we expected,” Clinton said Wednesday. “I am sorry we did not win this election for the values we share and the vision we hold for our country. I know how disappointed you feel because I feel it too. And so do tens of millions of Americans who invested their hopes and dreams in this effort. This is painful and it will be for a long time.” [x]
Assessing the impact of the Trump administration on LGBTQ issues
This is only speculative, and I want to be clear that there are a lot of unknowns when it comes to trying to figure out what a Trump administration really means for LGBTQ folks. He’s said very little, and sometimes contradictory statements about his stance. But I think it’s important to note what things are relatively safe under the Trump administration and where we should be genuinely concerned. This is not intended to scare anyone, but to give you some things to think about in terms of making very real and tangible decisions in the remaining months before some of these things happen.
Probably Safe:
Marriage equality - While Trump has expressed his opposition to same-sex marriage, and a desire to appoint conservative judges who would have opposed the Obergefell ruling, I think it’s reasonably safe to assume that same-sex marriage will continue to be the law of the land. I don’t think has the desire or political capital to overturn this one, and an attempt at a constitutional amendment would be deeply unpopular.
States with nondiscrimination laws - I live in Minnesota where gender identity and sexual orientation have been protected since the mid-1990′s. For those states with robust protections at the state level, I think there’s little chance that those laws will be overturned at a federal level. Republicans, and Trump, have suggested many of these issues are a state-level decision. A greater concern, though this is not specific to Trump, would be the continued support for religious freedom exemptions at the state level, where these laws could be undermined by emboldened conservatives.
Out LGB Military Personnel - It’s been 5 years since “Don’t Ask, Don’t Tell” was removed, and I would argue that even with Republican majorities, the work of having to go through and discharge LGB service members who have been actively and openly serving in the years since is likely to be opposed by both popular opinion and military leadership.
Federal process for trans individuals - One of Hillary Clinton’s accomplishments as Secretary of State was making it easier for trans folks to change their gender markers on passport documentation. Similarly federal changes were made to ease the process for social security. I’m not 100% certain, but I think these bureaucratic changes are likely to remain as-is, they’re just not that big of a political target.
Tenuous:
Municipalities with nondiscrimination laws in Republican states - To be fair, this has little to do with Trump specifically, but as with North Carolina’s HB2, I think there’s a reasonable risk that progressive municipalities in conservative states may see more attempts to regulate nondiscrimination ordinances under the banner of religious freedom. I’m hopeful that the model of HB2 and its backlash may make this more unpopular, but it’s a risk.
Trans people in the military - While I would assess LGB folks as fairly safe, transgender individuals in the military have reason for concern. The Republican party has repeatedly suggested that allowing trans folks to serve is a “social experiment” and the changes under Obama are still relatively new and tenuous at best. I hope it’s not the case, especially since it’s well known that trans folks serve in the military at higher than average levels, but I am nervous about what this administration will do on that issue.
Federal hate crimes enforcement - I don’t think hate crime laws are going away, but I have a strong feeling that this “law and order” administration is going to be far less focused on crimes against the LGBTQ community as it shifts focus to immigration and anti-terrorism actions. That likely means less federal involvement, support, and data collection on these crimes, which is tragic.
Various same-sex benefits - Trump proudly trotted out a parental leave plan early in his campaign…that only covered maternity leave. Expect to see more omissions like that.
An LGBT White House Liaison and other representation - It may not be a position with a lot of direct power, but during both the Clinton and Obama administrations there has been an LGBT liaison for the White House, most recently a trans woman of color. Whether that position goes away or not, I think it’s probable that the amount of LGBTQ+ representation in a Trump administration is going to be negligible, or largely limited to white gay men.
At Risk:
The dream of a progressive Supreme Court - A more conservative Supreme Court has largely been the norm for recent history, but there have been rulings - like the Obergefell decision - that have been great victories. Supreme Court justices were a significant point in the election season, and thanks to Republican obstruction, Trump will likely get to fill Scalia’s seat with congressional support. Unfortunately that could mean a negative ruling in the Gavin Grim/trans bathrooms case that will be heard this coming spring, and could have some serious lasting impact on the ability for LGBTQ advocates to try and battle discrimination through the court system. Let’s just hope the liberal justices stay, and that 2020 brings a change.
