transfem geek

pronouns: she/her Second account for @BlazeStar345 I lost access to my other account so this is the one I'm using. Mod of the @ask-vrla blog

[evelily7023-deactivated20230824]

[shnowyfox]

it would be so awesome

it would be so cool

[sexy-people-contests-2026]

Tumblr Sexyman Contest 2026 Round 2 Part 6

Thanatos (Hades)

Bobby (K-pop Demon Hunters)

Remaining time: 3 days 6 hours

[blazestar3450]

Bobby sweep!! Bobby sweep!!!

[mindllessdreaming]

and the winner of superwholock is officially??? no one. we all lost. congrats team

[buggyhuman-blog]

[drowsy-corpsegirl]

The Dom should be praised too

[drowsy-corpsegirl]

Take care of your doms. Praise them. Make them feel cared for and loved. Or you don't deserve them.

[drowsy-corpsegirl]

This applies doubly, x10 tbh, to transfemme doms. You NEED to be nice to her, you NEED to let her know she is doing a good job. That transfemme dom might have a lot of issues with her self worth, she may have been used up and left a discarded husk so many times.

Sorry but I got sick of scrolling through the notes on this on desktop and seeing all the red usernames marked by shinigami eyes reblogging this.

I'm a transfemme dom and I'm proud of it. Take care of us. Love us.

[drowsy-corpsegirl]

And then no one reblogged this version

[skelotom]

This is what refilling my HRT feels like. Everyone should be able to experience this joy if they want to.

[star-mom-selkie]

happy pride month

[star-angel-selkie]

this one kinda hurts when i see it every pride month. im glad to see an art piece of mine still circulating, and with nearly 100,000 notes too! it just hurts that im separated from it. everyone in the notes thinks im gone. im still here, but my potential community and connection is lost because im forgotten in place of the art. yeah, my deactivated profile does add to the profoundness of what i was saying, but i am still removed.

[assignedmale]

[quaintpanic]

I WAS BORN YESTERDAY. I JUST BLEW IN FROM STUPID TOWN. THIS IS MY FIRST RODEO. PLEASE BE PATIENT WITH ME.

[depsidase]

[assignedmale]

[bitchautism]

the online identity and gimmick-ifying of autism is so odd. I'm diagnosed with autism and yet I barely identify with any stuff I see about it anymore. It feels like autism is being rebranded as the Silly Guy Disorder that gives you smart and beautiful hyperspecific interests. it's not that I mind silly jokes or being lighthearted about being autistic- but when the entire social movement is based around marketing us this way, I just can't help but feel isolated from it. it feels like I'm not the right kind of autistic. I'm not marketable and digestible to common audiences, and therefore I am discarded by the movement in the name of progress and acceptance. it feels foul.

[magicalboyasher]

I offer my sincerest condolences, and a chocolate bar 🍫

[kayla-denker]

There's another reason that you shouldn't tell us that we're "lucky" we "don't have to deal with periods": its a constant reminder of our inability to have children.

If you recognize how monstrous it would be to tell a cis woman who has one of the myriad of conditions that cause them to be infertile and not have period cramps that she's "lucky" because of that, why can't you recognize that it's just as monstrous to tell trans women that for literally the same reason?

[blazestar3450]

Ok!! Get ready for a pretty heavy rant

I for one do not want to carry a child but even so this is still true. Do not say the "you're lucky" thing to trans women in general when it comes to these subjects. That includes me, it's dysphoric as fuck. You wouldn't say it to a cis woman so why us? It's cruel and as the first comic shows, in many cases inaccurate. I've had multiple people in the past deny the fact that trans women could face any period symptoms or hormonal cycles despite me mentioning that science as well as a multitude of personal accounts have proved it. I haven't gotten to the cramps yet but I do have a hormonal cycle and it does cause various issues. I get headaches and feel exhausted constantly (even more than the chronic pain causes) during a portion of time a month. Whenever I'm dealing with these kinds of things I often want to spend all day in bed. I haven't started tracking it fully because i know as soon as i do I'll have this feeling of dread whenever i know it's near. It's legitimately horrid and I've had too many people deny its existence to be ok when I see other trans women have to deal with it. Folks feeling the need to make comics like the second one legitimately makes me unrationally angry because there shouldn't be that need but there is. Cis women who have said things like what the comic above shows, this is for you (and honestly cis people in general take note even though this is targeted for those specific cis women). We're women just like you and you should treat us as such. "Male socialization" isn't an actual thing, maternal instinct is not exclusive to cis women (I've actively seen it), and just because a woman wasn't born with the ability to have kids because she wasn't born with a uterus doesn't mean she wouldn't make a good parent. Seriously, sometimes certain people just need to shut up and listen to others experiences and actual science before making blanket assumptions. But no, i guess that's too much to ask when it's about trans people. Like seriously, grow the fuck up. It's 2026. You can do better cis people.

Now that the angry part is over. For trans women who have had that kind of things said to you. You didn't deserve that. The person was uneducated, bigoted or both. That's not a reflection of reality and if you get the chance and you want to, infertility doesn't stop you from being a good parent. Take it from the adopted gal. Of course make sure you're ready and healthy enough for the task, but once you are I'm certain you'll make an amazing mom.

Sending you all loads of hugs and hope you have a great rest of your day. Go about it with confidence in yourself

Signed,

The adopted trans gal who will chew out any asshole who says a trans woman can't be a good mom just because she's trans

[sugary-sheep]

you will describe tummy/waist fat as a "muffin top" (yummy treat?) and "love handles" (most romantic phrase ever?) and mean it in a derogatory way? when these things are obviously good?

[seabunny-with-a-rocket-launcher]

"there are some really cool space themed music videos, one of them is dnd."

"some cool space stuff? they can't have my type! i have special tastes...."

"look, cute space elf boys with tragic backstories."

"MY TYPE!!"

[dogtoks]

[latchofficial]

[coldpapernightmare]

hey, that dogs whole job is to point at birds, and it is indeed pointing at a bird

What more do you want?

[serenagold]

That German shorthair pointer is sure pointing.

[wreillyart]

Every life is a note in the music of existence that echoes through infinity. So when you feel insignificant and alone, just remember we're all irreplaceable parts of that grand cosmic melody: The Stardust Rhapsody.