TumblingFox

This is my random as hell reblog & personal blog! - VulpusTumultum for my art, writing, and minimal reblogs related to them.

[bakafox]

Ways To Help Me Out

Going to try and pin this, since my links on main page with theme seem to be tricksy- But hi! I am Bakafox and I am a disabled neurodivergent mess with emotional support cats and also just cats that showed up at my door and I could not say no to.

Which means I have six cats and admittedly very little budget for them, or myself.

I have an Amazon list of useful things for me and the cats, (and spoil-y stuff for the cats like toys,) here. It's snacky things, sometimes clothes, household products and cat food. I can ALWAYS use the cat food though I appreciate it's the pricier stuff on the list a lot of the time.

The wishlist is as VulpusTumultum because for YT stuff whenever I do it I'm doing it as that rather than bakafox, but I just don't use the VT Tumblr for much these days.

I also have a general for-fun Amazon wishlist if someone wants to just help me hoard my favorite media like a broke-ass dragon or give my brain a treat that is nothing but a treat.

And on cashapp I am $bakafox and I'm foxotillo on Venmo, but sending me money can be a little fraught and nerve-wracking for me due to the hoops the US makes disabled people jump through to maintain benefits. Sometimes I do just need the cash though for vet visits and stuff.

[za-ra-h]

First art of 2026 ✨

[teaboot]

I just noticed my darling baby boy (cat) sitting in his little loft bed about 5 inches away from the most delightful sunbeam, so I scooted it into the sunlight for him and he looked me with the biggest widest expression. I don’t think he knew that was an option. I think I just blew his whole little mind

[teaboot]

^guy who didn’t know I could do that

[roostingwindow]

Hi I hope you like Ollie. He took me several days

[teaboot]

HOLY SHIT MY BOY

[naamahdarling]

She doesn't look like much, maybe, but she's so amazing to me.

[autistic-af]

Source ~ Neurodivergent_Lou

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Note: these are different ways these can show up. They can also show up in a stereotypical way. If you've met one autistic, you've met one autistic.

[teaboot]

REALLY

FUCKING ALL OF THEM??!?!?!!

[rinamata05]

Happy Pride

[depsidase]

how quaint.

[leona-florianova]

A typical run-of-the-mill jolly sergeant for @twoidiotdetectives

[obserbolisk]

Normally I do not give a fuck about my age matching or surpassing that of timeless fictional characters. Can’t even understand why someone would be bothered by that. However, in the new James Bond video game, Bond very casually and conversationally references SpongeBob, and it hit me like a fish fired from a rail gun.

[elvenfaur]

Glamour shots of my Vash boots! Photographer is Pedxiing on Instagram!

[curiositysavesthecat]

Do you think it's weird and/or predatory for a 13 year-old and a 30 year-old to be best friends if they're not family members or related by blood? Assuming everything is innocent and platonic. Nothing romantic or sexual.

Yes, it's weird and predatory

It's weird. But not predatory

It's predatory. But not weird

No, it's not weird or predatory

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[creelson]

unpopular opinion but I don't think there's anything weird or predatory about an innocent friendship

[dianxiacantastemolecules]

The question is why the fuck is a thirty year old hanging out with a 13 year old if not in their family?? The only other relation that could have them interact is through teacher/student and bring friends like that would be weird as fuck

[creelson]

found family? the kid not feeling safe in their house? the adult wanting to help? family / teacher / school isn't always a guaranteed safe place. should the kid and adult each have friends that are their own age too? sure. but if their friendship is genuinely innocent then I think the problem isn't them but people who project their weird and predatory thoughts onto them

[the-bar-sinister]

Don't forget shared hobbies?

A 13 year old and a 30 year old could reasonably meet at a tabletop gaming store, a fiber arts group, a book club....

[audacityinblack]

They could literally just be neighbors. This whole isolationist thing of never even talking to the people you live closest to is new and weird.

[moniquill]

It is important to human social development to have extra-parental adults as advisors and role models!

[audacityinblack]

Something I really think needs noting is that this is very much a white people thing. I am always hearing people of color talk about aunties and uncles and mentors and elders who are not their blood relatives. These intergenerational bonds are absolutely critical to people's survival, particularly when you belong to a group that is treated violently simply for being who you are.

Systems of power have always relied on isolating people and turning them against each other. The current system we live under absolutely does not look out for or protect children, so it's absolutely critical that there be adults in reach that a child can trust outside their immediate family or authority structures. And it's just as critical that kids know how to find and connect with these people.

Elders are survivors. We have managed to live and even sometimes thrive in a world that has time and again made it clear that it doesn't want us to. We are proof of both a history and a future that young people desperately need right now. More than that, we can teach you how to survive and thrive, because we're living in that same world that still doesn't want you to.

[shamebats]

If you see the quote "I refuse to share my body with a man who wouldn't defend it politically" or any variation of it floating around the internet — it was Kat Blaque who originally said it and she would really appreciate it if people gave her proper credit for it but it's gone viral on a lot of different platforms and most of the people sharing it don't know it's from her or choose not to credit her on purpose.

[shamebats]

Like I just know terfs are going to be parroting it pretending it wasn't said by a black trans woman about herself & her life.

[gregtom]

[k-simplex-deactivated20241001]

Happy Pride

[crplpunkklavier]

we bought a shirt at a thrift store that says "best mom in louisiana" for some reason (as a reminder we are in midwest germany) and now my spouse keeps walking around the house wearing it and saying shit like "WHO STANDS BEFORE THE GREATEST MOM OF LOUISIANA?"

[crabussy]

trans women and trans men and nonbinary people and everyone else being friends and holding each other close and falling in love and thinking of each other. I'm making this my future. let's all be okay together

[saintessinthegutter]

*sobbing* i love em

[pangur-and-grim]

we have a new game where I blast Belphegor with a forcefield