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I know people don’t like talking about this that much… but taylor is going to make such a good fucking mom one day.. like she basically raised me from birth and she don’t even KNOW it like she’s got this shit figured out

ryuzaki-lester

Pros of dating me

i’m p rad

i am the best cuddler

cudDLES

i will steal ur clothes but u can also steal mine

i’m funny sometimes

dad jokes

nobody likes me so nobody can steal me

i will make u food

i don’t smell

my hair is soft

i will kiss ur face

holDING HaNDS

i’m small so u can lift me

i will maybe sing to u

my face is ok

i will hug u so much

dating me means u aren’t single

i will do long distance and we can skype and watch netflix

i will text u

i will text u back

COns???

(i’m an introvert with social anxiety and depression so i have bad days but it’s ok i promise)

pseudophan

phil could probably kill a man if he wanted to

basicly-a-walking-fandom

And we would support him wholeheartedly like idiots

so-many-ships-i-have-a-fleet

Logan wants to know why I’ve dragged him into this…

saxifraga-x-urbium

things i care about in a non-private bathroom: is there a fucking door on the cubicle or has someone kicked it off again, does the door close, is there a lock on the door, is there a seat on the toilet, is the seat covered in piss/pubes/shite, is the entire rest of the cubicle covered in piss/shite, is there toilet paper, is the toilet paper covered in piss, will i make it out of this bathroom alive, am i gonna die of food poisoning, is the ceiling dripping, is that a spider

things i do not give a flying fuck about in a bathroom: is the person in the next cubicle in possession of A Gender

basicly-a-walking-fandom

I’m here to use the toilet not socialise why would I be bothered about anyone else using the loo

linda-belcher

shout out to the girls that hate their bodies but are trying really really hard to find the beauty and comfort in them because that shit is hard and takes a lot of time and is emotionally exhausting. i’m proud of y'all.

micdotcom

Don’t scroll past this. Kylie Armstrong was diagnosed with breast cancer and these small dimples were the only signs. She posted the image on Facebook so everyone knows that “that breast cancer is not always a detectable lump.” Here’s how Kylie is doing today.

(If you’re not sure how to do a self breast exam, instructions can be found at BreastCancer.org.)

rosezeee-deactivated20190929

This could save a life!

cumprise-deactivated20211231

girls need to stop thinking it’s okay to touch another girl inappropriately just because they’re girls I had a girl go up to me and spank me and tell me I had a “fat ass” and I looked at her like she was fucking crazy On god I did not even know her name If it’s disrespectful for a man to do it it’s disrespectful for you to do it too??

minimalmikee

Y'all also gotta learn not to touch guys too. Like it feels mad awkward when girls rub my arms or body out of nowhere.

theamazingpeggycarter

It’s also not cool when gay guys grab my boobs and say “it’s okay, I don’t like girls”.

pastel-pwussy

Basically respect people’s personal fucking space

wolf-of-death-valley

I’ll never not reblog this. I had to quit a job I desperately needed because another girl I worked with would. not. stop. touching. my. ass. I filed a complaint and everything. She was not fired, or even reprimanded. I had my paycheck withheld for months (legal where I lived). Seriously. Don’t touch people without permission, and don’t touch people “familiarly” in that way at work. Not only is it not right, it’s inappropriate in a workplace.

paprikanoir-deactivated20190515

Yes please. Keep your damn hands to your-damn-self.

getfawked120-deactivated2023053

me: i miss [insert name here]

voice in my head: but do they miss u

me: …. good point

basicly-a-walking-fandom

My life

In a tumblr post rn

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bonus:

scumbagsblog

I’ve never seen this with the update and it makes it so much funnier

basicly-a-walking-fandom

Wait

WAIT

long distance wing girl

ashfire05

This. This is true friendship.

basicly-a-walking-fandom

Get me a friend like this

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So when a kid is laying on the floor in a shop screaming u get down to their level n say ohhh noooo darling don't do that pleaaaase that's naughty cmon get up be a good boy or girl. The kids gonna stop n get up lmao. U say if u don't get up right now I'm gonna give ya a whip on the arse..1...2...n I bet they'll get up.

No. You remove your child from the scene (because children are often reacting to overstimulation such as the grocery store is too loud, the room is too bright, there’s people they don’t know around, they’ve been there too long etc) and go somewhere quiet. You then sit with them as they cry, reassuring them that you are present, and once they have stopped crying you offer comfort and ask if they know what it is that they were so upset about. Then you calmly talk to them so they - and you - can understand and fix the problem that was the root of the tantrum.

Bad example;‘Why were you crying?’‘I’m hungry’‘Well we’re going home soon!’

Good example;‘Do you know why you were crying?’‘I’m hungry’ ‘We’re at the grocery store to get food. We only have three more aisles to go. We can count them down together. Then we’ll go home and we can eat.’

Children don’t understand ‘soon’; even for adults, ‘soon’ is a relative term. children understand things like ‘three aisles. Two. One. Now we’re going home!’

Children need communication, understanding and teaching. Not beating, intimidating or belittling.

Get therapy.

altbopsodapop

“You need to beat your kids or threaten them with stuff!” Legit you do not. They are children and they are people. Stop treating them like anything else.