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REBLOG IF YOU'RE A SEX WORKER

Please reblog if you are any of the following: stripper, sugar baby, cam girl, pro dom/sub, escort, fin dom, or any other form of sex work.

Tumblr is my oasis of fellow sex workers in an ocean of SWERFS, men’s rights activists, and other sorts of idiots that believe sex work is demeaning.

I want to follow all of my fellow ladies/gents that make a living in sex work. I want to be there for newbies - to teach them safety tricks and tips; I want to be there to congratulate a veteran on a great night, or support someone who maybe didn’t have such a good day. And I want to be available to listen to a fellow sex worker vent about a shitty client/experience.

So, if you can take a moment to reblog this, I promise I will follow you, and then be there if you ever want a new stripper friend.

sugar4life

Non-glamorous Sugaring Stuff

A list of things that you may not think about when entering the bowl but really should consider. He will smell. Dog shit breath. Body odor. Stinky balls. Something will smell.

He is married even if he is single. 99% of good SDs are married. So don’t go into the bowl thinking you can get a good, single man to give you lots of money. It likely won’t happen that way. Even if they don’t come right out and say it; they are married. No ring? Married. Doesn’t talk about wife? Married. Seems to travel a lot? Married to a unlucky lady. I find that the unmarried ones tend to be the biggest womanizers, douchebags and assholes. They want a SB out of lazy-ass convenience or lack of social aptitude. Married men want a SB because they don’t get it enough at home or their marriage just isn’t working any longer OR because they do travel a lot and figure why not get some side chick action. Different area codes and such.

He will be old. Very old. And only mildly attractive (if you are lucky). He will be from a different generation. His looks will be fading. He will have at least a few wrinkles (face, balls, legs, back, hands, wherever). There may be a 2-4 generation gap between the two of you. The hot, young, nice, good-hearted, generous types just aren’t trolling the sugar sites regularly and likely aren’t going to be actively searching for an allowance based relationship. You may score a hot, young, rich guy by freestyling but expect to work even harder to get actual money out of him and he will be a boyfriend NOT a SD.

Body hair, everywhere. Older men tend to not be up on the grooming trends of younger men. They will have hairy chests, hairy backs, hairy butts, hairy knuckles, hairy toes, hairy ears, hairy nose holes and so much pubic hair that you won’t be able to see his balls. And don’t even think about suggesting he trim it down or shave. He can’t. His wife will wonder why he suddenly cares about his hairy balls and back. Then he will have to end the arrangement out of fear of his wife finding out.

He has problems. And you have to listen to them. Part Most of being a sugar baby is to be his escape. If he needs to vent about work, the wifey, his kids, his latest doctor visit then you need to sit there and at least pretend to listen/care. That’s the deal.

You get have to travel with him. I have been to some amazing places with some of my SDs. I get to see the world, stay in beautiful hotels, eat delicious local cuisine and I get paid to do all of it. The only thing that would make it better is if my SD disappeared from the equation and a cute guy appeared or my friends or my family or even a coworker I don’t really like but could still chill on a beach with. Or hell, even if I was there alone it would be better than being stuck with him 24 hours a day, for 4 or 5 days straight PLUS travel time. But I still go because, you know, money and free trips and shit.

You aren’t allowed to have problems. Outside of gently suggesting that you don’t have money for rent or whatever, you don’t have problems. You don’t have friend drama. You don’t have coworkers you hate. You don’t have anxiety. You can only have a “problem” every once in a while and that problem better damn well be able to be fixed with money. He can fix money-based problems without batting an eye but your emotional shit needs to be checked at the door. (Note: When you have been with an SD for a substantial amount of time you can slowly share more of your non-money problems but you have to gauge how much interest he truly has in them to keep him from thinking of you as another wife-type)

He may be very boring. The longer you are around him the less interesting he will seem. There is usually a reason he has to pay women for company.

He may be the opposite of boring. He will have insane energy and keep you entertained but you should expect to need a day or two to recover from your energy-draining SD.

THE MONEY WILL NEVER BE ENOUGH. Starting out you think $3k/mo is enough. After a year, $5k/mo is barely enough. In a few years you will KNOW that even 100k/day isn’t really enough to put up with these guys.

