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Love, grief, and magic in the mundane

1- @Bluewmist on Twitter / 2- Roly Poly is Taken on Twitter / 3- About Time (2012) by Richard Curtis, image from Mita Park on Unsplash / 4- Sherri Turner on Twitter / 5- Cold Solace by Anna Belle Kaufman / 6- The Anthropocene Reviewed by John Green

matriioshkaa

searching for friends on tumblr but everyone is an aesthetic girl blogger plotting to give you an eating disorder. what is going on

#this especially when ur looking at x readers #can i get the fic without the misogyny thanks

penpaladinjules

I was SAD so I painted a pony. My friend @dancingspirals named him Sir Chunkerton of Dunbutt.

#woah x5 horsey

beesbaries

Squiggle dividers that match Tumblr’s default text colors —

beesbaries

I wanted smth that matched!! no need to cred if used, hope other ppl like them <3

#these are what i use at the end of most posts!!! big fan :3 #<- happy 2 hear that!!! tysm!!!

I need to get okay w/ writing stuff and it not being perfect & amazing and still standing by it. Oh, the cringe-free behavior of my youth…

#bees buzz

kurulover

I hate that when you’re stressed enough your body just starts falling apart. I think it should realize you’re already stressed and don’t need that and start functioning better actually

sycamorality

op disabled reblogs but i really wanted this post on my blog again

#me with uhhh the vast majority of things

calciumcryptid

I feel like a lot of people get "All Art is Political" confused with "All Art is made with Political Intentions" which is not the same.

beesbaries

This!! I used to be very anti-“All Art is Political” until I took an art appreciation class where my professor *actually* explained that it means that all art is influenced by the political context of that time/place/era/author/etc. not “All art is made with political intent.”

#A lot of stuff i’ve learned in college has taught me that if everyone took one art appreciation class and one intro to english class #we could eradicate 80% of online discourse.#This realization has only made me that much angrier at the cost of education. I’m not even mad at people anymore #I’m just sad.

rhinco

i love you semicolon. no one look at my 80 word sentence

#they sent me to the semi colon store and i came back broke as hell #this hits hardest when writing my end of year final. Yep.

chipper-smol

the realization that the unhealthy trait you’ve given your favorite oc for funsies is actually something you unintentionally do is like watching a five year old innocently and perfectly mimic your bad habits

#worse version of this is when you’re reading an angsty AU of a character you like #and said character does something that’s frankly completely normal to do actually and than the other characters are like oh my god noooo #why would you do that you’re so sad you’re so sick in the head how could u think that’s reasonable #like now i’m sitting here like but it is. it is reasonable #It’s completely normal and reasonable actually #fuck you

cuunos

being a kid and hearing adults say stuff like "woah 2011 was 4 years ago haha" didn't really convey the fucking horror of a youtube video crossing my recommended labelled "9 years ago" and it's from 2017. that's not true. 9 years ago is 2010 or something. don't lie.

baraphalloplastyclinic

I actually do think we should discourage women from becoming housewives. Do not become financially dependent on a man. That's how a lot of women ended up dead over the years. A man gets violent suddenly and you have to choose between homelessness or potentially dying at his hand because you have an enormous gap in your resume and no degrees or certifications or anything that will help you pursue a career that will allow you to be financially independent. He owns your bank account. His name is probably the one on the car. Try and leave and he can report it stolen. Where will you go then?

Don't become a housewife.

ladyfoxfire

And if you do become a housewife, take steps to protect yourself. Make sure you’re legally married, for starters; stay-at-home girlfriends have very little legal recourse to claim their partner’s assets in a breakup. Make sure your name is on the house deed/rental agreement, and have your car in your name, even if your spouse is paying for it. Have your spouse transfer money every month into an account solely in your name, so you can buy yourself things without needing permission, but also so you can save up to leave if needed.

If your spouse fights you on any of this, then don’t quit your job. The tradwife to poverty pipeline is real, and so is financial abuse.

dressedupliketheking

also, many women/people experience controlling behaviour and domestic violence from their partner for the first time during pregnancy. don’t risk thinking “he’s just stressed, it’ll get better when the baby comes” because it won’t. neither you and your child will ever be safe with that man. get out as early and safely as you can

writingdose

I am once again begging people to realize that AI checker doesn’t work. it’s never worked. it’s notoriously known to have flagged human-made works as AI and AI-generated works as human-made. and by feeding it people’s works, you are feeding more works to AI, because apparently the machine itself is AI.

the only thing AI checker does is harm genuine artists and people in general too.