Inclusive healthcare - The Affordable Care Act is a pretty big deal, and Trump has pledged to repeal it. What will come after is a big unknown. But I think that action could have some pretty major ramifications for LGBTQ healthcare. LGBTQ folks are more likely to need subsidized healthcare, and from everything from trans exclusions in health plans to funding for HIV/AIDS research I think there is strong reason for concern.
Trans protections for Federal contract employees - One of Obama’s executive orders, in lieu of getting more comprehensive protections through congress was to extend protections for sexual orientation and gender identity to federal employees and contractors. Given Trump’s pledge to rescind Obama’s orders, I think this is very much in jeopardy. That may not mean anything directly (ie. I’m not sure we’ll see mass firings or anything) but it’s certainly cause for concern.
Expanded Title VII and Title IX protections - The Obama administration has in the past couple of years been fighting aggressively to expand the interpretations of both Title VII (employment) and Title IX (schools) to include gender identity and sexual orientation as part of existing protections based on sex/gender. That expansive view is what led to the Department of Justice challenging North Carolina’s HB2. Under a Trump administration those interpretations are likely to shift back to a far more limited definition of assigned sex. That’s bad news for LGBTQ youth and for employees in states without nondiscrimination laws on the books.
The Equality Act - The Equality Act like its predecessor the Employment Non-Discrimination Act (first introduced in 1994) was a major priority in Hillary Clinton’s campaign platform. With a Republican congress and White House it’s dead in the water, and with it the best hope for legal protections in housing/employment/public accommodations at a national level. Optimistically a congressional swing in 2018 could open the door again, but I think 2020 is the next real opportunity to create a climate that would make this possible.
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“Sometimes after a long day at work, I just want to come home, put everyone in formal wear, and feed my toddler a salad on the table.”
Poor kiddo
Ari had fevers all last week and just when I thought it was better, he broke out in a viral rash that I thought was chicken pox. Ugh. I have let him watch so much paw patrol, all the paw patrol, and it placated him so much that I thought he was better. so ysterday we tried to go paw patrol free. big mistake. crying, tears, whining all day long. I had to have whiskey at the end of the night to calm my nerves. Today our doctor/ my FIL says he’s still pretty sick so we’re back in the paw patrol time loop vortex. That little song is making me twitch, (no case too big! No pup too small!). But Ari is like a sick little angel when it’s on. Luke isn’t back for 9 more days.
February 22, 2016 Glennon,
My mother couldn’t love me well. I still wonder when I try to sleep at night…why couldn’t she love me? What is wrong with me? And how will I ever know how to love my daughter?
Love, H
Beloved H, this is what I know.
Parents love their babies. I have met zero exceptions.
Love is a river and there are times when impediments stop the flow of love.

Mental illnesses—addiction, shame, narcissism—these are boulders that stop the flow.
Sometimes there is a miracle. The boulder gets removed. Some families get to experience this Removal Miracle. Many don’t. There is no rhyme or reason. No one earns it. Healing is not the reward for those who love the most. Love is love is love.
When a parent becomes healthy again: they want their baby back. I have met zero exceptions.
When the boulder is removed—the water flows again. It’s the way of the river, the way of a parent’s love.

We are the river—we are not the boulder.
Your parent—your sister, your friend: the one who hurt you, the one who couldn’t love you—she was impeded. That love was there though. It couldn’t get to you—it couldn’t get to you—but it was there—gathering power, swirling, festering, vicious in its desperation for its release. It was there—is there—all for you. That parent’s love EXISTS. It just couldn’t get past the boulder.
You can trust me about this because I have been an impeded river. The boulders of addiction and depression blocked my love and all my family felt was nothing from me. Nothing but pain and absence and:
Why, Glennon? Where is the water meant to flow from you to me? Why are we being cheated?