It will be a constant mental struggle between spend and save. Even those of us who save like crazy still have thoughts of “spend spend spend”. You have money. You save it. You have more money than you need to save. But if you keep saving you can buy better things later. But right now that awesome Chanel bag is calling your name. But, no, later is better. Later is a house.

Once you really do become a SB, leaving the life forever will be difficult. Once you get into the groove, the job gets easier because you learn to deal with the negatives and quitting a lucrative, easy job is never easy. Plus, you can technically do this job forever. This can be your career. You can be a kept woman and live a fancy life forever as long as you give up a few other dreams. But right now you must work hard for it.

Your schedule doesn’t REALLY matter. Sure, you schedule around your own activities as much as possible but when push comes to shove you WILL cancel movie night with the girls, call off work, or skip a pool party if it means you can keep your SD around longer.

Tired? Sick? Tough shit. You still need to smile, be flirty and “enjoy” his company. I guarantee HE will show up for dates with a runny nose and a sore back because he only gets a few chances to get away from the wife and there is no way in hell he is missing play time because of the flu. Expect them to expect the same commitment from you.

It is a full time job. I repeat, it is a FULL TIME JOB. Until you have a good number of proven/established/long-term SDs who are surpassing your minimum allowance needs and you are saving like a madwoman, then you can’t really sit back and relax. Since they can leave you at any time you have to keep going on those terrible dates and keep researching new guys. It takes a long time to truly be secure enough in current arrangements to be able to stop doing this completely. Don’t expect to be “that lucky girl” who found a sugar husband after a week of trying.

The odds are not in your favor. My guess is for every 100 contacts you make on dating sites, 20 of them will actually turn into sugar-potential dates and only 2 of those will become POT material guys and maybe 1 of those will become an SD.

SDs are not built to last. You went on tons of dates, did the legwork, and now are getting your desired allowance from a nice SD. IF he lasts past two months, good. IF he lasts past 4 months, great. IF he actually lasts close to or beyond a year then he really is a good SD and you can consider yourself to be truly lucky. Being with him will be embarrassing, like, all the time. People will stare. They will wonder if he is your lover/boss/father/grandfather. Walking to hotel rooms with him will be awkward as fuck. Every. Single. Time. Oh, and just wait until he wants to hold your hand or kiss you in public. Be prepared to be the center of unwanted attention everywhere you go. But if you can get past all of these things and still manage to find and lockdown a few good SDs, save your money and maintain your sanity then you will be on your way to financial freedom. It takes hard work but so do most good things in life.

Payment Methods

All of these comments about these payment methods are MY OPINIONS. Many ladies have differing opinions and may prefer or even outright not accept some payment methods and that is FINE. Many choose not to use Paypal especially, and that is valid. I choose to take it because of ease of use, and it's very common for buyers to already have one.

I cannot say without a doubt that you will not have money held up, have money withdrawn/ lost, or account shut down using these methods. But from my research, experience and experiences of other reputable sellers, I think these methods greatly reduce the chance of losing the money/ account.

Paypal: PAYPAL IS NOT SEX WORKER FRIENDLY. What this means is if they find out your are using Paypal for adult transactions like selling nudes, xxx videos, panties etc, they will shut the account down, return all money (or at least the $ that tipped them off to the rule breaking), and possibly even ban any card or bank account from being attached to a new Paypal. So use with caution. Here is the method I use to greatly reduce the risk of this happening.

1. Have a fake Paypal, with your 'work' name, sign up with an email not used for anything else (I recommend not putting in any part of your real name or anything sexy. I personally use an email with a mans name to cut down on it. [email protected] can be kinda suspicious.) Get a paypal.me link, and send this out to buyers. Some without the app or in other countries may need the actual e-mail, which as far as I know is not any more risky than the .me link. The link is just easier and you can also put the amount in so they can't try and get one over on you. (Paypal.me/yourname/20 means the $20 will already be filled in.) Also make sure they leave the Notes section BLANK or something like "For lunch" or some other non sexy thing. A note saying "For your sexy tit pics" will get you shut down in a hot second. Most buyers don’t know all this, so BEFORE you send the link/ email, tell them to please send as Friends and Family, notes section blank or with whatever you want them to say.

