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[suncaptor]

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[felysha]

Jonathan Joss was an Indigenous, gay man who was murdered on the first day of Pride month as well as Indigenous History Month. He died protecting his trans husband. Homophobia and racism aren’t marks of the past, and this is a heart breaking reminder of that.

Praying for a safe journey back to the spirit world, Uncle ❤️‍🩹🦅

[felysha]

Today is the anniversary of the death of Jonathan Joss (King of the Hill, Parks and Rec). Jonathan Joss was an Indigenous, gay man who died protecting his transgender husband, on the first day of Pride month. Today we remember him and how he protected his family.

[genderkoolaid]

just a pride month reminder:

if you are making something featuring multiple flags and you put in the asexual flag, you better put in the aromantic flag.

if you put in the aroace flag, you better put in the aroallo flag.

fighting aromantic erasure starts with YOU 🫵

[genderkoolaid]

for reference:

^ the aromantic flag

^ the aroallo (aromantic allosexual) flag

& just btw, aromantic erasure is so bad that on pubmed, many of the very few studies that have looked into aspec people specifically, categorize us as a type of asexuality. from this study:

Our findings highlight that aromantic people wish for aromanticism not to be considered a part of asexuality—a practice that has dominated contemporary literature (Antonsen et al. 2020; Carvalho & Rodrigues, 2022; Clark & Zimmerman, 2022; Hall & Knox, 2022; Zheng & Su, 2018). Many participants clarified the distinction between their sexual identity and romantic identity and highlighted that though they may be connected for some, they should be considered independently as unique contributors to an individual’s identity and experience. This aligns with a previous aromantic community survey that showed 72% of the sample did not identify with asexual terminology (AUREA, 2021a). In combination with our findings, this suggests that a tendency to conflate and describe these identities as the same or linked may be to the disadvantage of a significant portion of the aromantic community.

this is why it is so important to include aromantic people as our own group and to specifically include non-asexual aromantics. i hope y'all can understand how frustrating it is to be erased through a group that is already erased.

asexual representation is sparse? all aromantic rep is asexual and most of the time people don't even bother to remember that "aromantic" is its own thing. i can't count how many times i've seen a character talk about not experiencing romantic attraction, only for people to go "wow asexual rep!" even though sexual attraction was never brought up.

asexual community & resources are sparse? when i try to look up groups for aromantics, i get resources on "ace & aro groups" that are literally all asexual-focused. at best asexual-focused with a mention of aromantic people. which isn't really helpful when you are aroallo and don't really want or need a group that is clearly meant for alloro asexuals and aroaces.

asexual history is sparse? i've literally never seen anything even trying to talk about aromantic history. the most impactful thing on aro history is that one tumblr post talking about a woman at a nursing home who heard the term and realized her best friend was likely aro. see above with the character situation as well.

my point here is not "aros have it worse than aces" because we are both aspec and both get fucked over by the same forces and in fact, a LOT of asexual aromantics are also very frustrated by aromantic erasure! i've even heard some people talk about not identifying as strongly as asexual, even though it fits them, because they feel their aro identity is more important to them but gets constantly erased by their asexuality.

my point is that it is so fucking disheartening to be aro even in queer spaces that are trying to be asexual-inclusive, even in supposedly aspec spaces, because it swiftly becomes apparent that people see your entire identity as just a footnote for asexuality. so many people never even realize they are aro because they aren't asexual and don't realize that you can be aro but not ace. i dealt with some really intense arophobia as a teen after realizing i was aro, feeling broken and alone. it hit much harder than any internalized homophobia or transphobia did for me at the time. i did not meet another person who identified as aromantic irl until this year. any resources and community that i had as a queer teen, as a trans teen, did not exist for me as an aro teen and does not exist for me as an aro adult, really.

and big problem is that, because people think of aromanticism as just a footnote of asexuality, they implicitly assume that more asexual rep, more asexual resources, more asexual visibility will automatically serve aromantics too. and when it doesn't work like that, aro people continue to suffer as a result.

things have improved over the years and i hope will continue to! but i really need every queer person to become more aware of aromanticism & arophobia & how the queer community contributes to it & hurts aro people. hence why i am so testy about when people will include the ace flag but not the aro one. YOU 🫵 will care about your aromantic siblings and consider us this pride month!!!!!

[organicmatter]

guys i just found out about this site that does a daily guessing game, it’s phylogenetic wordle- so fun!!!

