Basically-Jace

One of the many FH users. I've decided to make a tumblr to share some of my mostly FH-related work. Most of you will know me as Jace, I'm LaughingWolf to everyone else; and if you're curious, my dA is JaceLaughingWolf.

[severeobjectfun]

Dear teen girls,

Stop abusing your boyfriends and yes what you are doing is abuse.

Stop:

Yelling at him in front of his friends 

Hitting or slapping him when he does or says something you don’t like

Telling him he doesn’t have a choice when it comes to decisions that involve both of you 

Telling him he can’t hang out with friends because you don’t like him

Telling him to not talk to other girls even if they are his friend

Forcing him to spend every moment with you 

Belittling him and pointing out all his flaws

Calling him stupid or making fun of him for making a mistake

Threatening to break up with him if he doesn’t do what you want

Being emotionally manipulative and crying until he does what you want

Accusing him of cheating every time he’s not with you

Blow up is phone if he doesn’t text you every five minutes 

Telling him you are the must thing that has ever happened to him and no one else will love

Physically attacking him when ever you are mad

Forcing him to have sex despite that fact that he said he didn’t want to

Invading his privacy by going through his phone

Getting mad at him for changing his password and demanding he tell you what it is

If a guy did any of these things to a girl it would be considered abuse but since its the other way around its considered normal. Throughout High school I saw many girl treating their boyfriends like shit. Sometime even physically abusing them in the hallways and no one trying to stop it because its a girl attacking a boy. 

Boys: If your girlfriend does anything on this list leave her. It is abuse and you deserve better.

Girls: if you find your self doing anything on this list to your boyfriend you need to knock it off because you are being abusive. 

[dynastylnoire]

!!!!!!!! My brother was abused by his babies mom and it started like this and escalated to child abuse and neglect.

You don’t deserve to be screamed at, ignored, or assaulted.

Not showing affection when she wants or not hugging her before class) or missing a phone call doesn’t warrant getting cussed out or hit.

[fvlani]

Lol, I lost 5 followers from reblogging this. That’s fine, y'all can go

[onlyblackgirl]

Whole lot of grown women do this too.

[engel-tier-deactivated20180213]

Just wanna throw these in too

Being passive aggressive with him when he wants to spend time with friends or doing other things 

controlling when he’s able to go out with friends

Breaking up his friendships with other girls just because you’re insecure

Making him feel like his opinions in decisions that affect the both of you are irrelevant and don’t matter

SENDING HIS NUMBER TO STRANGERS TO TEST IF HE’S LOYAL OR NOT

testing him in anyway in general without his knowledge or permission (example: catfishing! it’s manipulative and weird don’t fucking do that)

taking money/credit cards without permission to spend on things without his knowledge ( had an ex friend do this constantly to her boyfriend and she’d always condone it because “he’ll get over it” )

guilting him for hanging out with friends/family over you  and making him choose between you and friends/family

telling him “you don’t love me if you *insert harmless activity he wants to do here* “

being rude or mean to him in front of others to assert dominance or power over him

downloading apps to spy on his phone activity (yes, this is a thing “”regular”” people do) or snooping on his social media to see who he’s talking to

hitting him, slapping him, punching him, shoving him. literally how do people not understand slapping your male partner is bad. people tend to find this funny in media and society and its weird. KEEP YOUR HANDS OFF YOUR PARTNER WITHOUT PERMISSION. 

I come from a family of very forward and manipulative women and i see it in media all the time. it’s fucked and people need to not be accepting of young girls acting like snot-nosed, abusive shit heads that think they can get away with manipulation and cruelty because they happen to be girls.

[alwaysbewoke]

and let me add this. ABUSIVE TEEN GIRLFRIENDS TURN INTO ABUSIVE GROWN ASS WOMEN GIRLFRIENDS WHO TURN INTO ABUSIVE WIVES.

if you have an abusive teen or young adult gf right now fellas, leave. don’t let her use you to get her shit right. you’ll be so fucked up by the time she gets it together if she ever does and believe that most likely she won’t.  

[spoonmeb]

Can i just add that ive seen young queer girls do this to their girlfriends. Girls can be abusers and you are right to leave. 

[purpleandpinkhouses]

Women/young girls can definitely be just as abusive. I knew a young man that got ran over and had his leg broken by his girlfriend because (in her words he annoyed her) He refused to press charges. Another young lady started to hit her ex boyfriend because he wouldn’t take her back because of the abuse. He called the cops on her and they literally started laughing at him because she was very petite in comparison to him. Anyone can be abusive and I wish more people understood that.

[madhattey-deactivated20211019]

dammit I’d spam my blog if i reblog this more than once but dude this is really important.

[ayeshapoptropica]

Oh my god. This is so important.

