[sycamorality]

oh no i will lose my !

[themockingbirdnebula]

Queer plural system, call that a fruit basket

[charl0ttan]

getting a jobjob from a water cooler with big pronouns

[verguletto]

“ The Pirate radio is now broadcasting ... ”

꒰੭. ⠀·͙⠀ ⠀۪𓏼ㅤ ׅ⠀ ⦂ ⠀⠀kris tumblr layout ⌣⌣

⠀ ᡣ𐭩 ⠀ ┈─★ ⠀ ⠀ ゜ self - indulgent

།† ‧̍̊ ི 　　꒰𝒢℘꒱ use with creds to artist

❝ ⠀ ｡　˚　 ac⠀⦂ ⠀⠀@\komugiko0213 & @\enda-game (icon)ㅤ ⠀⠀𓎟𓎡

[spamtennagraphics]

KRIS GRAPHICS 💙

f2u with proper credit. art credit. psd credit. all else official material.

made by me, tenna!

[moved-to-saltcircuit]

dealing with people who are spacing out

DON’T: -hit them -yell at them -wave in their face in excess

DO: -say their name once or twice -tap them gently and if they don’t respond, -wait patiently for them to snap back into reality

[fictovoid-collective]

as a system who spaces out frequently due to dissociation and severe memory issues, THIS. Please. We have been yelled at by teachers and friends, as well as physically grabbed when we space out, only to snap back and find we’re in another place, or to switch fronts during the yelling and break down crying. we will always appreciate when someone simply just… sits with us while we dissociate, and when we come to, realize someone was there for us and that they cared enough to take time out of their day to just… be there. and wait with someone that isnt even present.

//☁️Tiger (he/any)

[sparklychimecho]

There will be another part to this hopefully soon... The reason why this comic took so long is because of Chili, I don't think anyone at Gamefreak knows how his hair works.

Technically this is also part of of my Champion!Emmet AU but it can be read on it's own too. I just really like the triplets and I want all of them to be friends so bad.

[not-your-average-url]

I miss when ads were a single click and then they’re gone. Now every ad has a minimum of three phases where you watch a video, exit the still frame of fake gameplay, and then exit the app download. That doesn’t even touch on the ones that forcibly take you to another app after opening a tab in safari without you ever touching the screen.

I hate advertising. I hate that you can’t do anything without companies jumping down your throat with mostly bullshit ads. I hate that billboards exist. I hate that every company unanimously decided to make their ads longer and longer. I hate that ad blockers try to charge you money and there are in app purchases to remove ads. I hate that my attention has become commodified. I hate that there’s nothing I can do about it.

[deadeyedfae]

Getting this shit on a flag to take to pride next year.

[mydawnisover]

“If I were Orpheus I would simply not turn around”

Okay well I may or may not have turned around but I definitely would’ve cried the entire way and I think that’s worse

[mawofthemagnetar]

The problem with being low support needs is that people mentally autocorrect that to “no support needs” and then proceed to give you absolutely nothing and then get surprised when you implode after six months.

[torstherapy]

[smt4]

[guild-against-radqueers]

Hey, thanks for making that transID alternatives post! I have something to add about why transID isn't the best term.

I was an adult during the 2010s Tumblr era, including the rise of MOGAI and otherkin on the platform. The first time I ever saw "trans [anything other than gender]" were on these very obvious troll blogs that were mocking transgender people and otherkin.

A very, very large portion of these blogs claimed, in addition to being transgender and transspecies, that they were transethnic or transabled, and if you didn't treat them as the race they claimed they wanted to be or the disability they were claiming, you were transphobic and no better than people who don't treat trans people as their genders.

I cannot overstate it that these people were trolls and not operating in good faith. Similarly to how the first use of the word "radqueer" was from outside the MOGAI community to mock the MOGAI community, the first use of what would now be recognized as "transID" came similarly from outside the community by people who want to mock it.

I have other complaints about comparing atypical forms of identity to queer identities by way of the "trans" prefix (transspecies is excluded because it has such a different history), but in terms of an older origin thing that others may not know as much about, yeah, that's something I remember that not everyone might know about.