2. Your real Paypal should be as legit as possible. Use it to buy things, take money from friends paying you back this way, try and get other accounts besides your fake SW account to send money. My real Paypal is a business account, and has that I model. That way I can take payment from one Paypal account (my fake) and send it to my bank every night and not be too suspicious. Also come tax season this should help, but I just started this in April so not for sure on that part.

3. Once the money is in the fake account, immediately move that money (via Friends and Family ofc) to your real Paypal before sending content. This shows they sent it friends and family, and that there is no hold for any other reason on their end. This way, even if they dispute it (this can happen MONTHS down the line!) or your account is shut down for SW, as far as I know, they cannot then take that money out of your real Paypal. Worst case scenario is your fake account is now in the hole. Toss, make a new email and new fake Paypal, and resume.

So TL; DR - Make a fake Paypal w fake name NOT attached to ANY card or bank. Take only as Friends and Family with nothing sexual or about pics or vids in the notes section. Send to real PP. Never let money sit in either account.

Google Wallet I accept GW, but personally not a huge fan. Often times when this has been the first method, and we have tried it, they (the buyer) cannot find my email, have trouble sending. So then I need THEIR email, and send a request. I have never once had a request go smoothly, and end up cancelling, and 9/10 times end up having to use a different method. Many ladies love it, I have always had problems with it. One pro is that it is moved to your bank card almost immediately so if you do take payment it is spendable almost right away. Con: I do not know their dispute policy or how hard they are on SW (although I knwow it against their ToS) so there is the possibility of them pulling money off your card or having the account in the hole. Also, if you have a failed international payment, they require you to give full name and fully verify yourself to keep using it. So then you have to make a new one because I sure as shooting and giving none of that to them. I haven't used it enough to know much more about it. I've had it work a total of ONE TIME in 6 months or so, and while I offer it, I much prefer Paypal or the next one, Square.

Square Cash/ Cash app (in non US countries) So in all honesty, Square COULD be my preferred method, but there are a few annoying things that bug me about it. So Square is super fast for me. Some of this may depend on bank, but I have made a sale in line at a store, and used the money they sent <5 minutes later. GW may be that fast, idk. But Square for me is hella quick. Pretty similar to GW except the link you send. So the link you send for Square is cash.me/$yourname Can be fake, whatever. BUT on Kik, after the / it is no longer underlined and is no longer a link. I have not messed with it enough to know a workaround or if there is something on my phone or Kik settings to change it. It's just a small annoyance that buyers get pissy about, and they say the link doesn't work. It does, you just have to actually copy paste it. OR if they want your name, they have to search $yourname, if you do not put the dollar sign, they cannot find you. Trying to explain that yes you do exist, and they are just doing it incorrectly is maddening. Again, I usually just say Paypal instead. Also now SW friendly, and not sure of their dispute policy.

US Amazon gift cards: Gift cards are one of the safest ways to take payment. As far as I know, they cannot be disputed or have that money taken away. There are limitations as in "I need cash rn for food" or a bill that is due. Personally, I have never accepted over $25 in gc because while I do usually have things I want, I much prefer money in my bank to spend it where I need it. As much of my money goes into savings for when Im not making sales. But to take gift cards, I have them buy it and send to my work e-mail. I confirm it by inputting the 16 digit code and adding the money to my account BEFORE SENDING CONTENT. Drawback to this method is I feel you get the most guys trying to scam. They will either send you the 16 digit code via Kik (which has already been claimed), or take/ fake screenshots saying they sent it. This is why I require them to purchase a new e-card and send it directly to my email. I also take Starbucks gift cards this way. Gift cards do NOT have to be sent to the e-mail that is associated with the account. So even with the code being sent to my work e-mail, I can still redeem it if logged into my real Amazon or Starbucks account.