[lazykitsune]

Can we stop watering down the word “abusive” please, half of these are just being an asshole/being mean in general, thanks ^_^

[nucleic-friend-deactivated20171]

I counted like 3 that aren’t “abusive” 

[severeobjectfun]

@hong-meiling-official @sad–boys2001 

Do you mind explaining which one you don’t consider abusive and why? I’m curious. 

[nucleic-friend-deactivated20171]

Yelling at him in front of his friends

Calling him stupid or making fun of him for making a mistake

[severeobjectfun]

Yelling at someone in front of their friends (or anyone) can be mentally abusive and can lower their self esteem especially if it happens constantly

And making fun of someone for making mistakes can also be mentally abusive and can cause them to panic when ever they make a mistake because they know they are going to be made fun of. 

[basicallyjace]

I see this a lot -- not just teens, full-grown women, and not just to their significant others but to their friends too. 

[basicallyjace]

.. a work in progress... but .. not FH related for a change.. this is what I do when I’m -not- making presets or maps. xD   ~6-10hrs of work so far and I’m only about a third of the way there.

[basicallyjace]

Been a while -- here’s one I’m just finishing up. Sewn/stapled together hides to make this one 

[simplytheanthropic]

My all time favorite animal. The red-bearded vulture.

The bearded vulture, or lammergeier, lives on a steady diet of bones (more specifically the marrow) and dyes its own feathers blood red.

Bearded vultures come in various shades, from pure white to orange-red. Soils stained with iron oxide give the birds their fiery appearance. Lammergeiers apply the dirt with their claws and then preen for about an hour to ensure a bright orange/red glow. They are also attracted to other red things, like leaves and red wood. Captive birds also partake in this behavior, which suggests the activity is instinctual, not learned.

The soil doesn’t have any practical purposes; it certainly doesn’t make for good camouflage (though the birds have no natural predators anyway). Scientists have noticed that the birds’ age and size are directly correlated to the intensity of color. It is theorized that the hue is a status symbol. More soiled feathers indicates that the lammergeier had the time and resources to find an adequate place to bathe; the brightest-colored vultures should have the most territory and knowledge of their surroundings. Interestingly, these baths are done in secret, so most of the information gathered has been through spying on captive birds.

Bearded Vultures are most commonly monogamous, and breed once a year. Sometimes, especially in certain areas of Spain and France, bachelor lammergeiers will join a pre-existing couple to create a polyandrous trio. Females accept secondary mates because it increases the chances of producing offspring and doubles her protection. The birds usually don’t lay more than three eggs, so they can use all the help they can get.

These giant birds can grow up to 4 feet tall. They have a wingspan between 7 and 9 feet and usually weigh around 10 to 15 pounds.

In other words, this bird is awesome and I love it forever.

[currentsinbiology]

That is one impressive bird!

[basicallyjace]

You can almost see the velociraptor in that thing. Nice.

[did-you-know]

There’s an old legend that a birthmark or defect indicates the spot where you received a fatal wound in your past life. In some cultures, people mark their dead with soot or paste so they can recognize them when they are reborn, which has inspired several researchers to spend their lives documenting hundreds of case studies that allegedly reflect this belief. Source Source 2 Source 3

[sapphic-matriarchy]

Put how you died in the tags 

[jumpingjacktrash]

i apparently died of a small wound on my forearm shaped roughly like a question mark. i submit that i was murdered by a supervillain in the golden age of comics.

[basicallyjace]

Sci-fi weapon that hit my left shoulder.. bc how else do u die with a shoulder wound? Lol

[awwww-cute]

[deadpanwalking]

@lizdexia

[h3c70r]

so, you could say, this tree is bearing fruit?

[basicallyjace]

bear cub: “I’m not seeing any partridges up here.”  adult bear: “No, it’s pear tree, not bear tree.”

[basicallyjace]

Getting there with Ruel.. just need dem’ leggies. lol 

[basicallyjace]

Not much; just my latest preset work. Elemental for the rp I’m in.. weather type, this one. I claim no rights to most of the design, that goes to the person who requested the work. 

[maptitude1]

These maps show the regional prevalences of the words ‘bro’, ‘buddy’, ‘dude’, ‘fella’, and ‘pal’ in the contiguous United States.

[rubiline-deactivated20210204]

there are no friends in florida

[aspotofnonsense-deactivated2022]

i am from florida and can confirm

[basicallyjace]

Am amused that these (pictured) maps, pretty much avoid Georgia altogether.. lol. 

[mahaldaddy-blog]

[sararye]

AND THAT IS HOW YOU USE AN EFFECTS PEDAL

I was gaping the entire song this is insane

[andrewducote]

If I had a dollar for every time a musician made me feel like I’ve done nothing with my life, I’d be filthy, FILTHY rich.

