[psychfairie-deactivated20210523]

🖤

[femmeidiot]

It’s like I know logically that everyone in the world doesn’t hate me but my anxiety is like “okay but maybe they do 👀👀👀” like chill out dude.

[thatwitchrevan]

I personally wanna see less 'you are not a burden/it's not work to love you' and more 'you are worth the work it takes to love you.' I KNOW I'm a burden sometimes. that isn't such a terrible thing! humans are strong. we can carry burdens. and it is work for me to be there for my friends, but it's work I'm willing to do.

we need to acknowledge this because pretending love isn't work will never make people like me feel less guilty for accepting love. we need to talk about it so people don't feel bad for having boundaries and not always being up to do the work. we need to accept it so we can properly appreciate what others do for us and what we're doing for them.

yes it does take work to love you. but guess what? you still deserve love, and you deserve people who are willing to do the work to love you. it doesn't make you bad. all love take work. and everyone is worth it.

[garfleas]

[violentlyhedonistic]

Forced praise and care taking is criminally underrepresented. Sit your sub in front of you and have them recite how they’re your good pet, how they’re so pretty and they always turn you on so much. Order them to look you in the eyes while they say it, squirming and blushing. Threaten them with making them wear a “Owner’s favorite” shirt in public if they stop.

Write “good puppy” and “best kitten” and any other nicknames + praise on them - or have them write it while you watch.

Give them an extra soft and gentle bath and massage while they’re tied down so they can’t take the attention away from themselves. Then make them cum over and over again while they lie back on the softest pile of blankets and whine and scream.

Just have to accept all of their dom’s adoration and love. Your most precious and prized possession, your lovely spoiled pet.

[amysubmits]

AmySubmits Posts

Updated 3/7/2021

Short posts or anecdotes get tagged #anecdotes.  Asks that I answer are tagged #asks. When I add a caption to a photo it goes under #captions. Posts that that I think may interest those going from vanilla to D/s are tagged #vanilla to D/s. Posts that I think may interest those new to D/s are tagged #new to D/s.

amysubmits.tumblr.com/tagged/anecdotes

http://amysubmits.tumblr.com/tagged/asks

http://amysubmits.tumblr.com/tagged/vanilla-to-d%2Fs

http://amysubmits.tumblr.com/tagged/new-to-d%2Fs

All of my longer posts are tagged #writing. 

Denial: Pleasure & Punishment

He Leads Me

“When You Are Hurt, You Just Come To Me”

What’s In A Name?

D/s Is Heavy

Steering

The pleasure of listening

Our beginning 

As He Tells Me 

Need

Nobody Knows

A Fence

Two Sentences

Not A Game

Doing What I Want

The Little House

Burden 

Why Do You Like It?   

Implements 

Deserve  

Teasing 

Beyond Punishment 

Power & Control  

Checking

Structure 

Leading His Way

Confessions 

Crying

Daddy

Safe 

Girly 

Heavy shoes 

His side

Real life & structure 

Desperate  

The reminder 

Orgasm control

A quiet mind

Treasured

He will ask

Eighteen

Night And Day

Soft 

Us

Value

Date Night

Measuring

Testing

Erotica & consent 

Boundaries 

Seething?

I thought I Had Permission Because...

Nowhere To Hide 

His Control 

Dinner Without A Phone 

Seen 

Who is who  

Not My Decision

Our rules 

Leniency

My Dom Shows Me Respect By...

Are You In Control Here? 

Ego 

Trust 

Taken Care Of

I Didn’t Know 

Socks 

Home 

The Gap 

Noisy sub brain & Dom Voice 

Friction 

Ways We Don’t Fit The Mold 

Our Core 

Soft (my second with this title - oops)

Fixated 

But I want…

When it’s heavy 

Consistent communication

Submissive presence 

Soft sweet docile 

The real world 

Dominance is a gift 

Undressing 

Owned 

Pride 

Slapping 

Needing my submission

Love 

A Hard No

Who We Are 

Storms 

Watching

Apples & Oranges 

The Opportunity To Serve 

He’s Not A Mind Reader 

Care 

Not Supposed To 

More Than Words 

Math 

Meds 

Note To Self 

Luck

Mutual Passion 

Reset 

Commitment 

Domestic 

Untitled (crying) 

When Life Gets Harder 

Just Us Two 

Trial & Error 

Doubt 

Priorities 

Unlocking 

D/s partners 

Distance 

Purple and Green Unicorns

No 

Supporting Him 

Untitled (storms) 

Future Daydreams 

Discussing The Basics 

Emotional maintenance 

Making the implicit explicit

Screw ups 

A Gift

“Communication Is Key”

Mutual happiness 

Traditional gender roles & submission are not degrading…

Connection 

Resistance 

My strength 

Opening up 

A week 

My Place

Leading our relationship

Strict discipline 

We just like this….

A week (#2)

Heaviness 

Trusting the dynamic

Doctor appointment *new

Known & Owned *new

Random others:

My attempt to explain our D/s in a nutshell

Our Rules

List of D/s blogs

List of domestic discipline blogs 

CD’s posts: His personal posts are tagged cdanecdotes on his blog. Asks are tagged #asks. 

Hearing Her Cry

Orgasm Denial

Spanking 

Little Decisions

Attention 

Prompt 56 

Remembering Why 

Video 

Our Intimacy

Why It’s Worth It 

She Lost Her Wallet

Amy is good

Little stumble

Feminism is not destroying masculinity

Intent

Go Play Your Video Games 

Prompt #80 

Amy 

Our podcast episodes:

https://player.fm/series/over-the-knee

[genderfuckdoll]

Lol @ icarly in the background

They/them

[mazfxcker-deactivated20240410]

i’m sick and tired of people not being obsessed with me

[xdomdaddyx-deactivated20210317]

Pretty pups that shake all over and involuntarily squirm away when overstimulated are adorable. Makes me want to tie you down so you can't move an inch and use you till you can't take it anymore,little one. Is that too much,baby? Does it hurt,hm? Good. It's supposed to.

[baby-pet-bee-deactivated2022020]

Can I be your pretty little fleshlight

[ariesthedancer]

i need some internet whore bffs

[e-perv]

how do we feel about collars ladies

[e-perv]

i think being pulled in for a kiss by my collar .. well that might be neat!

[animatedtext]

[thetattedstoner]

Mood Setting: we both high af, making out.

[litttlesunshine]

cuddle time ?

[isntitlovelybeinginlove]

Why do I get physically weak when doms say “come here”, or when they grab your chin and say “look at me when I’m talking to you”? Or when they kiss your tears after a spanking and say “you know why daddy had to do this right?” OR when they tie you up and edge you for hours, just to give you a mind blowing orgasm with that cocky smirk on their face?? It’s not fair😡😡😡

[chubbybabe-deactivated20210622]

i need a bossy partner to think for me 💕

[s0ft-fae-deactivated20220324]

oops, I dropped these pics of me looking thicc af🥵