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[houndmother]

Consider: it is the healthiest and most normal thing in the world to go to your close friends and loved ones with problems in your friendships and relationships. Not to gossip, not to talk shit, but I go "Hey, me and (x, not related to my current partners) are on the rocks right now, can I talk it out with you?" and then you get input, advice, you get to process your feelings through conversation, then you're probably more equipped to go back to the person and go "hey I've been thinking and processing, I feel xyz."

Two major thoughts here:

Don't let anyone convince you that this type of conversation should only exist in therapy. Your friends and loved ones are there for you. Its called a support system for a reason. Getting advice and comfort is entirely different from talking shit.

If someone gets upset with you for talking about your interpersonal problems with your friends, its worth examining that dynamic. Why are they so worried other people will find out how they're treating you? This isn't like 100% always a bad thing, but like. Consider if there's other parts of the relationship that feel controlled. Consider how listened to and respected you feel, how safe you feel, how independent and free to act you feel.

[thememedaddy]

[beautifulphilosopherbird]

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File under what I wanna be when I grow up

[fuckyeahchinesefashion]

OP: A shopping mall in Shenzhen, Guangdong hosted a flip-flop kicking contest, and some skilled players actually nailed their shots.

(Guangdong’s famous for super laid-back, casual outfits. The region’s sweltering and sticky from spring through summer. If you put on even a tiny bit more layers in hot weather, you’ll end up drenched in sweat and might even get heatstroke. That’s why you’ll hardly spot anyone in formal clothes, no matter what the event is.)

[2022dirt]

Things worn down by people.

[anxeious]

[leolaroot]

? clifford erasure for no reason

[cloghesy]

Chickens on a swing - 2008

[serriform]

[beautifulphilosopherbird]

My friend sent me a long ass link today

And it doesn't even work

[thememedaddy]

[japaneseaesthetics]

A Bronze Koro [Incense Burner]  Muromachi-Momoyama period (16th century) , Japan Cast in two sections and hinged, as a long eared hare looking upward with a bell around its neck 17cm. high .  Christie’s

[beautifulphilosopherbird]

That ND PMS urge to have chickens

[beautifulphilosopherbird]

Mission: do not get distracted Impossible

[beautifulphilosopherbird]

And the sequel

Mission: do not hyperfocus and forget to eat Impossible

[thomasmartinnutt]

György Kepes. Magnetic Fields, 1939

[beautifulphilosopherbird]

I love Magnetic Fields!

[beautifulphilosopherbird]

Mission: do not get distracted Impossible

[chrisfriel]

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