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the black community vs. homophobia.

Completely unrelated to anything sims, but I was scrolling through social media and came across this story about a girl who was exposing this rapper for grooming , manipulating, and abusing her (and allegedly many other minors aged as young as 15 years old). Mind you, she was 17 and he was 26 when their relationship went “public”…and her parents didn’t do anything to intervene…DISGUSTING. She posted all these pictures of the alleged abuse, as well as screenshots of messages where he asked her to purchase a strap-on so she could use it on him. She even goes on to say that this man *allegedly* kidnapped her while she was completely naked (and on her period, mind you) and basically held her hostage with multiple other men present (with guns). I go on YT and see a whole bunch of black (mainly male) YouTubers making videos about it, but the titles aren’t about him being a sadistic pedophile, they’re focusing on the fact that he likes to get pegged….as if that’s the most important thing about the entire situation. One thing that never fails to amaze me in the black community specifically is that a black man can be a pedophile, rapist, thief, murderer, or an abuser, but GOD forbid he wants his g-spot stimulated. God forbid a black man wants to explore his sexuality and sexual preferences in the bedroom. He can be or do anything else, no matter how awful it may be, but getting pegged is where we draw the line….like what? The black community vs. homophobia is something that needs to be studied fr. This girl is literally a victim but mfs are so blinded by the fact the perpetrator likes to get pegged. And to see grown ass black women victim blaming her is the most sickening part of it all. My people are in shackles. 💔

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Think about it. If you assume everything is favorable to you, you will subconsciously assume that your face looks a certain way (ideal face), your life is a certain way (ideal life), and everything is favorable to you (everything “goes your way”). Once you make an assumption, it’s been made, you don’t need to keep making assumptions. You don’t even have to affirm if you don’t want to. When the assumption is made, it’s made. It’s done immediately. It already happened. You have nothing else to do, stop inventing actions to take when there are none. You just need to persist, but by following doubts and wavering and wondering if you have it or not and “trying to assume,” you are making an assumption that EVERYTHING IS UNFAVORABLE.

Consider this— once you make the assumption, don’t keep trying to make it. It’s done. Any positive thoughts that may come up as a result are just a manifestation of this assumption. (This is something I experience personally).