And then I got the Removal. And my swirling water flowed again. Because I was always love. I was always the water—not the boulder.
I am so sorry.
You deserved to have the love of your parent delivered to you. You deserved to feel her love. You deserved to be soaked through to the bone with it every day and every night.
Please listen to me:
The miracle of grace is that you can give what you have never gotten. 
You can. You do not get your power, your water from your parents’ river. You get it directly from God.
Your river is strong. Let it flow.
I believe in heaven because I know that one day no river will be impeded and we will all flow into the same ocean. And then you will feel all that love that could never get to you here. You will feel every bit of it like a mighty tidal wave at first and then forever like a river.
All I know is that you have nothing to do with the removing. The removing is not between you and her. The removing is between her and God.
For now:
Flow. You are the river.
Flow unimpeded.
That’s what you were made for.
There is a swarm of new babies and pregnancies all around me, and because my boys are being little darlings rn, and Sol is 15 months, I feel the fever. Which is soooo not possible, in the medical sense (snip snip and HG). But there is a part of me that has always and forever wanted 3. Sigh. I know some of you feel me out there, but here is my other question, who feels done? Anyone? Is there ever such a thing or does being a mother mean you constantly fight the urge to fill your soul to the brim with babies and children? I'm thinking for me it's the latter. Because love makes room for more love. I've done the math on that one. So I've got to look into pets. My husband is in berlin right now for 16 days, I thought I would be dying but we're doing really good despite a sick kid and renovations. But I'm trying to keep quiet about it because if there is anything I've learned in parenting it's don't get proud, keep your head down. Or a shitstorm will find you. But I humbly say this. I feel that motherhood is my life's purpose (if there is such a thing)and I it feels damn good doing my life's work. I am happy.
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Unarmed Black Man Shot To Death By Police after Car Broke Down On Side of The Road
Yet another unarmed Man was fatally shot by trigger happy police Sunday night. Terence was on his way home from his community college night class and was trying to get some roadside assistance to get back home. Instead what he got was bullets in his lungs.
Officers en route to an unrelated call, saw his car on the side of the road and pulled over to investigate the vehicle around 7:40 p.m. According to police, when they spotted Terence they told him to put his hands up but he refused to comply so they shot him. However, the newly released dashcam video contradicts their story.…..surprise surprise. Terence can be seen in police dashcam video walking toward his SUV with his hands up and officers following behind him before he’s shocked with a stun gun and then fatally shot.
Tulsa Police Chief Chuck Jordan announced Monday before the department released the shooting footage that 40-year-old Terence Crutcher had no weapon on him or in his SUV.
Terence Crutcher, 40, died at a Tulsa hospital on Friday night shortly after the violent confrontation, the Tulsa World reported.
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Going over calendars with luke last night and I made the horrible discovery that he's actually going to be overseas for 16 days not 12 like I thought. Also kitchen still in pieces and prolly not going to be finished by tomorrow as scheduled (I knew it wouldn't be but I still hoped) Optimism crumbling
this is better than any poem a man has ever written
So we did decide to switch Ari to the public kindy (preschool) and we already have his new start date. I have yet to inform him or his current preschool, not that I am procrastinating .....errr gulp.
The kitchen is being remodelled at our house today so we are up at the main house hiding out. Had some great awkwardness already with the workmen who literally thought I was a different person because they met me at 7:15 am with no make up on and my hair in a wet messy bun, and they were super confused when I talked to them again later with my hair done and make up on, “are you k’s sister?” Bitch please. women are fabulous majestic creatures who can morph into other ppl with the flick of some hair and some face paint. BAM! that’s what i’m taking away from this. (”well I thought you were wearing the same clothes!” bless him.)
I am really hoping this kitchen is put back together by friday, like they promise, because that’s when luke leaves for Berlin for 12 days. errr double gulp.
Had super fun meeting up with @first-time-mama today. I don’t think she is on here much anymore, but you are lovely and your children are awesome. Ari totally loved playing with you guys and was all, “I made her my friend!” afterwards :) more! MORE!