bitcoin: So without going too much into it, bitcoin is a digital currency that can be bought and sold, and has a differing exchange rate that goes up and down similar to stock. One whole bitcoin (at his writing) is worth approx $4,500 USD. So .1 bc is worth $450, .01 is worth $45 etc. I currently have .0408 bc, which at this time is worth $187 USD. So if I sold that amount I would almost that much. I use Coinbase which charges $1.99 USD for a transaction. And then could put that money in the bank. Pros to this. You give out your "wallet address" which has absolutely no name or identifying info AT ALL. Cannot be refunded or faked to my knowledge. You also receive no information about them. For all intents and purposes, anonymous as it's going to get. People buying stuff off the deep web/ dark net use it. Just saying. Cons: Takes slightly longer than most methods to receive. But many guys using this method are being reaaaally low key so wifey or whoever doesn't see odd transactions on their Paypal or credit card. Also, once you sell the bitcoin and send it to your bank, it takes 5-10 business days to be 'spendable' in your bank. Not a fast method by any means. I choose to accept it because personally I'm a nerd. It's fun. I check it most days and if it has spiked, I will sell some, leave the money there, and rebuy it when it is much cheaper. And thereby increasing profits even more.

Circle: Great for US to UK transactions. I accept it but dont offer it as payment method anymore.

Venmo: Owned by Paypal. Have used it 2 times and it is not user freindly. I tbh, dont even really accept it.

Gift Rocket: I have never used this, although Ive heard it's pretty safe. Ive never had a guy say "Anyone have Gift rocket?" Just doesn't seem feasible for me at this time.

So in conclusion. With the right knowledge, Paypal can be worth the reduced risk for some. Square is fast but annoying for my needs. Google Wallet is meh. Gift cards are awesome if you dont need the cash right that second or buy lots of things online. bitcoin is slow but fun and can increase profits over time.

If you have used this method for Paypal and have somehow lost money, got scammed, or somehow this method could be improved, please let me know!

Also, if you are more knowledgeable on the Square or GW issues I have, also, I would love to know what you did to make these methods a better option :)

#sexwork #paypal #googlewallet #square #cashapp

How to start selling nudes etc on Kik!

Part 1: Finding groups to sell in When I first started Kik, all I knew is there were groups where the admins were ladies selling their content, and my first run was a waste of almost a month and probably 50+ hours of time for literally NO SALES. Hoping to help out those who want to skip that and be successful with as little time wasted as possible!

Option 1 So one way to get started is to search for groups using sell, sale, pic, video, etc as a keyword and join a group. Look for groups that don't say "Buyers only", they are definitely not accepting sellers. Once joining, I immediately post "Are you accepting sellers? I can verify" and just generally be polite. Don't join and post "I'm a seller, any buyers" or any type of ad. Most groups have verification process for sellers so to be taken seriously, it's best to wait until someone responds.

You will usually get one of 4 responses. 1. Someone may immediately kick you. Don't take it personally, many very active groups do not have time to say they aren’t accepting sellers all day. Reaction 2. An admin may tell you 'Sorry, we aren’t currently accepting sellers" so you just say okay, thank you and leave the group. 3. They say "Yes, we are! Please message <so and so> to verify." Great! Try and be punctual and message the correct person, and verify pretty quickly. Once verified, they should make you admin. 4. You may not get a response at all. In that case, check and see how many admins are there. If its 4 or less, it may be a dead/ abandoned group and I would leave. If there are 5-15 admins, and you don't get a response in a few hours, you could message the owner (admin with the green crown) and ask politely if they are accepting sellers. If no response in a day, assume the group is inactive and just leave.

Option 2 Another way to find groups is to check social media (Twitter, Instagram, tumblr, reddit, etc) and search the tags for #kik #sellinggroups #nudeselling etc and see if you can find a group owner advertising openings in their groups. I've never searched this way, so I don't know how helpful this may be but I post my groups to Twitter so you may find a group using this method.

Option 3 This would work best if you already have a following on Twitter, tumblr, Instagram, Snapchat etc. You could advertise that you are looking to start selling on Kik and ask any group owners with openings to message you. I haven't used this method either but being pro-active and using this in conjunction with the other methods and you should have a few groups with in a day or two!

