Everyone is going through something. Stop using your differences as an excuse to have a victim’s mentality.
I’m so tired of hearing people complain about the choices they are making and the way they look and act. Instead of trying to be change or work on it, it’s feeling bad for yourself and saying you don’t deserve it. Stop saying that you’ll never be happy. Stop saying that you’ll never understand or that you’ll never accept yourself.
What’s happened has already happened. There is only moving forward and learning.
You are who you are. Work on being the person you needed, and you need.
You are not be able to do something you thought you could.
You make mistakes you thought you never would.
You change and you feel hopeless to the future.
Mourn that. Be sad. Tell yourself that it’s not fair, but life’s not fair, you have what you have, you are who you are.
You can either give up, and let it make you miserable, or you can turn that pain into power.
You won’t change for anyone but yourself. Don’t try to change for anyone but yourself.
Tell yourself that pain is only relevant if it still hurts, you will not grow unless you stop blaming the world around you for your issues, sadness and confusion.
It’s not your fault this happened to you, but it’s your duty to feel hurt, learn and grow. We will never stop pain, prejudice or hate, but you can change you, and hopefully inspire someone else to be independent.