[organicmatter]

guys i just found out about this site that does a daily guessing game, it’s phylogenetic wordle- so fun!!!

[epickiya722]

CHARACTER ASK GAME!!! 💫

Send a character + one or more of these question IN THE INBOX. Don't reply on the post!

1. Why do you like or dislike this character?

2. Favorite canon thing about this character?

3. Least favorite canon thing about this character?

4. If you could put this character in any other media, be it a book, a movie, anything, what would you put them in?

5. What's the first song that comes to mind when you think about them?

6. What's something you have in common with this character?

7. What's something the fandom does when it comes to this character that you like?

8. What's something the fandom does when it comes to this character that you despise?

9. Could you be roommates with this character?

10. Could you be best friends with this character?

11. Would you date this character?

12. What's a headcanon you have for this character?

13. What's an emoji, an emoticon and/or any symbol that reminds you of this character or you think the character would use a lot?

14. Assign a fashion aesthetic to this character.

15. What's your favorite ship for this character? (Doesn't matter if it's canon or not.)

16. What's your least favorite ship for this character?

17. What's a ship for this character you don't hate but it's not your favorite that you're fine with?

18. How about a relationship they have in canon with another character that you admire?

19. How about a relationship they have in canon that you don't like?

20. Which other character is the ideal best friend for this character, the amount of screentime they share doesn't matter?

21. If you're a fic writer and have written for this character, what's your favorite thing to do when you're writing for this character? What's something you don't like?

22. If you're a fic reader, what's something you like in fics when it comes to ths character? Something you don't like?

23. Favorite picture of this character?

24. What other character from another fandom of yours that reminds you of them?

25. What was your first impression of this character? How about now?

26. What's something the character has done you can't get over? Be it something funny, bad, good, serious, whatever?

27. What is a color or colors that you think of when you think of this character, be it their canon color(s) or not?

28. If you could have this character meet another in another media, who would you have them meet?

29. Could you live as this character, would you? If not, what would you change so that you could?

30. FREEBIE QUESTION!!

[kermitkc]

Oooh!👀 A new kind of game - what fun! (As per usual: Only if you like😅)

[sexy-people-contests-2026]

Tumblr Sexyman Contest 2026 Round 1 Part 82

Elijah "Smoke" Moore (Sinners)

Puppet Master (Prodigy)

Hooty (The Owl House)

Remaining time: 4 days 19 hours

[shigure]

i'm sorry i never did your tag game. i love you

[danhcees]

What vibes match prev the most (⁠◕⁠ᴗ⁠◕⁠✿) ?

!!

11:11 wishes

Four leaf clovers

Fortune cookies

Wishbone

Shooting star

Penny on the ground

Dandelion wishes

Lucky charms

12 grapes under the table

Voting ended onJun 1

[fairycosmos]

i hate my body and i want to be a better person and you can’t bring dead people back and i can’t do anything about any of those things because i need to get to tomorrow

[aroace-ryland-grace]

I took this video at like 3 am last night and I can't stop laughing at it...whatever. go my rocky

[skelerangart]

You Know Who You Are

[findoutproductions]

Now presenting the show schedule for this years All Black Juneteenth TTRPG streaming event. Hosted on Find Out Productions. Our line up includes Liminal Horror, Teenagers From Outerspace, Ivresang, Blades 68' and Monsterhearts.

Find all these games streaming live on twitch June 19th starting at 8am PT

📺: https://www.twitch.tv/findoutproductions

College interns risk a creepy corporate retreat for $5k each to fund their dream Juneteenth trip to Harlem. Finish the trial, get paid. Easy, right?

CW: Comic horror violence, NPC death, unsettling corporate/bureaucratic themes, non-graphic comedic gore GM: @maiasgameroom.bsky.social Players: @sirenmademodules.bsky.social, @tayycro.blacksky.app, @chanelle-lize.bsky.social

The hottest party of the year is coming up soon, but weird stuff keeps popping up and threatening to get in the way! We can totally hold it down for one day, right? 

CW: Recreational drinking/drug use, bullying, comedic violence & property destruction

GM: @agentrush.bsky.social

Players: @sirblack49.bsky.social, @heycalamityyy.bsky.social, @christheechampion.blacksky.app ,@chanelle-lize.bsky.social

Play a crew of human & vampire misfits in a dark, fun castlevania-inspired one-shot... Where you try to bring down an ex-colleague who ruined your life to become a vampire overlord! An Ironsworn-powered adventure.