I suggest starting with 3-5 groups at first. Until you have the individual buyer verification process and your wording down, being in more than 5 is probably going to be overwhelming unless you are SUPER familiar wth Kik. There are lots of terms and acronyms for Kik and specifically for selling groups (Part 5) so learning those will also be helpful.

Part 2: General etiquette I feel like this is much more personal, and you may disagree with some of this, and everyone's personalities are different and sometimes can clash. But in general, when in the group chat, be polite and courteous to everyone that comes in the chat. Say hello, but don’t be afraid to ask for their age, ask if they are looking to buy, or ask them to verify with you or whatever the rules are for that group. If their profile pic is a woman, they may be a seller, a male parading as a lady (explained below), or even a buyer! I simply ask if they are a buyer or seller, and respond appropriately. If anyone responds that they are not a buyer, I just remove them. If they respond that they are any age under 18, I remove them, put why, AND block them from messaging me.

If there is a disagreement between sellers, that's when I generally advise either messaging them or contacting the owner of the group to discuss. Many type of disagreements come up, so I won't list all those possibilities here. But in general, keeping the least amount of drama, bad mouthing etc OUT of group chat is the best option. It's bad for business for you and for any seller in that group. I also try not to talk bad about other sellers in sellers only chats either. I have had a few run ins and public situations with buyers. It's unprofessional, I hate that it happened, but I try to keep my cool. Also, don't talk about someone else's looks. Just don't. It's catty and makes you look shallow and imo, unintelligent. This includes other sellers (be supportive!!) and dick pics. You will get them, but seriously there is no need to waste your time and energy by re-posting and then making fun of some dude's dick.

Part 3: How to interact with buyers So, you found a few groups. Now what? Some groups have different specifications, but generally more than 4 "I'm selling" or graphic ads a day is consider spam. I post my graphic ad 2-3 times a day per group, and possibly 1 or 2 text ads of "I'm an active seller" if the group is active and lots of new verified buyers. I know of NO groups where messaging a buyer is accepted. DO NOT DO IT. If they are verified and they want to buy, they will message you. If you've exchanged words with a potential buyer in the group chat, saying "Well I have lots to offer, DM me if you're interested" is generally acceptable. Once in PMs, if you know they are verified, then you can start working on a deal. If not, ask them to verify and if they verify, then discuss.

Next is the topic of seller re-verification and previews. I am happy to send a verified potential buyer a Live pic of my face only, if asked, to show it matches my profile pic and any graphic ad I have. It's up to you to decide if you want to take the time. As a new seller, it is hard to tell who is worth sending a Live pic too, but you will pick up on it quickly enough. I highly recommend it, especially for new sellers who may not be able to rely on satisfied buyer reviews etc. Building rapport and trust is important and usually worth the few seconds. The second thing you will be asked for a lot is a preview. Knowing a little bit of what they are buying is completely fair to ask for. I send them my graphic ad that has different parts of my body, enough for them to get my size, skin color etc. Both of these legitimate things can quickly turn into the dreaded FREEBIES. Freebies are a no-no and hurts both you and other sellers. If they want a Live full-body pic, ask $2-5 to show they are legit. If they demand a nude or are otherwise clearly trying to get other freebies, they are not a buyer but a dreaded TIME WASTER. (See Part 4) Giving freebies makes them think they can get freebies from others therefore wasting other sellers time. And they now have free wank material and won't be buying from you or anyone else. They will say they will buy after. They won't. Ever.

So, they are legit and seem like a serious buyer. To get the ball rolling, I send my daily deal graphic and/or ask what they are looking to buy. They may reply with types of content (nudes, videos, Live chat/ cam2cam, Skype) or with a genre (looking for anal, squirting, femdom, feet, smoking). If you sell whatever they are looking for, the deal usually moves to pricing and payment methods pretty easily. If you don't offer cam2cam, skype, panties etc then you say, sorry, I don't offer <whatever> but my DMs are always open if you're ever in the market for anything else off my menu! If they don't buy but generally seem legit, I delete the chat. I only keep chats from people who have bought from me personally. If they are a TW, I block so they cannot bother me at a later time.