[belligerenceforhire-deactivated]

Damn dude………here’s my bank account number.

[elodieunderglass]

what happens: a single street artist with an amplifier, an effects pedal and an electric violin plays a cover of a pop song as a semi-classical piece arranged for multiple instruments. he samples himself with the effects pedal, then loops it as he goes to create the effect of multiple instruments playing an entire composition. The development and progression of the the piece is very sophisticated.

artist: bryson andres

song: “secrets” by one republic 

rendition style: classical, fusion

[basicallyjace]

This guy is one of my fav’s  lol

[snowystater-blog]

bitty

[shitpost-senpai]

Actually, This is how the webcam was invented. 

At Cambridge University, they were sick of checking the coffee pot level, so Quentin Stafford-Frasier wrote client software for a greyscale 128x128 camera hooked up to an acorn archemedes computer.  Paul Jardetzky wrote the server program.

https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Trojan_Room_coffee_pot

[americansylveon-deactivated2017]

Technology always comes full circle.

[loremerchant]

Necessity is the mother of invention.

[basicallyjace]

When it comes to people, usually its laziness. lol  for example ~ points at entire selection of As Seen on TV shit. lol 

[basicallyjace]

Latest requested work; a not-quite-elemental. lol - Just happens to be a wolf that can control water in an ‘elemental’ rp i am participating in. 

[ridiculousbirdfaces]

[fionaostbyillustration]

Myself

Aswell

[basicallyjace]

Dragon pose initiated

[basicallyjace]

Hey look, a not-fh related thing.  As someone that has read / is reading the Throne of Glass series, I decided to draw out Rowans’ tattoos. It has been driving me nuts that almost all of the fan-art I’ve seen of him either simplifies them to a simple tribal-style tattoo, or makes it generally too simple. His tattoo’s are not there to look pretty. They are remorse for those he’s lost, his sins as he sees them; and his atonement is having them written on his flesh. From the miniscule lines on his face all the way down to the larger and more recent ones on his torso. They are detailed and were intentionally painful, something he felt he deserved. So I made this. There is a minimal amount of ‘design’ that went into it, mostly I went with flowing shapes that might mimic what he is. The air. As much as I don’t know that particular language of elvish, I decided to simply mimic the shapes involved in any writing, It’s something that I think would be seen as Rowan’s own handwriting. It was in doing this, that I wonder if he did them himself using his element, or had one of his cadre do it for him (but that seems unlikely for something that he sees as atonement.  I wonder if he will attempt to add to this with Aelins story, or would he ever try to remove it, as they are now reminders of how deep Maeves manipulation ran.

[graceless-goddess-deactivated20]

[corribangtan]

I’M FUCKING DYING. THIS IS AMAZING

[imjellybaby]

WHERE IS HIS RECORD DEAL???

[distortiondevil]

HE’S BACK

[therealjacksepticeye]

What the hell!??? :O

[mydogisabutt]

REINCARNATION IS REAL

[basicallyjace]

oml - this made me want to listen to MJ music. 

[mattxpike-deactivated20170223]

High-functioning anxiety sounds like…

You’re not good enough. You’re a bad friend. You’re not good at your job. You’re wasting time. You’re a waste of time. Your boyfriend doesn’t love you. You’re so needy. What are you doing with yourself? Why would you say that? What if they hate it? Why can’t you have your shit together? You’re going to get anxious and because you’re going to get anxious, you’re going to mess everything up. You’re a fraud. Just good at faking it. You’re letting everybody down. No one here likes you.

All the while, it appears perfectly calm.

It’s always looking for the next outlet, something to channel the never-ending energy. Writing. Running. List-making. Mindless tasks (whatever keeps you busy). Doing jumping jacks in the kitchen. Dancing in the living room, pretending it’s for fun, when really it’s a choreographed routine of desperation, trying to tire out the thoughts stuck in your head.

[grapehyasynth]

I don’t think I’ve ever seen it written out as if it were describing me exactly.

[thecreativegraveyard]

Ouch

[basicallyjace]

Always running through my brain, though I never thought of it as anxiety, just a never ending depression. 

[fhsparklehyena]

I tried to find those hot springs in Bonfire Island, but got lost and ended up in the Chikeria Plains. 

Good news though is I took time to explore that map and I feel that would be the perfect place for a RP group. 

Can’t say anything official since I need to have time to organize and figure things out. But there is a chance I want to try to do the dog pack thing again. 

[basicallyjace]

Which one? Cherika or Bonfire? I have heard word that the bene’s have moved to bonfire from Kiwimbi. There are a lot of people on Cherika, but it’s still a decent rp spot if you can find a place that is unoccupied.  I’d like to continue Jace’s story at some point too, so I’ve been considering it m’self.