butch weirdo (18+)

(it/she) 20s fat transfem butchdyke. CO. don't argue with me about queer/trans discourse if you're below the legal drinking age

[bitemarkbait]

Formerly thehellnoelle, now I'm bitemarkbait

[butchbait4butch]

i really should write that story where a woman falls in love with and fucks a haunted house. it could be so cutes.

[filmphotofranz]

[pr3ttypunisherr]

condescending praise......condescending praise.....condescending praise......

[bitemarkbait]

Can't stop thinking about the butch who bit me and scratched me and fingered my mouth and held me close and bit me and licked my tongue and called me a good girl and bit me and and and

[s-nnoh]

someone made a website where you can declare your favorite pokemon & why. let's all see if every pokemon is someone's favorite... Together

[who-the-fuck-is-sennalye]

yay! :D

[queer-as-city-folk]

[helpeverythingiscats]

[cockyroaches]

Waow.....

[hellish-undeath]

Me and the 6 other bitches with good taste

[bitemarkbait]

[existennialmemes]

The crux of the anti trans movement is a war on bodily autonomy. They don't want you to have any agency over what you look like, how you dress, who you date, whether to have kids, etc.

They want total control over you. Not just trans people. Not just queer people. You. Everyone.

Trans people are just a scapegoat. They want total control over everyone's self expression. They want the right to mold you into their perfect little cog in their dehumanizing machine.

Happy Trans Day of Visibility. Our rights are your rights. Our destruction is your destruction.

[boringkate]

Stupid question but are you really a misandrist?

And a heterophobe and a richist too!

[pjharvey]

we have to start running a massive PSA campaign to young gay people so everyone understands there is a difference between being a dom and being a top and between being a sub and being a bottom. and also that sometimes you are neither a sub nor a bottom and you're just like shy. we need to be handing out flyers we need ads at every train station spreading the word

[bitemarkbait]

One of the hardest parts about speaking candidly about being a top and a switch is the confused people who foolishly think "who is in control" and "who gives and receives" are synonyms

[bitemarkbait]

Eating out a butch while he infodumps about his favorite ttrpg until he makes a mess of my face when

[bitemarkbait]

That nonbinary butch who chainsmokes light blue american spirits will save you btw

[pr3ttypunisherr]

i am so proud to be a latina

i love my culture so much

[floating-goblin-deactivated2021]

the unholy trinity of piss-poor caretakers, tag yourself:

tomboy, meaning "this child is clearly queer but let's hope it goes away"

sensitive, meaning "clearly neurodivergent and often distressed but let's keep going until they grow numb"

mature, meaning "traumatized but let's ignore that"

[sepiascissors]

quiet, meaning "has been yelled at or ignored a few too many times and now considers all attempts at communicating with others to be pointless"

self-sufficient, meaning "next to zero trust in parental figures' ability in various aspects of parenting"

lazy, meaning "depressed, but expected to preform tasks or actions without positive support or knowledge of how to do things"

[atyourperil]

is anyone here ready for fat transgender summer can we give it up for fat transgender summer

[mousidy]

One thing that really gets lost in the discussion about the term "femboy" is how it pushes the idea that the only way to have your femininity accepted is to provide sexual attention for men. Many young trans girls are exclusively shown the "femboy" charactur as a solution for their dysphoria. That to be accepted they most provide sexual attention for men to even slightly be seen as a girl.

HUH. fucking yeah

[xenestrogen]

trans woman here! this happened to me early transition and is like a huge part of why i cannot stand the term or anyone who self identifies as a ‘femboy’

[bottled-foxessence]

Same with me. Before i knew i could be a girl i just accepted that the only way i would be seen as feminine was to sexualize myself.

As that was the only way i knew to do it in the queer community. They only uplift the most sexualized versions of young trans fems and "femboys".

When i found community with trans women i dropped the femboy label almost immediately as i found acceptance from others without sexualization.

And through that i learned to accept myself without sexualizing myself.

[smallestbunnyever-deactivated20]

This happened to me too. Before I could accept myself as a girl I described myself as a femboy and played into the stereotypes and well into transition I kept the label before feeling comfortable coming out.

Since a friend helped me transition I've never once looked back on that time with joy and I hated myself for being more sexual than I found comfortable to play into what I considered an acceptable application of my identity.

[bitemarkbait]

Little Miss Overstimbait would like to reassure you that it's fine if it doesn't cum, it usually doesn't

[mystery-incorporated-whore]

everyone look out the tranny is about to get inflammatory

[mystery-incorporated-whore]

tmes choose labels for fun. tmas choose labels because we have to

[mystery-incorporated-whore]

yes this post is inspired by the number of times i have to see "transfemmasc" in some fuckers bio

[mystery-incorporated-whore]

trust me i WISH i could pretend my gender assignment at birth doesnt impact the way i move through the world. i would kill to never have to use the word "transfem" ever again. but unfortunately thats not the fucking society we live in. and until we make it to the post scarcity sex liberated world unfortunately im stuck with it