Seeing endos/willows claim to be able to *make* headmates is wild. You can't will a headmates into existence. You can force alters to form. You can't have DID without the trauma.
We genuinely cannot understand the reason behind these people wanting this disorder. It's not fun, we hate having it. Like I'm grateful for our alters because they helped me survive extreme childhood torture. But living with all the dissociation and amnesia and the flashbacks and how that much trauma affected our body is absolutely hell. I don't get why anyone would want this.

















