Bensattva

45, Hetero Male, BDSM, DD/lg, D/s images 18+ If you have any questions or comments then please do ask. Send submissions. 

[senseitive]

Don’t disconnect with yourself in order to connect with someone

[reald0pe-deactivated20241124-de]

[madam-set]

[yournymphetamine]

THE LITERAL BEST, PLEASE AND THANK YOU 

[bensattva-blog]

This is me all day

[yournymphetamine]

A taste of what can be found on my OnlyFans site! 

https://onlyfans.com/yournymphetamine

[abouttheseprettythings]

“Your vulnerability inspires sadism.”

— Henry Miller, from a letter to Anaïs Nin featured in A Literate Passion: Letters Of Anaïs Nin & Henry Miller (1932 - 1953)

[theropegeek-deactivated20170722]

all text and layout by me

and to clarify:  i’m well aware that the women of tumblr are more than capable of speaking for themselves.

my hope was merely to take what I understand about their plight, 

and present it in a concise/humorous fashion with the hope of getting that message to more people.  

-RG

[rippedjeanseyesofgreen-deactiva]

This. ❤️ Thank you, @theropegeek! 💋

[inkisart2me]

Dittoooo ☝🏻👆🏻💋❤️

[lovestuff345]

To good not to post 👍🏻❤️

[thecheftc-deactivated20200529]

ALL OF THIS!!! YEAHHHH!!

[spunkeybrewster-deactivated2020]

Amazing. You sir win the internets.

[reconing666-deactivated20180115]

I just want to explain something to everyone. Most men respect women and they would never do anything like that. Unfortunately we have quite a few perverts on Tumblr and it makes it bad for everybody and I am so sorry that you women have to go through this.

[klittlebaby-deactivated20230227]

need more ddlg/daddy blogs to follow reblog and i’ll check your blog out 💓✨🐷🌸🎀

[littlebbpoohbear]

How to care for a little with anxiety (edited)

General help

constant reassurance

don’t ask why they’re apologizing, just say “it’s okay baby”

make sure they’re alright and they know you care

help them breathe through panic/anxiety attacks

tell them that they’re okay, you have them

try your hardest not to raise your voice at them

During a panic/anxiety attack

simple questions to ask:

is it okay to touch?

is something around us bugging you

do you want one of your little things? 

stuffy, paci, sippy/bottle, teether, blanky, etc.

make sure they’re physically comfortable

not too warm or too cold, sitting in a comfortable position, you’re not too close or too far.

ask if there’s anything they need from you

stay calm yourself

don’t get upset with them, they cant help it

keep your voice calm

Questions to ask your little to help with grounding during dissociation or an attack (for LDR or over the phone/text)

ask them what clothes they’re wearing

ask them what colors they’re clothes are

ask them what things are around them:

how many windows, doors, tables, lights, etc, are there around you?

ask them what colors are around them

ask them what they can smell or hear

Remember that we’re all here for you and you’re not alone! If your caregiver isn’t around, you can always talk to your little friends, or if you don’t have any, you can talk to me! @wolfy-n-tiny

Credit to @carrotkisses for some of the material on this list! they left a very wonderful comment on the original post that inspired me to add to it.

[daddys-little-ice-dragon]

I need these long distance tips… Just in cases…

[lovepublic-deactivated20181217]

It has been an honor to make you cum 💦😢

Love you all! ❤️❤️

Reblog this. It may make a difference🤞🏼

[hugebeartx]

Damn so many friends and so much cum! What are we gonna do?

[brainlessnikki]

Im so glad I could make so many people cum!

[bensattva-blog]

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Join a supportive chat for Dom/Sub (Dd/Lg, Dd/Lb, Md/Lg, Md/Lb), BDSM, Littles/Middles, and many that are still exploring who they are.

Safe space for littles, and a great place to meet other people with similar interests :)

If you join make sure to say hi to owner @trulyenticing (aka Sawyer)

Server Name: Haven (* Age requirement is 18+ *)

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Haven is strictly an 18+ server and is not intended for hookups

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[dominantlife]

If I can get an adult version of something kinda like Tumblr up and running, would you guys be interested?

Mostly same features but with extra features like…

No bullying.

No kids.

No one under 18.

Stronger blocking tools.

All the female associated nipples you can handle.

Please let me know and PLEASE SPREAD THE WORD!!!

[dominantlife]

All genders and orientations would be welcomed.

More like Tumblr and less like Fet.

[fae-kisses-deactivated20201120]

Yeeeees!

[enscenic]

Go on…

[the-new-sysco-deactivated201812]

I’m interested

[naughtychef6969]

Go on …

[mymmm]

Run with it! Sound idea

[dangerouswomanxxx-deactivated20]

Yes please!!

[thealphawithin-deactivated20230]

Reblog this.

[crusoesampersand]

More like Tumblr and less like Fet? Sign me up!

[belfast62]

Agreed! @crusoesampersand….. Tried Fet once, scared the beejeesus out of me…..

[auroradragon1]

@crusoesampersand keep me informed! 

[sweet-but-spicy-girly-deactivat]

i’m in

[itsallprimal]

Let us know how we can help

[dominantlife]

For now, get the word out! I have the domain registered and the corporate site. I will reveal them here once they have propagated and I have something for you guys to see.

[prettylilredhead]

Absolutely

[streetdoc15]

For sure!!!

[sutherngent66-deactivated202005]

Absolutely

[yessiraustralia-again]

I’m keen

[girlfrommydreamsofyou-deactivat]

Yes yes yes!

[snowsongs91]

Absolutely!

[little-kitten-lotti]

Yesssssssssssssssss GO @dominantlife

[sarahschlacter-blog]

[bensattva-blog]

Favorite Adult toy, favorite position, favorite sandwich? You did ask for random questions...

My favorite adult toy right now is a double motor cordless magic wand from Evolved that has an Insertable handle end that vibes...position: prone bone....sandwich...I'm a good old turkey sandwich kinda guy

[shitf4ced]

Anonymously message me (3) things you want to know about me.

[lustful-babydoll]

Yeah do this now (:

[romanticsir-deactivated20181218]

[guidetrainlove-deactivated20200]

What little doesn’t like being read to in Daddy’s lap?

[training-your-property]

I’m a strong proponent for bedtime stories, but that’s just me.  Curled up with her head on my chest as I read her into dreams is a wonderful way to fall asleep.

[imlk]

“Let me play with your hair while you sleep on me”

[skylarserenity-deactivated20181]

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