CW: Blood, violence, cults

GM:@meishali.bsky.social Players: @astroazureart.bsky.social, @neonsaline.com, @sateenbonnet.bsky.social, @femmefinite.bsky.social

In the technofantasy city of 60s Doskvol, your crew of revolutionaries are going to steal the cursed Elpis Jewels. Redistribute the wealth. Maybe even survive. 

CW: classism, racism, cinematic violence, casual drug use, supernatural horror

GM: @prince-infidel.bsky.social

Players: @christheechampion.blacksky.app, @sleypy.bsky.social ,@neonsaline.com, @vjhcreations.bsky.social

A quiet town’s college house party turns dangerous as a group of college students lose themselves in dizzying dreams. Can they escape past mistakes? 

CW: Psychological distress, alcohol, emotional turmoil, supernatural danger, adult themes, swearing.

GM: @kalebisbelak.bsky.social Players: @chenanigans.bsky.social, Dori, @ashtynbrianne.bsky.social, @jpfairfield.bsky.social

[chenanigans]

I'm in this thing! You should check it out!

[aroace-ryland-grace]

always an ally to alien fuckers but I always start giggling when anyone says they want to or they want a character to have (human) sex with an eridian. it would suck so bad and it would be terrible and so uncomfortable. all the power to you but it would be such a bad time for both parties involved and I cannot help but laugh

[aroace-ryland-grace]

if you're trying to stick shit up an eridian's orifice you're not dedicated and you don't care about the eridian's pleasure. we can presume most eridians wouldn't want to have their internal organs fucked. that's not gonna be pleasureable for the average eridian unless they're specifically into that. and there wouldn't be many who are considering eridian sex is just laying eggs next to each other. if you wanna have sex with an eridian you gotta get weird and commit. it is not going to look anything like any form of human sex. there probably won't even be any direct contact even if you ignore the atmospheric differences. get your head in the game.

[aroace-ryland-grace]

if you're gonna fuck an alien you better fuck them right. I'm in the cuck chair and I will write a scathing review

[rika-mortis]

Life is beach

[nariarts]

Longtime readers may be aware of how much I relish an excuse to bully a company, so I'm sharing the wealth;

Clothing company Patagonia is currently sueing drag queen Pattie Gonia for "irreparable” harm to their brand.

To be clear; Pattie named herself after the region in South America.

So Pattie is asking people to politely ask Patagonia to drop the lawsuit.

I'm extending the invitation to all of you, because sueing a drag queen for 'infringement' in the current political cultural landscape is vile. Especially a drag queen who has raised millions of dollars for non-profits, uses her platform to raise awareness for climate activism, and fully aligns with Patagonia's apparent climate-conscious mission statement.

They're claiming they're sueing for $1. They're actually asking her to stop using her name, and pay over $1 million in legal fees. They're straight up harassing her.

In contrast, drag queen Jan Sport has a Jansport bag line. It's that easy to just... work with a queen.

Anyway. Be respectful(ish), but feel free to be annoying on Patagnoia's socials, asking them to 'DROP THE LAWSUIT'

I think they have a twitter and tiktok too!

[ao3-anonymous]

I just saw an anon come into a gif-maker’s ask box and start with the phrase: “I’m trying not to spam your inbox with reblogs, but” and then go on to say how much they love the gifs.

But I’m still stuck on that opening phrase because…what? I am so confused by how people view interactions on tumblr & AO3 these days. Let me make it very clear for anyone who is unsure:

CREATORS WANT YOU TO INTERACT WITH THEIR WORK.

The limit does not exist on how many of their works you can interact with in a certain period.

If you like every fic they’ve ever written? Then feel free to give them all kudos and even leave a comment on every single one if you feel inclined! If you’re going through someone’s blog and you vibe with every post, like/reblog to your heart’s content!

As long as you’re not expecting something back from them or adding a ton of irrelevant comments, it’s not spam! It’s what this is all about!! I’m not even much of a creator and I still feel a huge sense of pride when I see a ton of notifications in a row from a person, as it clearly shows they thought my blog was worth spending time on.

And if for some reason a creator is annoyed by this (unlikely), they can manage their own experience (turn off notifs, not look at their notes, delete the fic, etc) so don’t deprive the majority of creators because of some imagined annoyed person. Fandom is a collaborative effort and we all must participate!