kelc

don’t trust a thing i say lowkey

[bpdeesnuts]

i feel v attacked by this

[bpdeesnuts]

tb to when 5SOS reblogged this and i cried

[bpdeesnuts]

follow me on instagram if you want :) ig- lowqualitykth

[hobies]

babe in blue jeans

[fromonesurvivortoanother]

People can forgive toxic parents, but they should do it at the conclusion—not at the beginning—of their emotional housecleaning. People need to get angry about what happened to them. They need to grieve over the fact that they never had the parental love they yearned for. They need to stop diminishing or discounting the damage that was done to them. Too often, “forgive and forget” means “pretend it didn’t happen.” I also believe that forgiveness is appropriate only when parents do something to earn it. Toxic parents, especially the more abusive ones, need to acknowledge what happened, take responsibility, and show a willingness to make amends. If you unilaterally absolve parents who continue to treat you badly, who deny much of your reality and feelings, and who continue to project blame onto you, you may seriously impede the emotional work you need to do. If one or both parents are dead, you can still heal the damage, by forgiving yourself and releasing much of the hold that they had over your emotional well-being. At this point, you may be wondering, understandably, if you will remain bitter and angry for the rest of your life if you don’t forgive your parents. In fact, quite the opposite is true. What I have seen over the years is that emotional and mental peace comes as a result of releasing yourself from your toxic parents’ control, without necessarily having to forgive them. And that release can come only after you’ve worked through your intense feelings of outrage and grief and after you’ve put the responsibility on their shoulders, where it belongs.

Susan Forward, Toxic Parents, ch 9  (via 4a0000)

[btsbulges]

HIS TUMMY IS SO CUTE I LOVE HIM

[bpdeesnuts]

im reblogging this again and i will continue to reblog it everytime i see it

[sj0]

you have been visited by the seven magic dragon balls your biggest wish will be granted but only if you reblog

[hersheyhipster]

Couldn’t risk it.

[justjengie]

didn’t realize they change colors. now I know o gotta wish.

[pinayputa]

THIS SHIT IS REAL I GOT THE JOB I WAS NUTS ABOUT BC I REBLOGGED THIS YESTERDAY maybe it’s a coinkidink but it okay just take the necessary steps to achieve what you’re wishing for and YOU CAN DO IT

[not-of-the-world-around-us]

One of the things I hate most about growing up is how you lose touch with fandoms and bands and stuff that you used to obsess over. Like you don’t necessarily stop liking the things you used to, you just lose the capacity and energy to care about something so wholeheartedly.

[jikooki]

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i needed this audio on my blog

[kooksnovio-archive]

jin invented wearing clothes

[bpdeesnuts]

what a beauty

[fyeah-bangtan7]

© Celsius 613

[yoongisclairedelune-deactivated]

@whitetvlips

[jeonjungkoos]

let him live

[bpdeesnuts]

what a beautiful boy

[jjks]

[tinytae]

✧

[holdmehoseok]

i’d like to remind everyone that hoseok’s mixtape could contain anything and if his seems more lighthearted than namjoon’s or yoongi’s then that’s okay. if there are heavier subjects mentioned then that’s something to consider and take seriously. both are completely fine and we shouldn’t expect too much of one way or the other. whatever subjects hoseok wants to include is up to him and we should be happy that he wants to share his own musical style with us.

[hiddenkpopvocals]

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