-🐀

And!!! 🐀 is back at it again with the bangerposting!!

I did find out a page on the LGBTQIA+ wiki that pointed out that radqueer was actually derogatory against MOGAI people. Whether that is completely real or not, is yet to be fully uncovered by my own research… which is slower than snail, oops!!

Also, there is something ableist and straight up wrong about calling yourself trans-traumatized. I don’t know, but it kind of rings as “I have trauma I am not willing to accept yet” kind of energy that I honestly can’t even feel happy about. I think Augustine or someone else said it on a post, but being trans-abused or trans-traumatized is actually a cry for help, in my honest opinion.

I guess I should say something among the lines of: “I’m sorry that you went through it. It’s okay to be a victim, but you survived. You are here, standing. You don’t need a transID term, you just need a hug and comprehension.

But, I digress.

[a-very-bad-pun]

what the actual FUCK was fred durst thinking when he directed the fanatic? no seriously. what the hell went through his head at the time??

i didn't even realise this until recently, like a week ago i believe. and now ive just come to terms with the fact that fred durst directed the greatest ableist slop show ever.

how are people STILL villanising autistic folk?? what the fuck have WE ever done?? no, seriously. WHAT HAVE WE EVER DONE??

you're telling me hollywood filmed this project, reviewed, greenlit, and released it in cinemas for everybody to point and laugh and scrutinise us autistic folk who, may i remind you, are just trying to SURVIVE IN A WORLD THAT IS NOT BUILT WITH US IN MIND??

WE DON'T GO TO EXTREME LENGTHS TO BE ASSHATS. WE ARE REGULAR HUMAN BEINGS WITH JUST A DIFFERENCE IN OUR BRAIN CHEMISTRY, IT'S HOW WE WERE MADE.

NO WONDER THE FUCKING LIFE EXPECTANCY OF AN AUTISTIC PERSON IS 39-50, Y'ALL KEEP LAUGHING AT US LIKE WE'RE A GODDAMN PUPPET SHOW. TUG ON OUR STRINGS WHY DON'T YOU?? MESS WITH OUR HEADS. 'CAUSE YOU THINK IT'S FUNNY.

NO MATTER HOW UNCOMFORTABLE WE FEEL ABOUT THESE PORTRAYALS, Y'ALL DON'T CARE AND PRIORITISE BEING ABLEIST, SELF CENTRED ASSHATS, INSTEAD OF.. I DON'T KNOW, LISTENING TO US AND HELP ACCOMODATE US?! IT'S NOT OUR FAULT WE'RE FUCKING BUILT THIS WAY!!

like, jeez.. i just.. i want to hide in a hole and never fucking speak to anybody ever again. that's how ashamed i am.

i'm so sick of being represented like this.

WE ARE NOT VILLAINS. we're people.

[lightbulb-warning]

many such foolish cases of things left unsaid :)

[fictionkinfessions]

okay. so. i don't think it's specifically that people will only care if your source is Popular Enough, i think that people only care about/interact with sources they're familiar with and that they like, and kinfolk tend to focus on interacting with other kinfolk who share a source with them.

similarly, i don't think tumblr actually shows all posts under a tag when you search that tag, and especially with a bigger/more popular tag, you're more likely to see posts that already have notes, and you might not see posts with no notes/only a couple notes at all, which further amplifies popular/more well known sources, and makes it even harder to find stuff for obscure sources or sources that are less popular.

i don't think people are seeing your posts about you hurting, and then checking how popular your source is to decide if you're worthy of compassion. that would be fucked up, and i don't think we need to be vying for the attention of anyone who might pull that kind of thing.

people might not be seeing your posts at all, or they might feel like because they don't know your source, their responses would be out of place our unwelcome, and they don't want to intrude.

and to be clear, people still have a right to be upset about this. it sucks to reach out for help and get silence, especially while watching others who reach out get support and compassion. that really hurts and you deserve to have a place to vent about it.

m?