brujeria florida

queer she/her • gemini ☀ pisces ☾ cancer ⇡ • 30

[stuckinapril]

One of the affirmations I thought of this morning was “you’re so small in this giant universe & it’s very likely that none of what you’re going through is particularly original or harrowing” and it literally made my anxiety dissipate sooo fast. I get this kind of thinking may make somebody else feel insignificant in the grand scheme of things, but it always helps me for some reason. Maybe bc I like that I’m connected to other people through these experiences, painful or otherwise. Whatever I’m going through has likely happened to someone 10 years ago, and they likely got over it. It’s a nice thought. It shows me that I can too & that time heals all

[thesundanceghost]

Nothing I’ve read has changed me more than “you do people a favor by accepting their help” like I repeat this constantly to so many people because it’s true!!! People like to feel useful, they like to feel kind, they like to feel like they have an ability to impact people’s lives so just let them!! Not everything is a thing to be owed back — accept people’s kindness without making a competition out of it

[selfhealingmoments]

[someemochick]

[rxnn-deactivated20230610]

[daughter-of-sapph0]

kink critical reactionary "feminists" telling women to kill themselves for making the decision to enjoy bdsm in a safe and consentual way:

[permanently-sprained-ankle]

“I’m chronically ill, not drug seeking! I don’t want to be mistaken for an addict trying to get opiates in the emergency room!”

I totally understand not wanting to be mistreated, bullied, and denied treatment, or being misdiagnosed with a disorder you don’t have (in this case, substance use disorder). It shouldn’t happen, period.

The problem is when chronically ill people act like they’re better than addicts just because they themselves are going to the ER for a “real” reason. (If you don’t do that then I’m not talking about you)

Have you considered that the addicts and “drug seekers” shouldn’t be treated that way also? They too are seeking medical treatment for a disorder and/or withdrawal. Everybody deserves adequate treatment, yes, even if they are doing so because they are addicted to a substance.

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[olkarrion-deactivated20250108]

blowing a kiss to all the disabled people who cant work and a kiss to all the disabled people who shouldnt be working but have to because of their circumstances and a kiss to disabled people who have never and will never work and a kiss to the disabled people who dont want to work your worth is not measured by your productivity ily

[tierras]

minami gessel for ramona jingru wang's "my friends are cyborgs, but that's okay" series ⋆

[amvs]

can we send anon hate to landlords/brokers on listing sites. can we make that a thing

[amvs]

like this

[guerrillatech]

[sew-birb]

My friend takes this one step further and refers completely accurately to his girlfriend Danielle as "My partner, Dan"

[charismat1c-megafauna]

Also i hate to say it but for some people, boyfriend/girlfriend feels a bit juvenile, say, if youre over 30, or perhaps youve been with someone for a very long time and are committed life partners but not married for whatever reason. Maybe husband/wife feels a little watered down to you and you want to establish the equal nature of your relationship.

Partner is a wonderful word and it should be normalized.

[tanadrin]

i also like the air of mystery it lends.

“this is my partner.”

in what? romance? business? art? rock-climbing? crime? all at once? who knows! gotta keep people guessing.

[kristina100000]

i literally dont want to hear about anyone's boyfriend this year girl did you start your javascript course or not ✋

[pancakeke]

why are these kinds of levels so alluring...

[fleurfurr]

stim toys for dads

[dabwax-deactivated20250410]

Dragon dyke 🐉

[creekfiend]

I have to remember every 5 years that when I was a little kid my dad was having obsessive spirals about things he did wrong like 30 years prior and his talked to his therapist about it and you know what they did NOT say. They did not say "hmmm well have you learned your lesson changed your behavior and atoned?"

They said "that sounds like a really unhelpful and distressing thing that your brain is making you think about All The Time. How about when that happens you try to think about something that makes you happy instead"

(My dad carried a picture of me at age 4 with a large inflatable dinosaur in his wallet for this purpose) (hard to ruminate about past failures when looking at a picture of your kid enjoying a large inflatable dinosaur)

Anyway. Fucking... stop thinking you can Solve Ethics by spiraling you fool. It's the Ethics Cuckoo. Fuck that guy

[mangablug]

[thecatalogues]

reblog of you agree

[inutaffy]

ngl if a bi girl is talking about a hot guy and shes like “im so gay” you dont get to be like “but-” no buts. shes feeling queer about it.

[inutaffy]

HELL YEAH