Often they may not have anything specific in mind, so this is where you can get into the hard sell a bit. Upsell, tell them you specialize in <whatever>. What nude set are you super proud of, what video did you really rock it in, anything that has sold well on other platforms. Now is the time to impress them. And they love to feel like you can wheel and deal, and you know your strengths and how to capitalize on that. Be flirty, offer a package bundle deal, offer custom, whatever you think can seal it.

So you gave agreed on a deal. There are many (probably 15+) common payment methods, all with their pros and cons. I accept Google Wallet, Square, Circle, Paypal, US Amazon gift cards, and bitcoin. All these (and many more) have been discussed in many other blogs so it's up to you to research and decide what you will accept. I do suggest having at least 2 payment options available, and possibly signing up for more to be able to accept more sales as you go. Once they send payment, make sure you confirm you have received it! This means receiving an e-mail from that company saying you have money, and if you have the app, double-checking there as well. They may send fake screenshots or other bullshit (Part 4) to get freebies.

Once you have confirmed a payment, then it's time to send! [Sometimes Paypal may take 10-20 minutes. bitcoin takes usually 30. GW and Square take less than 5]. I send nudes through the app, and my pre-recorded videos I have uploaded to Google Drive so I can easily send the link where they can download it. You've done it, you sold some content! Yeay! :D Make sure to thank them, tell them you're DMs are always open to regulars, and to follow you on whatever social media you use to sell.

Part 4: How to deal with time wasters, scammers and other douche bagels Sadly, 90% of the 'buyers" you will interact with will be time wasters (or TW). I use the umbrella term TW to include: Minors, those who won't verify, only wanting freebies, wanting to trade nudes (often guys with a woman as their profile pic sending you stolen nudes of other women), unable or unwilling to pay, dick pic senders, scammers (those that say they have sent payment but actually haven't), low-ballers (offering what is clearly an unacceptable amount for a product), hecklers ("Why would I pay for this when I can get it for free?!"), and name-callers (Why would anyone buy from you, you're fat/ugly/ have small tits/ etc etc). If they are clearly a time waster right off the bat, I MAY send a snappy comeback and block, but often times I just block and move on. The more time you spend with these turds, the less time you have to spend with serious buyers. :)

Part 5: Common terms and acronyms Ad: A text or graphic advertisement showing you are an active and online seller. See also preview.

Admin: Anyone in a group with a crown on their picture in the member's list of a group. They can remove and ban non-admin buyers only.

Adult content: Any media or physical items of an adult nature. Includes nudes, xxx and fetish videos, Live pictures, Live video chat, Skype, phone sex, sexting/ roleplay, used or 'dirty' clothing such as panties or socks, femdom, and erotica.

Ban: To ban someone from a group chat where they cannot come back. Each room only has 100 'blocks', use sparingly.

Block: To prevent that person from messaging you. If they are in a group chat with you, you will see "Blocked message" when they write, but they can still see what you post in chat.

Cam2cam: Any platform where you and the buyer can see each other. On Kik, generally means Live video chat. It is the small video camera in the upper right corner of any chat.

DM: Direct message. This is a private chat between 2 people where no one else can see what is being discussed. See also PM.

Gallery picture: A picture taken using the phone's camera at a previous time. These generally cost less than Live pictures.

Group chat: A group on Kik like a chat room where all members can see what has been posted, and who has entered or left the group.

Group picture: The picture at the top of the group. Is often a sexy picture or the rules laid out in text for selling groups.

Kick: To remove someone from a group where they can rejoin or be invited back. Live picture: A Live picture is taken using the in-app camera, the second button on the bottom. If a picture is Live, it will say 'Camera' under it. If it does NOT say that, it is a gallery picture and is not acceptable for verification. Live pictures generally cost more than gallery pictures.

Lurking: Watching what is being posted in the group without speaking. May be a potential buyer to watch for ads being posted and to see how a seller interacts with people. Can also be admin/ owner just making sure everything is kosher.

Member list: All the members of a group. Can be found by entering a group, then clicking the name of the group. Gold crowns mean admin, green crown means owner.

Menu: A price list of what you offer and the starting prices, many do not include a preview pic. Very basic visually but more encompassing then a preview ad. Rarely posted to group chat.

