Bisexcellent Babe

feminism. bisexuality. gender. sexuality. mental illness. self care.

[amargedom]

“Forgive yourself for not knowing what you didn’t know before you learned it.”

— Maya Angelou

[bisexcellentbabe]

A man can absolutely not call himself a feminist, if he fails to do his fair share of domestic labour at home.

[onlinecounsellingcollege]

“Being alone may scare you, but staying in a bad relationship will damage you.”

— Unknown

[ratcity]

Sometimes ….. men u think are okay…. are worse

[aashiqaanah]

We know every woman has two jobs - one at the office and one at home. She multitasks and handles both almost single handedly. It’s time to understand why. It’s time to get to the root of the issue. Is it our upbringing? Are we passing gender roles that haven’t evolved with the times? In our society why are women only responsible for the household? It’s a responsibility for both genders. (x)

[micdotcom]

Watch: Complaining about political correctness says more about you than it does others.

[chescaleigh]

I support this 100% but I’m curious if Paul F. Tompkins has gotten death and rape threats over this video? I’ve never gotten more harassment online than when I dared explain that political correctness isn’t prohibiting anyone’s free speech. As happy as I am to see this conversation happening, it sucks that the same info is always more palatable when expressed by straight white dudes. 

[puzzlebird-moved-blog]

[blanksandbobbypins]

Cause vintage WWI lesbians are the best lesbians.

[observando]

Dead people receive more flowers than the living ones because the regret is stronger than gratitude.

Anne Frank (via observando)

[jellie-bells]

My therapist told me something meaningful yesterday, she said “It’s important to remember that when you’re depressed you have to nurse yourself and be extra gentile towards yourself. Just like an athlete wouldn’t break an ankle then force themselves to run that ankle. They rest as it heals and do not think “I am a failed athelete” they think, “right now something isn’t working so i’ll take care of myself until it does.“ 

Just like a broken bone, depression can change the way your daily life plays out, and pushing yourself too hard and getting frustrated when you don’t feel better is just like trying to run on that broken ankle and getting frustrated when it doesn’t heal.

[moonlight69]

Read this. Then read it again. And then save it and read it over and over when you are depressed.

[cosmic-noir]

Non-problematic fave: Matt McGorry.

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He’s a gem

[pettyprincesspink-deactivated20]

He’s officially hubby now.

[dntgetmad]

He just need to go take care of Daya, and then we’ll be cool.

[silkandcinnamon]

^^^but he’s for real my new hubby now it’s confirmed.

[magicalsapphic-deactivated20171]

Oh my god Matt McGorry, you might actually be the true un problematic fave.

[bisexcellentbabe]

I can’t even believe I’m going to Europe today. I can’t wait to see Tom, I miss him so much. Everything in my life is going so well and I’m so happy and lucky!!

AAAHHHH

[zumbadorcito]

’Girls should only have hair on their heads; it’s not natural to have hair any where else!’

[mcdyke-deactivated20171112]

the term ‘cis’ is inherently misogynistic bc it groups females with males, therefore it doesn’t acknowledge female oppression

[evvee-moved-deactivated20210712]

the term ‘white’ is inherently misogynistic bc it groups females with males, therefore it doesn’t acknowledge female oppression

the term ‘neurotypical’ is inherently misogynistic bc it groups females with males, therefore it doesn’t acknowledge female oppression

the term ‘human’ is inherently misogynistic bc it groups females with males, therefore it doesn’t acknowledge female oppression

[benjiscloset]

#terfbullshit

[thatdiabolicalfeminist]

this is why I don’t reblog radfemale’s “good” posts about feminism. she’s a transmisogynist. there are worse posts - recently, too, like, in the past few days - on her blog if you care to look.

when she says “men” she is including trans women in that group and that’s not just bad feminist praxis it’s actually dangerous to trans women. so can my trans-friendly feminists on here stop reblogging her stuff please? we non-trans-women gotta protect our trans sisters.

tl;dr stop reblogging stuff from radfemale pls

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[bisexcellentbabe]

I'm so happy I get to kiss the person I love and wake up next to them and travel with them. This all feels like an amazing dream.

[bisexcellentbabe]

Got my period for the first time in 6 months. What sweet fresh hell is this? I forgot how awful and painful this is.

[bisexcellentbabe]

People: So you're willing to risk promising relationships and friendships just because someone is homophobic/transphobic/sexist/racist?

Me: yes