Bear, Prince, and Little Bit

Advice for those who aren't normal

[polyamzeal]

[eternal-fractal]

POLYAM POSITIVITY HELL YEAH

[harvestspriteirl]

Wait are we allowed to use cheating memes to make polyam positivity posts now because if so I’m down to go off

[eternal-fractal]

YOU ARE MORE THAN REQUIRED TO

[iamthebestby2ne1]

[bearsroyals]

Yo same.

[cwote]

When you love, I think it’s better to love with your whole heart than to be safe and reserved. I know it might set you up for getting your heart broken which is no fun, but even if that does happen, at least you know that you gave it your all. If it didn’t work out, it wasn’t your fault because you were brave enough to say, “hey, I love the absolute shit out of you, I hope that’s enough”.

[millennial-review-deactivated20]

[k9alqahtani-deactivated20250413]

Missing someone and not being able to see them is a terrible thing

[paleinthenight]

[whatsnew-lgbtq]

is there a way to tell if your polyamorous??

Im not entirely sure i mean when it hit me that i was polyarm was that my ideal happiness would be to be in a triad relationship becuase i always found it to be boring to be committed to one person when you can have a whole support group. Ive had other polyarm people describe it as a want like you just want to date more people. Another way is playing dating games and becoming increasingly annoyed they wont let you end with more than one option.

[untitled82799]

That last part omg

[valtsv]

being hideous with other people really is an underrated form of intimacy

[valtsv]

just being able to look and act as “unattractive” as you want without worrying about negative attention or the pressure of expectations to do otherwise is so healing

[cheruib]

bold of you to assume i won’t tell you i love you again just because i did ten seconds ago

[bearsroyals]

Let’s be clear

I’ve been in the poly scene for about 5 years now and I want to make something absolutely clear to any old timers and up and comers.

There is NO WAY* to do poly wrong.

Some poly centric communities would have people believe there is only one way to do poly.

These communities are toxic cess pools who exist exclusively for sexual gratification.

That is not what poly is.

If you are uncertain about what poly is, allow me to direct you to the following:

Can you form a romantic bond with more than one individual? Then you are poly

That’s it. That’s the whole thing. Anything beyond that is personal preference and open communication.

* Unless of course you’re not communicating or lying. Then it’s not poly. It’s called cheating. And you’re an asshole.

[ruralpoly]

It really is this simple.

[foxsnoozeisbs]

Its only simple until it’s not… many people use poly interchangeably with the lifestyle and ethical way of being involved in the relationships. In that case, there is a right and wrong way to do poly.

[bearsroyals]

The *only* wrong way to do Polyamory is lying, not communicating, or not taking your partners' or your partners' partners' feelings into account when taking action in a relationship.

If you're avoiding these things, then there is literally no way to do Polyamory wrong.

[polyamory-ponderings]

I don't know if I'm poly. I think I might be. I have a partner and love him very much. But I also desire having a second partner. Ideally it'd be all three of us together instead of me dating both of them but them not dating each other. I'd never want more than two partners. Thing is... I wouldn't want an open relationship shit where we're free to date whoever. I'd want a committed closed relationship with three people. Is this polyamory? Is this okay? Sorry if I said something rude. Thanks

Hi,Yes, this is a form of polyamory. Polyamory comes in many forms, and the one you describe is considered a closed triad. What ever form you want your poly relationships to looklike  is perfectly ok, as long as it’s okay with all your partners.

[polyamory-ponderings]

Hi I wanted to ask a question... I have a boyfriend and he’s a system (he has DID) and so because of how many alters he has and because one of them is dating someone else we are in a polyamorous relationship, so is it ok with polyam people if I call myself polyam? I was also wondering if you had any tips as to how I can be a good partner because I kinda get jealous of having to share my boyfriend with other alters. I just want to be a good boyfriend.

Hi,There is a lot of good information on dealing with jealousy located at:https://www.morethantwo.com/jealousy-insecurity.html

[kindraka]

I really just want a hot bath with a rubber ducky and some bubbles and a warm towel with a cute hood and fuzzy socks and cute pajamas and a cozy bed with a soft blanket and a kiss on the forehead. Is that too much to ask?

[bearsroyals]

Hey, I’m thinking i might be poly, and was wondering how you know? And can I be poly and ace? Also, do you have any good poly positivity blogs to rec?

If you can find yourself loving more than one person romantically at the same time, congrats! You’re poly!

And polyamory has nothing at all to do with sex. Sex just occasionally ties into romance. So being Ace is ACE-OK.

I don’t really tumblr that much, but I will emphasize right now that many poly communities are exceedingly toxic, and push the idea that if you’re not doing it their way you’re doing it wrong. Poly is whatever you want it to be, but is ultimately trust and communication. If your partner is not comfortable with you having partners outside of them, without their involvement, then you DON’T do that. If you can’t communicate in a healthy manner with one partner, how can you with many?That’s my two cents. - Bear

Honestly, poly is a lot more and less complicated than you think. If you think you might be, you more than likely are. But it does take a lot of work. So if you are currently in a relationship that you would like to expand on in some way, please make sure that both you and your partner understand all of the implications of polyamory before pursuing anything further. Communication, just like with any monogamous relationship, is the most important aspect, especially when there are more than just two peoples’ feelings to consider in any decision. Also, polyamory is about emotion and relationships, not sex, so being ace and poly is not only perfectly acceptable, but is also a lot more common than you would think. Additionally, some really good poly blogs I have found are @polyadvice @polyamoryus @polythought ! I hope this helps you! - Kayla

All I have to add is yes absolutely you can be poly and ace. If you're not 100% sure if you're poly, try it and see how it feels but make sure you're communicating with the people you're trying it with. - Charlie

[bearsroyals]

Let’s be clear

I’ve been in the poly scene for about 5 years now and I want to make something absolutely clear to any old timers and up and comers.

There is NO WAY* to do poly wrong.

Some poly centric communities would have people believe there is only one way to do poly.

These communities are toxic cess pools who exist exclusively for sexual gratification.

That is not what poly is.

If you are uncertain about what poly is, allow me to direct you to the following:

Can you form a romantic bond with more than one individual? Then you are poly

That’s it. That’s the whole thing. Anything beyond that is personal preference and open communication.

* Unless of course you’re not communicating or lying. Then it’s not poly. It’s called cheating. And you’re an asshole.

[anenglishwitch]

Reblog if you love black cats and don’t think they’re bad luck

Speaking as an owner of a lovely black cat

[closet-keys]

Underrated form of intimacy: being silly together