Offerings: Any type of adult content you personally have for sale.

Owner: Or head admin, has a green crown. They either created the group, or the original owner left the group to them. They are the only person who can remove admins, and change the group picture.

PFP: Profile picture, the round picture that is next to your posts. Make it super sexy so it catches the buyers eye!

PM: Private message, also called DM

Preview: A sexy but censored picture of you, usually has some text with info about offerings and may have basic pricing. Some groups do not allow ANY pricing info on your preview if it is going to be posted in the group chat. Ask the whoever verified you for rules on what is allowed in your public ad.

Regular: A repeat buyer or someone who has bought from multiple ladies. Treat these guys like kings!! You want these guys around!

Remove: Same as kick.

TW: Time waster, or anyone who can't or won't buy.

UA: Under age, someone under 18 who it is illegal to sell or give porn to, a minor

Part 5: Other tips and tricks Don't give freebies. Ever. It will not increase sales and often hinders the business of other sellers.

Keep your attitude and mouth in check as much as possible. It will happen. You will blow up at an idiot time waster. You will have a cat fight with another seller. With strong ladies and idiot men being all over, you will be stressed. And chances are at some point someone will get the worst of you. Try your best to make up with any seller in a group, or if you keep having words with the same seller, it may be best to leave the group.

Be patient. Even with this and any other reading, it may take a few weeks to get the hang of verifying, selling, and be noticed. Frequent buyers tend to have high standards and may be lurking to get your personality and see if you seem legitimate. If after 20 weeks you have little to no interest and no sales, it may be time to ask other sellers what they think about your pricing, ads, and communication.

If you are not comfortable with a deal, don't do it. If you aren't okay with showing your face, or any other body part, or accepting a certain payment method, DON'T. Trust your gut. If a guy seems off and you get that little red flag, something is probably off. This is a good example of what you can talk about in 'sellers only' chats, to ask if something seems legit.

It's okay to be somewhat flexible on pricing, especially 'in bulk'. I have a daily deal (usually themed like all squirting, feet, custom etc content at a discount price) and I am willing to make a serious buyer a bundle deal. Generally a bundle is 10-20% off what the items would cost separately, as long as they are spending $30 or more. [Exact pricing up to you, ofc] But also be firm on what the lowest is you will take. That may mean you have to walk way from a sale. And that sucks. Especially if you haven't sold that day, week, or ever. But you put time, effort and love into that content and into promo and dealing with non-buyers. You are worth it! If they say they can't pay that much, you can either try and haggle and make them a compromised deal. Or say I'm sorry, I can't accept an offer that low. But thank you for your interest. Unless they are SUPER rude about pricing, I have had a number of "I cant afford that rn" guys come back next paycheck and buy. If they wander into "Well I bought 10 nudes for this price from some other girl" territory, that's when it's bye-bye time.

The pricing info is all my personal opinion, and from my personal experience and from a few others who have shared their pricing with me. I feel like a realistic price for those starting out is Gallery nudes $2-3 each, Live nudes $3-4, Videos $1-3/ min, Fetish videos $4-5/min, custom videos $3-5/ minute, Live chat $3-4 min, Sexting $2/ min, Skype $4/ min. You will see many sellers selling at $5-6/ nude, $5-10/ min for Live, sexting, Skype and customs. Or even more. Set your prices high enough so you don't seem like a scammer or have crap quality, but also not so high that you don't get any messages. I also take into account ease/ if I like doing it. I love taking nudes, making pre-recorded videos, and LOOOOVE custom videos. I'm not so keen on cam2cam, sexting, and Live chat. So I set the things I love to do a tad lower, and the things I'm not in love with a tad higher. You can adjust your prices as you go on, or even by individual buyer.

I hope this guide has helped you get started. Feel free to leave any other tips from those who already sell, or leave me any questions and I can try and help you out :)

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NefariousKinks Etsy Shop Summer Giveaway!

As a special thanks to everyone for their support its time for another giveaway. So here is your chance to win any 1 paddle that I have listed on my etsy.

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Likes and reblogs count as entries and winner selected and announced Aug 1st.

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Good luck!